FabSwingers.com forum: Getting her started

By *ardleeds OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

So how did you introduced your gf / wife into the swinging world?

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Just talked about our fantasies and it started from there

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I got some wd40 and a bottle of vodka

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got some wd40 and a bottle of vodka "

Bloody pervert

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I got some wd40 and a bottle of vodka "

dont tell me "you drank the WD40 and squirted the vodka up her flue"!!!!!!!! lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Talk to her.

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By *ardleeds OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I've tried dirty talk during sex sex toys porn just need to take next step but she says no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've tried dirty talk during sex sex toys porn just need to take next step but she says no. "

Well then you leave it at that then.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I've tried dirty talk during sex sex toys porn just need to take next step but she says no. "

Then you have your answer.

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I've tried dirty talk during sex sex toys porn just need to take next step but she says no. "

If she's not into the idea, you need to respect that. No amount of persuading will make her want to do it & if it does, she's likely doing it just to please you & shut you up. Both massively wrong reasons! She needs to want to do it for herself!

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I knew that she wanted another cock after talking during sex, it was a big turn on for her,so I set it up without her knowing the result was so horny.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I've tried dirty talk during sex sex toys porn just need to take next step but she says no. "

if she says NO then leave it at that, its not for everyone and if you push it, it will only end in tears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a club. Sauna/jacuzzi. She loved it so relaxing. Three visits later and a guy asked if we fancied trying a private room, and from then on there was no looking back.

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By *ardleeds OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes I know the answer just wondered how u all started off sharing etc.

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By *tunna13Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I knew that she wanted another cock after talking during sex, it was a big turn on for her,so I set it up without her knowing the result was so horny. "
haha tell her she can have mine anytime

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes I know the answer just wondered how u all started off sharing etc."

With you saying "just need to take the next step" we thought you were wanting suggestions of how to persuade her further. Apologies!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes I know the answer just wondered how u all started off sharing etc."

We talked about it for a very long time. We have continued to talk about it throughout.

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

We talked about it during sex, and realised it turned us both on, so I organised a naked massage and she loved it, we’re not hardened swingers but given the right time and place we’re both up for it, the reclaim sex is an amazing feeling

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By *illyDudeMan
over a year ago

norh east

Was open and honest from the outset. She knows swinging is a big social thing for me and a big part of my identity so and as long as I'm honest and comunitive she's happy

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I knew that she wanted another cock after talking during sex, it was a big turn on for her,so I set it up without her knowing the result was so horny. haha tell her she can have mine anytime

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

He didn't introduce me to swinging. We discovered it together and still do 15 plus years later.

T x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I mentioned this site and she had a look, then said, ‘lets go to a club and see what it’s like’.

Found out later she had been looking at a lot of bi porn.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

He didn't

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