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By *rKinkyClimber OP   Man
over a year ago

Ivybridge

I think my neighbor from a few doors down is on fab but I'm a couple of years out of her age range so can't message her.

Trying to build up the courage to take our conversations when we bump into each other to a more flirty level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what makes you think she's on fab?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Geographical proximity is no guarantee of attraction. And in many cases people don't like to shit on their own doorsteps. Block her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Geographical proximity is no guarantee of attraction. And in many cases people don't like to shit on their own doorsteps. Block her. "

Had a social a couple of months ago with a women less than 5 minutes walk away, we clicked but she felt I was too close and so we've never taken it further. Still friends on here.

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not sure what makes you think that but forget all reference / thoughts of Fab & just think of her as a neighbour you want to get to know more. If it's meant to be then it'll work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my neighbor from a few doors down is on fab but I'm a couple of years out of her age range so can't message her.

Trying to build up the courage to take our conversations when we bump into each other to a more flirty level."

Post an A4 sized printout, of your profile through her letterbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo too close!

I regret a meet with a lady only 1 mile away, during our post sex chat we discovered our sons were in the same year at secondary school and I keep seeing her in Sainsbury’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you always wanted to flirt with her or has it just been since you realised she may be on fab?

I’m sure if she wanted to flirt with you, she would.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Back where we used to live I messaged a couple soon after they joined here, but didn't get initially get a reply...

....then, some weeks later, I received a message from the woman, who was looking to play alone. When I called her, it turned out she lived on the road parallel to ours - if it wasn't for the houses opposite both of us, I could have seen hers...

....that discovery led to an impromptu invite for coffee, which developed into me getting a BJ, followed the next morning by the first "free now?" text leading to some memorable playdates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be good or bad. If you’re looking for a one off its a tad risky. Like mentioned above, you don’t want to keep bumping in to them everywhere you go. Plus age ranges are invariably there for a reason.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You will do what you want but i have learnt to my cost to be very very wary of such situations...

I know a number of my neighbours are on here including my next door neighbour..

I have blocked a number of them as its fraught with danger...Take care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a possibility!! I met my neighbour on fab, I didn't know he was my neighbour, he knew I was his though lol. We had a great year of meeting last year one of my closest friends now and one of the best things to come out of fab for me (oh and so convinient to!! ) just be aware though that some people can become defensive about local people knowing they swing and where they live etc. Good luck

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Several years ago we arranged to meet a guy at his after chatting for some time and he gave us his address....only to find he lived in the same village as us and in the next road, we respectfully declined.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I don't see the problem. Why is meeting for mutual consensual sex a problem just because he/she is a neighbour? I see people in real "vanilla" life who I've had sex with and am on friendly terms with, no awkwardness whatsoever. I have slept with a couple of men living just a street or two away. If our paths cross at ASDA or somewhere else, it's a pleasant hi, how are you (or sometimes even nothing if they're with their partners).

To be honest, I'd probably be wary of DATING my neighbour in case the relationship went bad - then you'd have to cross paths with someone with whom you have baggage with. But sex is just that, sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem. Why is meeting for mutual consensual sex a problem just because he/she is a neighbour? I see people in real "vanilla" life who I've had sex with and am on friendly terms with, no awkwardness whatsoever. I have slept with a couple of men living just a street or two away. If our paths cross at ASDA or somewhere else, it's a pleasant hi, how are you (or sometimes even nothing if they're with their partners).

To be honest, I'd probably be wary of DATING my neighbour in case the relationship went bad - then you'd have to cross paths with someone with whom you have baggage with. But sex is just that, sex. "

All this is a very valid point.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"I don't see the problem. Why is meeting for mutual consensual sex a problem just because he/she is a neighbour? I see people in real "vanilla" life who I've had sex with and am on friendly terms with, no awkwardness whatsoever. I have slept with a couple of men living just a street or two away. If our paths cross at ASDA or somewhere else, it's a pleasant hi, how are you (or sometimes even nothing if they're with their partners).

To be honest, I'd probably be wary of DATING my neighbour in case the relationship went bad - then you'd have to cross paths with someone with whom you have baggage with. But sex is just that, sex. "

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By *ick111Man
over a year ago

Swindon


"I think my neighbor from a few doors down is on fab but I'm a couple of years out of her age range so can't message her.

Trying to build up the courage to take our conversations when we bump into each other to a more flirty level.

Post an A4 sized printout, of your profile through her letterbox.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I think my neighbor from a few doors down is on fab but I'm a couple of years out of her age range so can't message her.

Trying to build up the courage to take our conversations when we bump into each other to a more flirty level."

Why don't you just ask her if she'd like to go for drink and see how things progress from there?

We've met someone in the past who lives not to far from us. Had a good laugh few drinks and a bit of fun. You never know were it could lead.

Just because your a few years out of her profile ages doesn't necessarily mean that it's the same in the real life world.

Mr2

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By *heklangsCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think my neighbor from a few doors down is on fab but I'm a couple of years out of her age range so can't message her.

Trying to build up the courage to take our conversations when we bump into each other to a more flirty level."

One of our neighbours is too..lol

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

we have a guy that we know drinks in our local with his mrs [she not know about him up lay byes ]just say hi perfectly normal .if you stay in the swinging game long enough it gonna happen eh

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

Not on here but on another site (one with dar in its name) there is a 'straight' neighbour of mine showing his cock to all, posting pics with his family (including minors) and his address clearly. I've always declined his requests as he's creepy as and the kid pics worries me a lot.

Problem is that the app shows location and often he's less than 20 feet away. I ccan't see he app without showing my location. So no more app, no more weirdo neighbour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I got a message from a guy in my village I was tempted but restrained purley down to kids finding out

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"Not on here but on another site (one with dar in its name) there is a 'straight' neighbour of mine showing his cock to all, posting pics with his family (including minors) and his address clearly. I've always declined his requests as he's creepy as and the kid pics worries me a lot.

Problem is that the app shows location and often he's less than 20 feet away. I ccan't see he app without showing my location. So no more app, no more weirdo neighbour "

Why don’t you just block him ?

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We would quite like to meet people close by . But we are here to make friends and have nights out with people as well as have sex. And having people down the road would make planning nights out a lot easier.

What reasons do you have for not wanting to meet local people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not on here but on another site (one with dar in its name) there is a 'straight' neighbour of mine showing his cock to all, posting pics with his family (including minors) and his address clearly. I've always declined his requests as he's creepy as and the kid pics worries me a lot.

Problem is that the app shows location and often he's less than 20 feet away. I ccan't see he app without showing my location. So no more app, no more weirdo neighbour

Why don’t you just block him ? "

They love a block on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would quite like to meet people close by . But we are here to make friends and have nights out with people as well as have sex. And having people down the road would make planning nights out a lot easier.

What reasons do you have for not wanting to meet local people ? "

I use to go out in Lincoln... Just putting a random pointless fact out there

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"We would quite like to meet people close by . But we are here to make friends and have nights out with people as well as have sex. And having people down the road would make planning nights out a lot easier.

What reasons do you have for not wanting to meet local people ?

I use to go out in Lincoln... Just putting a random pointless fact out there "

It’s still exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would quite like to meet people close by . But we are here to make friends and have nights out with people as well as have sex. And having people down the road would make planning nights out a lot easier.

What reasons do you have for not wanting to meet local people ?

I use to go out in Lincoln... Just putting a random pointless fact out there

It’s still exactly the same "

Pissed up students, like kinder garden ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would find it sooo convenient. Life is simple guys, dont complicate it. If you meet and fuck, great. If you meet in the streets just be civil and respectful. If she invites you over again, then fuck again. If you see her on the street... be pokite and respectful. Another shocker, people fuck. Its what we do for fun and reproduction, not anything to be ashamed of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice, don't even go there with that one, and certainly don't "shit where you eat" as the old saying goes.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Get round tap door you mard arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel


"Not on here but on another site (one with dar in its name) there is a 'straight' neighbour of mine showing his cock to all, posting pics with his family (including minors) and his address clearly. I've always declined his requests as he's creepy as and the kid pics worries me a lot.

Problem is that the app shows location and often he's less than 20 feet away. I ccan't see he app without showing my location. So no more app, no more weirdo neighbour

Why don’t you just block him ? "

The problem is he sets up new accounts and seems to know everyone on the app within a mile or two. So just booking him doesn't stop him locating me.

Is sure he followed me on the train one day. Real odd bod.

Why couldn't have been a hot bi bbw couple is there 40 or older?

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

Sorry for the typos, my phone is small, my eyes are smaller and my fingers are big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would quite like to meet people close by . But we are here to make friends and have nights out with people as well as have sex. And having people down the road would make planning nights out a lot easier.

What reasons do you have for not wanting to meet local people ? "
Wish you were my locals!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just send that profile a message saying i think your my neighbour and if it turns out they are and your get a meet happy days and if it’s not then you’re neighbors will never even no

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