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By *ilentnoise OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Hi ladies, I'm curious about the things that put you off single men here on Fab. What kind of things on their profiles or in their messages annoy you the most or just leave you thinking "hell no!"?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Them saying ‘it’s a sex site ffs’ when critiqued about their message.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics for a gallery.

‘Hi’

‘Hun’

‘Any luck on here?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Wow’

‘Can I ask you a question?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facial hair x

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Them saying ‘it’s a sex site ffs’ when critiqued about their message....."

o yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Can I impregnate you?’

No. No one is that talented

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Where do I start? Lol

Any reference to emptying their balls.

Calling women sluts.

Bareback pics.

Offering to slam or hammer a woman.

Sending a message describing what they want to do to me.

Having a ten word profile, 17 cock pics, and whining that they can’t get meets.

Claiming fab women are fakes because they can’t get a meet (see above!).

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Tacky user names

Cock profile pics and the rest all the same

Txt spk

Nope ... definitely no!

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!! "

I like how he said they want to be able to fuck you wherever & whenever YOU want! Doing you a favour right there!

Wonder if they'd be so enthusiastic if the tables were turned & the hen-do arranged the equivalent?! Suspect not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me ... They fail to read even just the first line of my profile or send me cock pics. Why do I want 20 cock picks ... How many angles of your cock can you possibly take.

Oh and then there are the guys who want to be my slave/toilet/cluck/fuck me now/make no effort with their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!! "

And you gave the stag doo a miss lololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about make it interesting and tell us what pet peeves women have about other women on this site... works both ways ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly. "

The gorgeous ones attract idiots unfortunately hunni xx

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!!

I like how he said they want to be able to fuck you wherever & whenever YOU want! Doing you a favour right there!

Wonder if they'd be so enthusiastic if the tables were turned & the hen-do arranged the equivalent?! Suspect not! "

I know...I should of been honoured really. Out of everyone they could of messaged....lol

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!!

And you gave the stag doo a miss lololol"

Yeah, wasnt enough stags lmao

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Hows yous

Hows youz

Wuu2

Bbz wuu2

Hows youz finding ere..........

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By *oolstewieMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!! "

OMG! If he wants that he should go to Adultwork website.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Laziness, entitlement, and tackiness, in a nutshell.

Not bothering to read my profile (or comply with it, ffs I just want to know why me), sending stupid/ inane/ disgusting/ diabolical messages, expecting me to meet immediately, making demands of me (that no I don't/ won't make of anyone else), thinking they can argue their way into a meet/ changing my boundaries/ changing my body, etc. They also think that a crap profile with nothing interesting (or site support: look at you moneybags ) means they deserve a shag. Refusing to consider my perspective (or being unable to). Manky cock pics from every angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!! "

Wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tacky user names

Cock profile pics and the rest all the same

Txt spk

Nope ... definitely no!"

I saw a guy called 'minge mangler' on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Bites tongue. Walks away*

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Want it ? " 5 cock pics attached

"Hows you ?"

"What you up to ?"

"Hows fab treating you ?"

Are probably the most recieved messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys whose face pics look like either a police lineup mugshot, a serial killer psycho nutjob, an instagrim fucked up monstrosity with doggy ears and a pout, or the worst attempt at resting bitch face.

Fellas! For the love of god, SMILE. Look friendly and approachable!

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By *erts_darlings1Couple
over a year ago

watford

When I had a single profile,I hated

Respectful chatty messages.

Guys that read my profile and commented on bits in it.

Sending a clothed tastful photo only after being asked.

Understanding when I said thanks but no thanks politely.

Understanding when I suggested a social meet, I meant a social meet.

ffs, guys didn't realise I wanted to be bombarded with messages.

They could just come round and fuck me because they were in the area.

I wanted messages from blank profiles.

I wanted your seed.

Messages that just said "Hi"

I hope guys are less imaginative these days so you don't have to put up with polite, respectful guys. Who do they think they are?

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

most can't read, and the ones that can read can't comprehend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ladies, I'm curious about the things that put you off single men here on Fab. What kind of things on their profiles or in their messages annoy you the most or just leave you thinking "hell no!"?"
Why would you open Pandora's Box!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I guess you aren't interested then?'

You're quiet

?????

Don't bother replying then

You're stuck up

(And my favourite..)

'You haven't replied to me and I have 7 veris and I'm well hung, who do you think you are?'

All responses I get when I don't reply to their first message within 5 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When our profile says messages from guys will be deleted. And we still get them. Once they see we have deleted the message abuse then comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When our profile says messages from guys will be deleted. And we still get them. Once they see we have deleted the message abuse then comes. "

So why not block all single males from messaging you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When our profile says messages from guys will be deleted. And we still get them. Once they see we have deleted the message abuse then comes. "

Why don't you use filters to stop guys from messaging?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Not bothering to read my profile, me replying

‘Thanks but not what I’m looking for’

To which they reply

‘So what are you looking for ?’

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ooh I hate "don't be shy" as a reply to deletion of a first message.

I'm not shy, I'm not interested!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi bbz,

luks like dis is da forum where all da slags want da dick pics sending yeah?

It's a sex site fs,

Therz 17 dick pics in my gallery but il inbox you all pics of my cock and mobile number now init.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how many guys are sheepishly changing their profiles right now after reading all this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can I suck your cock"

As an opening message.... Probably get 2/3 a day

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Hi bbz,

luks like dis is da forum where all da slags want da dick pics sending yeah?

It's a sex site fs,

Therz 17 dick pics in my gallery but il inbox you all pics of my cock and mobile number now init.

"

You're not half wrong

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ooh. And "do you go to the xyz gym? I'd love to watch you mmmm"

That's creepy AF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ladies, I'm curious about the things that put you off single men here on Fab. What kind of things on their profiles or in their messages annoy you the most or just leave you thinking "hell no!"?"

You really don’t need to encourage women to moan about blokes on this site, there’s usually a thread most days whinging about men not reading profiles, yadda, yadda.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Not too many moans, the main thing is establishing contact, chat, then they disappear and never actually make a date to meet! There’s only a couple that actually have met, the others cancel don’t turn up or never message again! (Although couples do this as well!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I had a single profile,I hated

Respectful chatty messages.

Guys that read my profile and commented on bits in it.

Sending a clothed tastful photo only after being asked.

Understanding when I said thanks but no thanks politely.

Understanding when I suggested a social meet, I meant a social meet.

ffs, guys didn't realise I wanted to be bombarded with messages.

They could just come round and fuck me because they were in the area.

I wanted messages from blank profiles.

I wanted your seed.

Messages that just said "Hi"

I hope guys are less imaginative these days so you don't have to put up with polite, respectful guys. Who do they think they are?

"

This is brilliant haha

Maybe I need to start sending vulgar messages and dick pics!

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Tacky user names

Cock profile pics and the rest all the same

Txt spk

Nope ... definitely no!

I saw a guy called 'minge mangler' on here "

That’s my fault. His previous name was vulva tickler and a thread was suggesting profile improvements (at his request cos for some mysterious reason he can’t get meets). I sarcastically suggested the new name. And he used it ffs.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"I wonder how many guys are sheepishly changing their profiles right now after reading all this "

None. Because the guys that behave like this genuinely believe they are in the right, and it’s the stuck up entitled sluts with fake profiles that are to blame for their lack of ‘success’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admittedly I do ask the question thing... But only because I have a question... Should just ask I suppose ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Admittedly I do ask the question thing... But only because I have a question... Should just ask I suppose ??"

Yes, just ask.

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

dom or master on profile

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

WUU2 - what??

Wanna meet now - no

I’d love to do X,Y and Z to you - nope

Here’s my number, call me - who are you?

Where do you live? - haha not today stalker

Do you like my photos? - no, it’s a cock like every other

I’m married but... - no thanks

Oh the list is endless!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

None at all.

They are all blocked, if we want to meet a single guy we will contact them.

Far easier to get what you want when you do the looking.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wonder how many guys are sheepishly changing their profiles right now after reading all this

None. Because the guys that behave like this genuinely believe they are in the right, and it’s the stuck up entitled sluts with fake profiles that are to blame for their lack of ‘success’ "

Haha. Yup. I should be grateful for the attention! Lol. No.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I know you say you don't x, but...

No but. Go away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Wow’

‘Can I ask you a question?’

"

I reply to that with....you just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Admittedly I do ask the question thing... But only because I have a question... Should just ask I suppose ??"
You should. Don't give them a chance to say no in reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!! "

Good grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Wow’

‘Can I ask you a question?’

I reply to that with....you just did"

that

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!! "

The sad thing about that message is not just that it was sent.

What if he sent it to a lady who randomly quite liked the concept.

She would be so disappointed to turn up and find no stag party or friends or the ability to have sex all weekend.

Let's hope he never found a lady who was enticed by his kind offer.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!!

The sad thing about that message is not just that it was sent.

What if he sent it to a lady who randomly quite liked the concept.

She would be so disappointed to turn up and find no stag party or friends or the ability to have sex all weekend.

Let's hope he never found a lady who was enticed by his kind offer.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Wow’

‘Can I ask you a question?’

I reply to that with....you just did"

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The I need my balls emptying statuses/messages.

Anything crude in first few messages.

Usernames.

Not reading bio

No effort on their own bio

(Fill in later. Or ask me)

Loads of cock pics and nothing else.. come on let me use my imagination of what your hiding!

But what I do like is someone that messages and mentions something in my bio that piqued their interest

That happens every so often

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve seen 2 guys that were 20 plus dick pics on their profile, nothing else. Both verified by a ton of women. One insisted on bareback and aimed to get women pregnant. 2 of his verifications said they were pregnant. Both extremely popular...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys whose face pics look like either a police lineup mugshot, a serial killer psycho nutjob, an instagrim fucked up monstrosity with doggy ears and a pout, or the worst attempt at resting bitch face.

Fellas! For the love of god, SMILE. Look friendly and approachable!"
. I look like an Albanian people trafficker at the best of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen 2 guys that were 20 plus dick pics on their profile, nothing else. Both verified by a ton of women. One insisted on bareback and aimed to get women pregnant. 2 of his verifications said they were pregnant. Both extremely popular..."

Maybe, just maybe it was all fake

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’ve seen 2 guys that were 20 plus dick pics on their profile, nothing else. Both verified by a ton of women. One insisted on bareback and aimed to get women pregnant. 2 of his verifications said they were pregnant. Both extremely popular..."

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The blatant ignoring of my profile and requests such as:

I don’t like clubs I want to meet privately - then why message me, blatantly says clubs only

Hi you got a face pic - off someone who’s not been verified and hadn’t sent one of their own

I know you don’t do..... but would you like to....- no I don’t want to

And as for the hi, how are you, wuu2 messages - I don’t want a conversation, only interested if you are messaging to say you are going one of the events I’m going - it’s all on the profile which probably comes across a bit arsey, sometimes though I do play along for a bit if I’m in a malicious mood and then ask if they can read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock pics for a gallery.

‘Hi’

‘Hun’

‘Any luck on here?’

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Wow’

‘Can I ask you a question?’

"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mmmm mmmm mmmm don't you look delicious. I'd eat you all up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen 2 guys that were 20 plus dick pics on their profile, nothing else. Both verified by a ton of women. One insisted on bareback and aimed to get women pregnant. 2 of his verifications said they were pregnant. Both extremely popular..."

Can you point me in their direction please? I've been desperate to get pregnant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latest one...

Found my profile slightly racist (from a white guy)

Aaaaand block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you free?

U free now babe?

When u free?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The random friends requests after no or very few messages.

Yeah right if I wanted everyone to see my foo I'd have it in public gallery.

Bareback pics of different women but states insistingly that it's safe sex only

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I leave friend requests pending forever unless they ask and I say yes first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I leave friend requests pending forever unless they ask and I say yes first. "

I do that too so they can't ask again. Block button is handy also

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And right now, I'm trying to get interest (off the back of another thread) in a local f only social.

No boys allowed means no men. 100% absolutely no exceptions, no rules lawyering, ffs fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen 2 guys that were 20 plus dick pics on their profile, nothing else. Both verified by a ton of women. One insisted on bareback and aimed to get women pregnant. 2 of his verifications said they were pregnant. Both extremely popular...

Can you point me in their direction please? I've been desperate to get pregnant"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!! "

What an absolute tool, I mean who offers to pay for their expenses?

Other than that I see no problem...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!!

What an absolute tool, I mean who offers to pay for their expenses?

Other than that I see no problem..."

A lot of guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's cringey when you hear about men getting sensitive because they aren't someone's type and are rejected.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's cringey when you hear about men getting sensitive because they aren't someone's type and are rejected."

Abusive usually.

I get sensitive occasionally. I deal with my shit on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's cringey when you hear about men getting sensitive because they aren't someone's type and are rejected."

Ohh that gets bad!

Some guys complain that messages get deleted with no response..which I totally understand it's frustrating.(but if they read bios first they probably would have seen they not compatible) But the last few polite thanks but no messages I've sent is followed by a barrel of abuse. Apart from the but why repsonses it can get nasty too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarked for research purposes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing pictures of them fucking other woman especially bare back. I’ve looked at pictures on the “new picture” bit and there’s more of the woman in them than the man.

I always think “does she know he’s putting these pictures with her on them on the internet”?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread. Not surprised in the slightest though

Shame as It makes it more of a minefield for those that are both decent and sane lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Seeing pictures of them fucking other woman especially bare back. I’ve looked at pictures on the “new picture” bit and there’s more of the woman in them than the man.

I always think “does she know he’s putting these pictures with her on them on the internet”?"

I've seen "male" pictures that have like a finger of the guy and the rest is naked lady. Not cool.

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By *ilentnoise OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi ladies, I'm curious about the things that put you off single men here on Fab. What kind of things on their profiles or in their messages annoy you the most or just leave you thinking "hell no!"?

You really don’t need to encourage women to moan about blokes on this site, there’s usually a thread most days whinging about men not reading profiles, yadda, yadda."

I wouldn’t see it as moaning. I think it’s genuinely important for us men to get an idea about how women feel when they are approached or getting messages from us.

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By *ilentnoise OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Great thread. Not surprised in the slightest though

Shame as It makes it more of a minefield for those that are both decent and sane lol

"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Hi ladies, I'm curious about the things that put you off single men here on Fab. What kind of things on their profiles or in their messages annoy you the most or just leave you thinking "hell no!"?

You really don’t need to encourage women to moan about blokes on this site, there’s usually a thread most days whinging about men not reading profiles, yadda, yadda.

I wouldn’t see it as moaning. I think it’s genuinely important for us men to get an idea about how women feel when they are approached or getting messages from us. "

Some think like you. Others think we should shut up and spread em.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Makes no odds if you’re friendly and polite or rude and inappropriate - you get ignored either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask you a question

That one drives me mad

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I’ve seen 2 guys that were 20 plus dick pics on their profile, nothing else. Both verified by a ton of women. One insisted on bareback and aimed to get women pregnant. 2 of his verifications said they were pregnant. Both extremely popular...

Can you point me in their direction please? I've been desperate to get pregnant"

I’ll happily help you with this, my spunk is all yours!

(Nobody tell her I’ve had the snip....... )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes no odds if you’re friendly and polite or rude and inappropriate - you get ignored either way "

That’s fab advice though, no reply means no interest - if you aren’t getting replies look at your messages or your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ladies, I'm curious about the things that put you off single men here on Fab. What kind of things on their profiles or in their messages annoy you the most or just leave you thinking "hell no!"?"

Arrogance! When they reply with bitchy comments because how dare I not fancy them!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Makes no odds if you’re friendly and polite or rude and inappropriate - you get ignored either way

That’s fab advice though, no reply means no interest - if you aren’t getting replies look at your messages or your profile. "

I can’t look any different can I?

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Hi ladies, I'm curious about the things that put you off single men here on Fab. What kind of things on their profiles or in their messages annoy you the most or just leave you thinking "hell no!"?

Arrogance! When they reply with bitchy comments because how dare I not fancy them! "

You don’t fancy them before they get bitchy so what’s the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough of them live near me and are fucking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't copy and quote all of the above, that would be ridiculous...

Frankly the majority that message my woman, pretty much make me feel ashamed to be a man.

Followed by the ones that message our couples profile.

If they took the trouble to, or if they can even read the profile with theirs cocks in there hands, they would save us all a lot of time by not messaging

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Most women don't know what they want so asking them is pointless.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Seeing pictures of them fucking other woman especially bare back. I’ve looked at pictures on the “new picture” bit and there’s more of the woman in them than the man.

I always think “does she know he’s putting these pictures with her on them on the internet”?

I've seen "male" pictures that have like a finger of the guy and the rest is naked lady. Not cool. "

There goes a few hearts sinking for those when it wasn’t their little finger in the pic but you thought it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes no odds if you’re friendly and polite or rude and inappropriate - you get ignored either way

That’s fab advice though, no reply means no interest - if you aren’t getting replies look at your messages or your profile.

I can’t look any different can I? "

No but you can change what’s in your profile and pop some pictures on that are public. Re-read your messages, do they sound generic, if so most will assume you are copy and pasting to loads on the site so won’t bother replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always read a profile and look at the pics. I like to see men dressed as well as a preview as what’s under. Whilst no one has the right to exclusivity I want them to at least make some effort. If I message I’ll always refer to something in a profile or a picture.

I don’t want to see anyone fucking someone else as I’ve previously said. I will always reply even if it’s a no thanks. In my eyes that should be enough....but for some it’s not....then starts the abuse and the use of the block button.

I am sure some woman’s profiles, pictures are as bad but that doesn’t give anybody the right to abuse anyone else.

I use the rule if you wouldn’t say it in real life don’t say it on here. If your first message includes a cock shot or a “do you want a fuck” or something similar message then if that was your opening line in a pub/club then you’d have no chance.

There are genuine men and woman on here but as previously said it’s a numbers game. Treat people as humans not meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is for singles and couples I don’t discriminate lol.

1. 420 friendly (drugs not my thing)

2. Safe sex only, then have bare back play pictures (have pictures where your playing safe!)

3. Only having been verified by slim people (I’m big, so clearly not your type)

4. Not being verified after 6 months (go to a club/social event)

5. 50 miles plus away (be realistic)

6. Can’t accommodate (nor can I)

7. Someone who hasn’t read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Them saying ‘it’s a sex site ffs’ when critiqued about their message....."

Agree

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI GRAN CANARIA

I think everyone has summed it up nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive message coz he lived in the same location and we didn't want to meet up and take his chastity key. His nob was revolting as ut was! Blocked then created a fake profile to message again...

No words

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Makes no odds if you’re friendly and polite or rude and inappropriate - you get ignored either way

That’s fab advice though, no reply means no interest - if you aren’t getting replies look at your messages or your profile.

I can’t look any different can I?

No but you can change what’s in your profile and pop some pictures on that are public. Re-read your messages, do they sound generic, if so most will assume you are copy and pasting to loads on the site so won’t bother replying. "

I’m quite satisfied with my profile and I’m not going to make any of my pics public - you can see what I look like.

My messages are fine.

People don’t fancy me - that’s all there is to it.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Doing anything fun/exciting today? If they mean am I having sex with anyone, just say it ffs. Not that's it's actually any business of a random stranger anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen 2 guys that were 20 plus dick pics on their profile, nothing else. Both verified by a ton of women. One insisted on bareback and aimed to get women pregnant. 2 of his verifications said they were pregnant. Both extremely popular..."

Busted !!... have taken down most of my cock pics though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not reading the profile

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Penis photo as your avatar.

Txt tlk

Rude or crude messages.

Forget it’s a sex site as just communicate normally please

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

The looooooong Mills & Boon does cringe porn scenario messages. Thankfully on this very hidden profile I no longer get them.

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

hotel in teeside once a month

The fact they outnumber women and couples 5\1

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!!

Wtf "

The truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Lol

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!!

OMG! If he wants that he should go to Adultwork website. "

Dont think he was planning on paying. I did get offered £1200 for a filmed 4 man gang bang.. that was here too lmao

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

Wre r u is the one i hate plus the cock pics as i have one .then the ar u free .just daft

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Cock as profile pic and album full of them

555555555 text me

The worst was ( I still have it )

.I'm organising a stag do London for 12 of us and have picked you to be our fuck toy for the weekend. All expense paid and you get to fuck us all the time. Dont bring underwear we wanna be able to fuck you wherever and whenever you want..

Who does he think I am kylie minogue, and I should be so lucky!!

What an absolute tool, I mean who offers to pay for their expenses?

Other than that I see no problem...

A lot of guys... "

I said to him why not ask a couple more girls but he brushed that off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly not reading your profile.... Oh piss off dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask you a question

That one drives me mad "

Why?

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Can I ask you a question

That one drives me mad

Why? "

Why are you asking a question to ask a question. Why not just ask the question

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Guys who think if they are horny I can meet them there and then even if they live miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clearly not reading your profile.... Oh piss off dickhead "

this.

Mrs

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

The random chunk of text outlining what they'd do to you..

Yikes.

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By *riskyfillyCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

Would like to copy and quote lots of the above but to add I’d say ..

I’d love to fck those!

How’s you?

Meet now ?

And not reading profile

Interesting thread xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When grown men type "mmmm".

And when they use the word females instead of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of cock pics and no face pic.

Messages that just say hi

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By *ustyLeRouxWoman
over a year ago

Brecon

Being called Babe. . Had another comment about my boobs being called flaps... endless list !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock over toilet pics put me off my own cock haha.

Why would anyone think that appealing?

This statement comes with the admission that I look at other guys profiles for comparison haha

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By *riskyfillyCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach


"When grown men type "mmmm".

And when they use the word females instead of women.

"

Oh yes the ‘mmmmmm’ one

Thankyou new wave

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I detest pet names...babes, Hun etc.

The words...Wow and stunning just don't impress me anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask you a question

That one drives me mad

Why? "

I agree its like they cant judt ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laziness, entitlement, and tackiness, in a nutshell.

Not bothering to read my profile (or comply with it, ffs I just want to know why me), sending stupid/ inane/ disgusting/ diabolical messages, expecting me to meet immediately, making demands of me (that no I don't/ won't make of anyone else), thinking they can argue their way into a meet/ changing my boundaries/ changing my body, etc. They also think that a crap profile with nothing interesting (or site support: look at you moneybags ) means they deserve a shag. Refusing to consider my perspective (or being unable to). Manky cock pics from every angle. "

All of the above plus...

Cock pics taken on the toilet, grubby fingernails, messy backgrounds, any mention of smashing/destroying/ruining/balls emptying and follow up insults

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Bathroom pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking "we're all on here for the same thing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking that fabbing all of your pics means that you’ll change your preferences and sleep with them

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thinking that fabbing all of your pics means that you’ll change your preferences and sleep with them"

You mean it doesn’t??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Usually makes us block them as they seem creepy

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Nope. Usually makes us block them as they seem creepy"

Just the one then

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Turning up smaller than advertised

Don't get why so many guys exaggerate their size - like they will be able to fool you in person.

Then when asked to leave they act shocked hurt and like they have been messed around!

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By *oupleofkinkyCouple
over a year ago

local

I’d have agreed arranged to meet but not turned up and blocked them just before lol

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By *abat40xWoman
over a year ago

North Lincolnshire

Getting called babe hate it with a passion its on my profile not to call me it but every other guy still calls me BABE!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Idiots who sent couples messages saying "u ok babe z"! Such originality and mastery of the English language

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

“What are you looking for if you aren’t wanting to meet?”

“I know you don’t want to meet at the moment but give me a chance”

“What harm will it do”

“Just meet me once and I’ll change your mind”

“I won’t harass you if I get your number, I’m different”

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"“What are you looking for if you aren’t wanting to meet?”

“I know you don’t want to meet at the moment but give me a chance”

“What harm will it do”

“Just meet me once and I’ll change your mind”

“I won’t harass you if I get your number, I’m different”"

Dammit! That’s my entire repertoire!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"“What are you looking for if you aren’t wanting to meet?”

“I know you don’t want to meet at the moment but give me a chance”

“What harm will it do”

“Just meet me once and I’ll change your mind”

“I won’t harass you if I get your number, I’m different”"

But surely you know he's special?

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"“What are you looking for if you aren’t wanting to meet?”

“I know you don’t want to meet at the moment but give me a chance”

“What harm will it do”

“Just meet me once and I’ll change your mind”

“I won’t harass you if I get your number, I’m different”

But surely you know he's special? "

Haha these were all different guys, all special in their own little way

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Guys who randomly ask if I am dressed.As if I sit around all day in my finery waiting for some idiot to ask what I am wearing.

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By *eLove2LoveCouple
over a year ago

Burnley

Thankfully as a couple we don't get cheezy one liners and having read some of

these thank God we don't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the above aswell as messages containing a simple “What you looking for?”

Mind you, couples send those kind of messages to us more than single guys. It’s an instant turn off as it shows they haven’t even attempted to read our profile before messaging us.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

My answer to "How are you?" is "Do you really want to know?" I have had a few nice conversations when they did.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

When they message with “Hey babe/sexy/gorgeous, You’re sexy”

Thanks but she’ll get jealous if you carry on like that mate

We’re a couple not a single fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many guys are sheepishly changing their profiles right now after reading all this "

None of them because they cant/dont/won't read. It involves effort and a tad of intelligence and non idiot attitude!

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By *otwife for useCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Do you like very dominant, kinky, mature men to shower you with piss, spank your bum, slap your tits, pull your hair, pinch your nipples and use you for slutty, filthy. multi-orgasmic sex?

What a opening line did reply though just out of interest to see if he was still able to make his cock perform

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

People have all the answers on here - they know all the rejection techniques so it’s hardly worth trying to approach anyone.

Still, some of the pictures are nice

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Won't meet guys who use caps to explain just how STRAIGHT they are.

Sub men, no thanks.

Usually single white guys though we do make exceptions.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Message, wink and friend request all at the same time!!

Constant messaging even if we don't reply!!

The almost begging.

Men who want to be subs even though our profile clearly states that I (female) am sub!

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Almost everything ...lol

That's why we have them switched off, if we decide to include one in our games we find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who only come on here between "proper" relationships

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not even bothering to read a status update, let alone a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything really. We don’t see single men as swingers. They are just doing what men do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything really. We don’t see single men as swingers. They are just doing what men do. "
that includes the male in your profile then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying about men using dick pics for a profile pictures, women have a lot more attributes that are attractive. if we don't want to show our face we have very little choice. my upper body is very distinctive due to tattoos so I can't even use that I don't want certain people knowing I'm on here (friends im not married or anything)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank fuck for single men on here, otherwise you people would have nothing to moan about!

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By *axwellCouple
over a year ago

south lakes

Being pestered for meets when we've said sorry No !! then they offered money for sex !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shakes head.

What's the point of these posts apart to bash single men.

Yes there are some rude nasty idiots on here but there are also some really genuine single guys who are swingers.

They are respectful. Funny polite friendly etc.

And let's face it rudeness is not just reserved for single guys. There are some nasty rude obnoxious women and couples on here as well.

In the long run people are not going to like everyone on here and it's no secret that there are idiots in all works of life.

Threads like this just focus on putting people down and adds to the moan culture that is growing on fab.

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over a year ago


"Shakes head.

What's the point of these posts apart to bash single men.

Yes there are some rude nasty idiots on here but there are also some really genuine single guys who are swingers.

They are respectful. Funny polite friendly etc.

And let's face it rudeness is not just reserved for single guys. There are some nasty rude obnoxious women and couples on here as well.

In the long run people are not going to like everyone on here and it's no secret that there are idiots in all works of life.

Threads like this just focus on putting people down and adds to the moan culture that is growing on fab.

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over a year ago


"Thank fuck for single men on here, otherwise you people would have nothing to moan about! "

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over a year ago


"Everything really. We don’t see single men as swingers. They are just doing what men do. that includes the male in your profile then?"

No because we only play as a couple.

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over a year ago


"Shakes head.

What's the point of these posts apart to bash single men.

Yes there are some rude nasty idiots on here but there are also some really genuine single guys who are swingers.

They are respectful. Funny polite friendly etc.

And let's face it rudeness is not just reserved for single guys. There are some nasty rude obnoxious women and couples on here as well.

In the long run people are not going to like everyone on here and it's no secret that there are idiots in all works of life.

Threads like this just focus on putting people down and adds to the moan culture that is growing on fab.

"

Well said

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"Everything really. We don’t see single men as swingers. They are just doing what men do. "

That's a very sweeping statement. Do you have the same view when it comes to single women then ?

We know a number of single men that areore into swinging than just looking for a fuck

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over a year ago


"Them saying ‘it’s a sex site ffs’ when critiqued about their message.....

o yes!"

We had a guy message mollys profile who said exactly that then went on to ask how old she was when she started to wear bras, had her first period (and worse) then hurled abuse and blocked her when she told him to sling his hook..... Sex crime waiting to happen!!!

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over a year ago

I wish you could block all of them from even seeing your profile.

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over a year ago


"I wish you could block all of them from even seeing your profile. "

Why don’t you block them from messaging you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shakes head.

What's the point of these posts apart to bash single men.

Yes there are some rude nasty idiots on here but there are also some really genuine single guys who are swingers.

They are respectful. Funny polite friendly etc.

And let's face it rudeness is not just reserved for single guys. There are some nasty rude obnoxious women and couples on here as well.

In the long run people are not going to like everyone on here and it's no secret that there are idiots in all works of life.

Threads like this just focus on putting people down and adds to the moan culture that is growing on fab.

"

Hear hear!

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over a year ago


"I wish you could block all of them from even seeing your profile.

Why don’t you block them from messaging you?? "

Because I like to keep an eye to who keeps viewing our profile.

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over a year ago

When men you have met before think it gives them a golden ticket to play with you even if you aren't playing at the time or even that they just need a fuck and you aren't busy

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