FabSwingers.com forum: discreet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

recently went to a club and saw some one i know, we let on and said the usual stuff. any one else had this scenario, and how do you handle it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FREAKED OUT!!!

My first time in a club I bumped into an ex boss, who was married etc. Put me off clubing, realy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it, you were both there for the same reasons. That in itself should guarantee mutual respect and discretion I'd hope.

Wolf

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I wouldn't worry about it, you were both there for the same reasons. That in itself should guarantee mutual respect and discretion I'd hope.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bumped into someone who used to be in my chain of command. We nodded hi to each other, walked off in opposite directions then I spent half the night thinking "oh my Godddddddd" before him and his wife approached me and reassured me that what happened there, stayed there etc I did feel a little better but I also left not long after - it had kind of killed the night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"recently went to a club and saw some one i know, we let on and said the usual stuff. any one else had this scenario, and how do you handle it? "

no as i doubt i would know either of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont bother me at all

Pretty much anyone that knows me in real life knows what i do anyway so it cant really get out lol

Also why the panic??

They are obviously there for the same reasons as you

I cant really understand the panic i see in some forum posts

Maybe different if they were just passing the club as you came out

But not if ya both stark bollock naked and balls deep xx

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

not exactly the same situation but did recently see my ex bfs mum in there with someone not her hubby and we both looked at each other and didnt say a word to each other but i would never disclose this to her son he is not the kind of guy who is into this lifestyle he freaked out when i suggested it to him when we were together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not exactly the same situation but did recently see my ex bfs mum in there with someone not her hubby and we both looked at each other and didnt say a word to each other but i would never disclose this to her son he is not the kind of guy who is into this lifestyle he freaked out when i suggested it to him when we were together"

Maybe he was worried he might bump into his Mum and it would ruin sex for him for ever! hah

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By *9MuppetMan
over a year ago

Bath...ish area

My first time at one club was when I was in the Forces. I went in and the next bloke in was one of my seniors.

We had a chat and swapped some experiences. I saw him a couple more times there as well as socially at Forces events. No word was mentioned about the clubs.

I saw a bloke in a shop who I had spoken to in a club. He spotted me and was almost running out of the shop in case I said anything - not that I ever would.

All well and good saying that you are safe as you are all there for the same reason and neither party will say anything. I know a bloke who was seen in a club by a couple - they told his wife for him. Likewise, I was outed via someone from this site who saw my profile and decided my mother should know what I get up to!!

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