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By *ung_BiGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham and Newport

Does anyone else have this problem? Even with a raging hardon, once the condom goes on it squeezes the life out of my cock. It's still hard but not fully. Is it something to do with durex condoms maybe?

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You may need bigger ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its squeezing the life out it then sounds like its the condom thats too small

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

its probably more to do with your mind to be honest

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By *ung_BiGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham and Newport

Mind / condom, maybe a bit of both lol.

Years ago I used to use Jiffy condoms and they fit really nicely. Not sure if they're still available though, haven't seen then around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had similar to this, not that I'm saying I'm long but i am girthier than average. Always found with normal condoms they squeezed too much so were difficult to get on and more likely to roll off so don't stay hard but i changed to a larger size which fitted more comfortably its been less of an issue

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By *ung_BiGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham and Newport

Dave what brand do you use? I'll give em a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the right size... Even I know this and my cock is made of bloody plastic!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’m with you - similar feeling / result.

I always thought ‘one size fits all’ ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Experiment with a few different ones when you're alone to get yourself used to them.

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By *ung_BiGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham and Newport

Me too. I always assumed they were stretchy enough for all cocks. The XXL ones seemed to be a gimmick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mates Skyn XL

I'm not saying it will solve the issue but for years I'd always assumed condoms were one size fit all and the variations were rubber thickness, strategic bumps and flavours. It wasnt until i started looking up info and asking advice as well that i realised there were different sizes and ones i had were too tight

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

hotel in teeside once a month

When everyone is saying your condoms are to small. That's gotta be an ego boost

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By *ung_BiGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham and Newport

All these years I've been ignorant lol!

Thanks for the advice

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By *ung_BiGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham and Newport

Haha it's what you do with it that counts

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

FFS i assumed in my last post you were using the right sized ones!!!! didnt think anyone these days thought there was only 1 size!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo try Skyns Large. I use those and they don’t squeeze the life out of it.

Look at British Condoms online. You can get sample packs to try different sizes.

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By *ung_BiGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham and Newport

I'll be doing that then. Will be a fun night lol

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By *exy Sarah and MichaelCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

A blue pill or 3 helps !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Experiment with a few different ones when you're alone to get yourself used to them."

I can't afford to have posh wanks these days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the right size... Even I know this and my cock is made of bloody plastic! "

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By *alaciousCurvesWoman
over a year ago

Gainsborough

This site is a good one to use https://www.mycondom.com They have loads of choice and they sell single ones so you can buy lots of different singles to try! Have fun finding the right one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha it's what you do with it that counts "

Only once it's got a condom on it tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too small and your cock looks like a bank robber.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A blue pill or 3 helps ! "

You'll need more than three to fill a condom unless they're suppositories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like I need to do some shopping!

I've always struggled with the damn things!

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By *3viantMan
over a year ago

charge

Some water based lube is always a good shout with condoms. It should help make it feel more natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some water based lube is always a good shout with condoms. It should help make it feel more natural "

I presume you mean on the outside of the condom and not the inside? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this with some of the durex ones. Just made me feel numb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else have this problem? Even with a raging hardon, once the condom goes on it squeezes the life out of my cock. It's still hard but not fully. Is it something to do with durex condoms maybe?"

Buy a larger condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me too. I always assumed they were stretchy enough for all cocks. The XXL ones seemed to be a gimmick "
you're 36???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else have this problem? Even with a raging hardon, once the condom goes on it squeezes the life out of my cock. It's still hard but not fully. Is it something to do with durex condoms maybe?"

Yes totally get this sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs here but hubby uses and would highly recommend the skins XL ones ....as condoms go they feel quite natural for both and also good for people with latex allergies. We have tried a few and these are by far the best we have tried.xx

Mrs xx

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We use Passante Kingsize. Don't buy them at Boots - massively cheaper online, even on Amazon.

Forgive me, but given you didn't know there were different sizes... you are putting them on correctly aren't you? You need to fully unroll them or they won't be able to stretch properly.

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By *3viantMan
over a year ago

charge


"Some water based lube is always a good shout with condoms. It should help make it feel more natural

I presume you mean on the outside of the condom and not the inside? Lol"

Yes! Even with the most eager woman and lashings of heavy foreplay lube is a game changer when it comes to the feel of condoms for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some water based lube is always a good shout with condoms. It should help make it feel more natural

I presume you mean on the outside of the condom and not the inside? Lol

Yes! Even with the most eager woman and lashings of heavy foreplay lube is a game changer when it comes to the feel of condoms for me."

Good because for a moment i thought you were trying to suggest using lube to make it easier to put an overly tight condom on which is what this thread is about, not the subsequent use after it is on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still occasionally go softer when I use a condom but I found abit practice by having a few "posh wanks" helps. That and using the right size.

Practice makes perfect

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By *3viantMan
over a year ago

charge


"Yes! Even with the most eager woman and lashings of heavy foreplay lube is a game changer when it comes to the feel of condoms for me.

Good because for a moment i thought you were trying to suggest using lube to make it easier to put an overly tight condom on which is what this thread is about, not the subsequent use after it is on lol"

I've clearly missed the thread from the start. It's no surprise I was more interested in what you do with it once you put them on

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By *reelanderMan
over a year ago

rotherham

Having a thick girth cock the normal size condoms do crush the moment and its a lesson learned to always carry the correct fitting ones as most clubs just provide the normal size ones.having a thick girth takes a bit longer to get the blood flowing into ur length to make it hard and last thing u want is to kill it in minutes with a overtight condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any joy with finding and trying a larger condom Hung_BiGuy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the my size condoms first they come in about 5 sizes and are measured for you.

Unfortunately I'm latex free and have to have skyns which only come in two sizes. Struggled to get the regular one on a previous partner but the large was a little too big. Didn't see him for long so wasn't a issue . But he was surprised that they came in two sizes

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I have the same problem and I would say I was about average in size which is why I don't offer anal as anexpectation

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By *ung_BiGuy OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham and Newport

I got the Skyn large ones - amazing to say the least! And they're made of synthetic latex, it feels like you haven't got one on even though it's mega tough. Where have you been all my life? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to hear its working for you

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I feel absolutely nothing when wearing condoms .. I’ve tried them all ..

I do manage to stay hard though and can fuck for a long time .. but can’t cum wearing them..

But when I was active on this site condoms are a necessity..

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"I got the Skyn large ones - amazing to say the least! And they're made of synthetic latex, it feels like you haven't got one on even though it's mega tough. Where have you been all my life? Lol"

I’ve bought some Skyns in large size. I’m looking forward to testing them out now.

I know it’s pathetic to get to my age not knowing you could get different sizes, I assumed it was one size fits all and that reference to bigger was in jest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use the right size... Even I know this and my cock is made of bloody plastic! "
the things they use plastic for gosh I don't know

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London

New pic required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a hand squeezing your cock I doubt you'd mind so much. Cock training, get ones that fit and re route your brain to thinking condoms mean sex and orgasms. You want the hard on building whilst your in the chemist paying for them, and the beads of sweat across your brow, get it on, and get it in. Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the problem with sex..it is all in the mind..(initially)...

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By *3viantMan
over a year ago

charge


"If it was a hand squeezing your cock I doubt you'd mind so much. Cock training, get ones that fit and re route your brain to thinking condoms mean sex and orgasms. You want the hard on building whilst your in the chemist paying for them, and the beads of sweat across your brow, get it on, and get it in. Lovely "

Wise beyond your years

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I agree with using “my.size” condoms, they come in various sizes.

Amazon sell packets containing different sizes to help in choosing the correct fit.

Not only did I find the perfect size but Mrs Lincs & myself had great fun trying them.

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