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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A lot of profiles have the 18 to 99 age range, some have 30 to 50 or 40 to 60. But I've noticed some with very specific ages ranges and was wondering how do people arrive at these ages?

Me, I have 18 to 99, but being honest seeing I have a 27 year old daughter, I'd seriously consider not meeting anyone under 30. But recently I saw a profile that had 34 to 53, that's pretty specific. The lower age could be for a similar reason to mine but, where does 53 come into it? What happens after 53 that makes someone too old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have 58 as our upper age limit. Chosen because 55 is about our upper age in reality but don't want to rule someone out just because they are a year or so older xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have 58 as our upper age limit. Chosen because 55 is about our upper age in reality but don't want to rule someone out just because they are a year or so older xx"

Why not go for 60 though, probably the OCD in me but I tend to round up.

And I'm 55 by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

60 seemed too far to stretch it completely get the OCD I struggle with odd numbers xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"60 seemed too far to stretch it completely get the OCD I struggle with odd numbers xx"

Phew, glad it's not just me

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I've always hung around with people older than me, so I'll go 2 years younger but up to 10 years older than me

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A lot of profiles have the 18 to 99 age range, some have 30 to 50 or 40 to 60. But I've noticed some with very specific ages ranges and was wondering how do people arrive at these ages?

Me, I have 18 to 99, but being honest seeing I have a 27 year old daughter, I'd seriously consider not meeting anyone under 30. But recently I saw a profile that had 34 to 53, that's pretty specific. The lower age could be for a similar reason to mine but, where does 53 come into it? What happens after 53 that makes someone too old? "

Mine just shows what range I'm comfortable with to be honest. I have had trysts with older/younger but they were exceptions to the rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son is 20 so I couldn’t fathom meeting anyone in their twenties

I really do prefer older guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because that’s who I’m attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because that’s who I’m attracted to. "

Whenever I see a profile that has 18-99 it seems to me like ‘any holes a goal’ to them, and they’ll fuck anyone.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I have a very narrow age range,like now, when I want to reduce my messages but not hide my profile. Other people possibly do it for similar reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine if we could add the half.

Looking for someone between 35 and a half and 47 and a half

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My son is 20 so I couldn’t fathom meeting anyone in their twenties

I really do prefer older guys though"

*checks flights to Scotland*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are 18 - 99 because they don't realise you can customise them... i don't think there are too many, if any 99 yr olds on here..

Mine are specific because i know what i want

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

With dom guys, i prefer them 50-70.

With sexy tgirl sluts who want to be dommed, I prefer them 18-22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to keep it at the max range, because I play online and like voyeurs, age is really only a number. Meets would be different but then I would update it to reflect this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because that’s who I’m attracted to.

Whenever I see a profile that has 18-99 it seems to me like ‘any holes a goal’ to them, and they’ll fuck anyone. "

Or those that look at the person as a whole rather than narrowing it down to some arbitrary attributes.

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

Real age, or fab age?

Ours are genuine, but a couple we have previously met just slightly older than us keep rejoining with new accounts and they are now 10 years younger!

So pinch of salt required on that filter...

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London


"Because that’s who I’m attracted to.

Whenever I see a profile that has 18-99 it seems to me like ‘any holes a goal’ to them, and they’ll fuck anyone. "

Age is not an important requirement for me... definitely not after any hole!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real age, or fab age "

Ha ha, fab age? I had heard of fab straight but this is a new one! Why would someone lie about there age. It doesn't bode well for the rest of their character...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gone slightly off track with my original question. I can understand picking decades - so 30 to 60 - but why pick 34 to 57....it's so random, what's special about 34 and 57? Why not 33 or 35, why not 56 or 58? Does that 1 year over make a difference?

Just seems that number has significance but why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 35 to 50 on my single profile. This is because I prefer to meet men younger than me aged up to 50 but not younger than 35. I have found I enjoy sex more with this age group x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My upper is 51 as im a young 45.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real age, or fab age

Ha ha, fab age? I had heard of fab straight but this is a new one! Why would someone lie about there age. It doesn't bode well for the rest of their character..."

Lots of people lie about their ag. Some even say in their profile text what their real age is. Profile age: 39, text says 50!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gone slightly off track with my original question. I can understand picking decades - so 30 to 60 - but why pick 34 to 57....it's so random, what's special about 34 and 57? Why not 33 or 35, why not 56 or 58? Does that 1 year over make a difference?

Just seems that number has significance but why?"

Why is it random? Any age they pick, someone will be complaining about it. Why 50 and not 51?

Because so many people lie, the real age they are looking for may be different. - 60 year old men lie and say they're 50. So women put 49 as their upper age to avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"60 seemed too far to stretch it completely get the OCD I struggle with odd numbers xx"

Odd numbers are evil!!

Other than in the context of a 3some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 21-60 as a guide. It isnt locked in. I prefer 35+ but I've met some pretty amazing women my own age. If they are mature and we get on, then I'm happy. Willing to give anybody a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gone slightly off track with my original question. I can understand picking decades - so 30 to 60 - but why pick 34 to 57....it's so random, what's special about 34 and 57? Why not 33 or 35, why not 56 or 58? Does that 1 year over make a difference?

Just seems that number has significance but why?"

I selected minus 15 years to plus 15 so although it seems random it is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having met people with photos at least 20 years out of date, I'm well aware of Fab Ages! Good sex doesn't have an age limit - but I don't meet people who might know my kids!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now for me, the age thing provides a problem

With ladies, I prefer my own age group

With guys, I prefer much younger

So my age range has both ends

Generally though, guys over 35 wouldn't interest me and ladies under 35 wouldn't either

So ideally I need two age limits - 1 for each sex

That said, I have met outside of my preferred ranges, so they are loose

People excite me - get under my skin and you'll always be more than the sum of your age

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The reverse complaint is, why don't you put your ages up when you have a birthday?

... Because I don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 30-55. But I'm more likely to be attracted to the older rather younger limit. Honestly I'm 45 I had a very hard paper round.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Because I know who I am attracted to, simple as that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People often forget that the age range on their profile is the age range they must fuck- it's a swinging site. So if my age range is 35 to 50 and a 45 year old messages, I have to arrange a meet.

Pick your age range wisely, people.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"People often forget that the age range on their profile is the age range they must fuck- it's a swinging site. So if my age range is 35 to 50 and a 45 year old messages, I have to arrange a meet.

Pick your age range wisely, people. "

Lol. My age range is the sweet spot of, messages seem to be less bad in that range than outside it.

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