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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not many women seem to look for men under 30 on here, it’s almost impossible aha, not sure how to improve chances, pictures profile etc, not had a meet yet but nobody seems to want to meet a younger unverified man

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By *appychappyCoolMan
over a year ago

Bangor

Start praying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

24 so always miss out on the minimum 25 years old

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hah exactly under 30 seems to be hopeless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started at 22, it takes time but eventually you can start chatting with people that like younger guys or are willing to overlook because you've become friends with then

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids


"Not many women seem to look for men under 30 on here, it’s almost impossible aha, not sure how to improve chances, pictures profile etc, not had a meet yet but nobody seems to want to meet a younger unverified man "

@ Domenico If you wanna meet for a drink / chill n chat mate (I work from our Leeds office most weeks) Im happy to veri you, I know what its like mate too me ages to get my 1st veri. DM me mate

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's tough for all single men here for the first few months at least and you all face tough competition as you are high in number.

I prefer younger guys, so keep focused on looking for people like me, via our preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not much easier for older men either. Had no luck so far on here.

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By *odkajemWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Speaking only for myself...

I will not go more than 15 years younger cos otherwise I could legally be your mum *vommmmmmm*

Nor unverified, age unrelated. But after a year break I'm really feeling the age difference so now prefer around my age, but exceptions slip through

Good luck, you'll be fine now you have a veri!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Look for any advice offered to other single guys, including how to improve profiles, as these may help you.

Stay positive, taking control of what you can, which will increase your potential success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably the unverified part putting people off with so many couples having had a problem with a single guy at some point it's a real risk to invite one around .Go to a club meet people get a few verifications and the meets will come x

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Funny, I read a thread the other day complaining the opposite, that 45 was a cut off point. I'm my experience I tend to agree that it's probably harder for the under 30s but I think a lot has to do with the age of the women your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He'll be back.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not much easier for older men either. Had no luck so far on here."

3 weeks is nothing.

For a start this is a swinging site. Not instashag.

Age doesn't necessarily come into it, but obviously people have their own preferences.

Tweak your profile.

Go to a club? An awful lot of people there will be on here.

and even if you don't get to play, you're likely to get a veri. Which is always a bonus when looking for people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And he's gone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not much easier for older men either. Had no luck so far on here."

Will repeat my advice from your thread. Be patient, took 2 months before I had my first social and 6 months before met someone for sex. You need to put in the hours to get noticed (I don't which maybe why it was 6 months) and need to engage with people here, in chat (go on cam, let people see you're real) and get to clubs or group socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're looking for hookups, simple, nsa sex meets, join tinder or pof. You will have better luck on there.

If you want to embrace the world of swinging, multiple partners, group sex etc, get your arse to a club. You will find you get far more interest there.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're looking for hookups, simple, nsa sex meets, join tinder or pof. You will have better luck on there.

If you want to embrace the world of swinging, multiple partners, group sex etc, get your arse to a club. You will find you get far more interest there.

Good luck "

Found PoF hard work and more spambots on there than here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're looking for hookups, simple, nsa sex meets, join tinder or pof. You will have better luck on there.

If you want to embrace the world of swinging, multiple partners, group sex etc, get your arse to a club. You will find you get far more interest there.

Good luck

Found PoF hard work and more spambots on there than here! "

Really?! I don't know a single guys who struggles to get laid on those sites!

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone


"And he's gone.... "

Guess his girlfriend found out about his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And he's gone....

Guess his girlfriend found out about his profile "

LOL

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

I tend to go for guys who are a bit younger than me because I find it easier to chat to them. But it very much depends on the individual - some guys are quite mature for their age

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Relatively easy solution, go to a club talk to people maybe even have a play get tips on how people have done there profile. Meeting in a club also gives people piece of mind that your not a total doosh

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Maybe his Mum found out lol

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