FabSwingers.com forum: Watching partner with somebody else

By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) don't have any particular desire to passively watch Hannah with another man, although I would consider it if it's something she wanted because we like to help each other realise their fantasies. I like an active experience we share together.

However, Hannah is really turned on by the idea of watching me with another woman. She says it's because I'm very good in bed and she would like to see it from the outside, like an out-of-body experience.

Is this a common desire for women in couples out there? Are there women who would enjoy being the woman being watched in that type of scenario? I mean conceptually, not specifically with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy watching one another with another. Just so erotic. Needs confidence in the relationship to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see Madge having fun but I need to be involved as well just watching does nothing for me that's why we prefer to meet couples so it's all round fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a fantasy we are hoping to fulfill very soon, i also find it will be such a turn on for me (mrs) the out of body experience quote is spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both like the other one being watched, yes.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

We both like to watch and can and have done it passively.

We also like to join in.

Its all about enjoying the moment and the people you are with.

We rarely do the same thing on consecutive meets.

Sometimes we full swap other times soft swap.

Sometimes it's just ladies Swapping.

Sometimes it he watches she other times she watches he.

It can be a meet up with a single guy, girl, couple or an orgy.

We just go with the flow and don't aim to hit one fantasy on any given night.

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

I get turned on being watched by hubby as I pleasure his wife

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

We love watching each other playing with others ..... but we have one little rule that our last fun is reserved for ourselves.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We both love watching the other one fucking someone else. You get a completely different perspective from when you're doing it together.

We didn't jump into it though, built up with several soft-swing swaps before we went all the way. She was a bit worried he'd think less of her when he saw her taking another cock, but the total opposite was true.

We both agreed we wanted to do this and talked about it a lot before it happened. We also talked about it afterwards. Keep talking, is our advice.

BUT you never know how you will really feel when you see your regular partner with someone else. We've met a couple who had to stop same room swinging and only do separate room play as couldn't handle the sight of his wife with another man. They enjoy swinging, but always apart.

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By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What about the ladies reading? How would you feel if you were approached by a couple wanting this scenario? I understand you need to like the man and want to get it on with him, but if that were the case, is this a scenario you would entertain or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get zero out of watching the Mrs with a single guy, but put me in a couples scenario and it's great. I struggle to get my head around it at times, but would never stand in her way if she wants to, I'd happily watch or join in, but just doesn't do it sexually for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I have no desire to passively watch my partner with another woman. I have no problem with it but I like to be having my own fun at the same time. I'm not a voyeur.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

I (Gem) love watching J with other women. I love the idea of a hot husband scenario (like hot wife but the other way around.) I have absolutely no desire to play with any men. But I totally love him playing with other women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me.

I can't say it will always be that way but the thought of sitting back and watching B with another woman, whilst I'm there, left out and sat on the sidelines makes me feel sick.

I know that's my own perception, that I'd be being left out - but for now, that's how it would feel to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me either. This is one of the things on fab I struggle to get my head around and I don’t think I ever will. I know it’s quite a common thing though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only ever played MMF so not had the opportunity to Watch Joe with another woman the thought hugely turns me on, but not sure the reality would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to watch C with another guy. We do most of our meets as MMF for that reason. We usually play for the other guy and C likes to see him get really hard, then she'll call him over and give his cock some attention. I love seeing her do that.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The wife has no desire to sleep with other men but watching her with another woman is very sexy.we tend to let the ladies have their fun before I join them.

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By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It doesn't seem like being watched with a man by the man's female partner appeals to many women. Nobody has put their hand up here. I imagine this will be a difficult one to achieve. I suspected that would be the case.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"It doesn't seem like being watched with a man by the man's female partner appeals to many women. Nobody has put their hand up here. I imagine this will be a difficult one to achieve. I suspected that would be the case."

It definitely intrigues me! Not something that we've tried yet but I'd be up for trying it.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching my wife with someone else. It’s not essential that I’m there. If the right guy came along and we are still looking. I wouldn’t mind if I was only there on rare occasions. Just the thoughts and not necessarilym the hubby being present turns us both on very much.

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By *igbrownthingMan
over a year ago

Travelling Professional

I love watching a couple play in front of me if that counts?

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I love watching a couple play in front of me if that counts?

Go to a club youl see a fair few

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By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Most of these comments are from people talking about watching their partner. I phrased the thread badly because I'm most interested to find out if there are any women who like the idea of being with a man who is not her partner, and being watched by his female partner who gets turned on by it. This is like being on the receiving end of a gender-swapped cuckold situation. That's a different scenario to what most responses are saying.

There's only been one positive response from that angle. I'm guessing it's not a popular thing for women to like the idea of, but I'd be interested in what women think of it, positive or negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckqueen couple here.

I love this type of role play. Nothing hotter than watching my man and another woman fucking. Love it when am tied up and forced to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me.

I can't say it will always be that way but the thought of sitting back and watching B with another woman, whilst I'm there, left out and sat on the sidelines makes me feel sick.

I know that's my own perception, that I'd be being left out - but for now, that's how it would feel to me.

This is how I feel!.... And we talk about it quite a bit! Tom has seen me with someone at a party but I haven't yet seen him and I'm really not sure how I will feel if it happens! At the same time I feel bad having done it myself and not being happy to let him do it!! It's one of those things I think new couples struggle with maybe more than those that have lots of experience swinging together do?...

PT x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have watched R on a few meets and joined in and she has now said she would like to see me with another woman for similar reasons OP. So don’t think it’s an uncommon fantasy.

What’s probably more uncommon is that I don’t have any particular desire to be with another, let alone be watched, so for now it’s staying a fantasy.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We have no issues with any of this. I'm an exhibitionist so love being watched but I also love watching my husband.

We don't get any kind of jealousy or such from it.

Being bi though I would it really awkward if all the guy wanted to do was watch me with his wife. I prefer situations where everyone is involved!!

I also want to explore me being cucked (female). He has no desire to be cucked he's the Dom but the thought of being made to watch him fuck someone else, etc is really hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me.

I can't say it will always be that way but the thought of sitting back and watching B with another woman, whilst I'm there, left out and sat on the sidelines makes me feel sick.

I know that's my own perception, that I'd be being left out - but for now, that's how it would feel to me.

PT x"

Were you with a man though or a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me.

I can't say it will always be that way but the thought of sitting back and watching B with another woman, whilst I'm there, left out and sat on the sidelines makes me feel sick.

I know that's my own perception, that I'd be being left out - but for now, that's how it would feel to me.

PT x"

I agree, I admit I think it stems from my own insecurities, and also from my lack of trust in other people (not B)

I can picture him with another woman alone in my head and it's uncomfortable but I'm ok with that, providing it's mute. I can't handle it when I can imagine sounds, that's too much for me and I have to put the thoughts out of my head.

If I'm involved I'm sounds as a pound although I may have the odd internal wobble or mini panic, they are things I know will diminish in time providing we play within our rules which we do. I wholeheartedly admit I'm learning to trust in a different way, and these things take time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To see your partner from another perspective is so hot and comparing notes after mmmmmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me.

I can't say it will always be that way but the thought of sitting back and watching B with another woman, whilst I'm there, left out and sat on the sidelines makes me feel sick.

I know that's my own perception, that I'd be being left out - but for now, that's how it would feel to me.

PT x

Were you with a man though or a woman? "

I was with a man!..and a woman at one point! So he's crossed that bridge of seeing it happen.... I haven't yet!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me.

I can't say it will always be that way but the thought of sitting back and watching B with another woman, whilst I'm there, left out and sat on the sidelines makes me feel sick.

I know that's my own perception, that I'd be being left out - but for now, that's how it would feel to me.

PT x

I agree, I admit I think it stems from my own insecurities, and also from my lack of trust in other people (not B)

Agree its down to my insecurities really and the more we chat about it all the more I'm confident that it will be ok! I would want to be there though and involved somehow!...not sure I could cope knowing it was happening somewhere and I wasn't there!....but in time I'm sure this over thinking will get better as we grow and evolve as a couple! Communication is the key and not being afraid to say how you're actually feeling rather than just going along with it!! It can be a right old roller-coaster ride at times eh, but all good fun!!

PT x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved watching my ex wife with another guy. Happened a few times, was so horny see her blow him and then watch him fuck her.

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