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By *rotica x OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chepstow/Portugal

Yesterday was a bit of an experience for us. Went to a bar with a pool table not one local to us. It was the most friendliest of places with the locals of the town - no oggling glaring stares etc and hubby even had some great conversations with the guys outside. We’d finished our final rounds of pool - hubby didn’t mind the fact I was braless and saw my little nips poking through. But to have one man outside actually say to us that he found it very nice watching “your girlfriend play pool with nipples sticking out” in front of me. Sure, say it to your mates etc but in front of me and saying it to hubby? Over stepping the mark a bit, right?

Any we were taken back by it and hubby had a quiet word...

So, lads, ladies, is it still not okay for the nipples to be free without inappropriate men saying something. He was no doubt in his 40’s, hubby said he would never say anything like that to someone regardless of who they were because it’s two bumps in a shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it ok? Yes.

Will people stop oogling and making comments? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it ok? Yes.

Will people stop oogling and making comments? No."

This

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's not often you'd see an attractive woman, braless, playing pool so some people, rightly or wrongly, would assume you were seeking attention.

You may not have been & you have a right to wear (or not wear) what you want. He obviously felt he was paying you a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free nipples under clothing or not = ogling.

Fact of life. Rude to say something though, why not enjoy and be thankful?

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By *icker988Man
over a year ago

Exeter

Nice to see someone local to Devon .yes it's acceptable to all I would have thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs will have the nips sticking out later tonight, she's in a tight top and no bra ... The guys can say what they like, I love blokes eyeing her tits up haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs will have the nips sticking out later tonight, she's in a tight top and no bra ... The guys can say what they like, I love blokes eyeing her tits up haha."

And you're from Stoke?? Where exactly are you going later? lol x

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

It is a very nice sight to see and I've seen it on a number of occasions, as for saying something that isn't something I'd do personally, think it's overstepping the mark sort of thing

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It would have been lovely to see and he probably was pushing it a bit. He probably thought she was game on and misread the situation. Don't let it put you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs will have the nips sticking out later tonight, she's in a tight top and no bra ... The guys can say what they like, I love blokes eyeing her tits up haha.

And you're from Stoke?? Where exactly are you going later? lol x"

We're off to West Bromwich and Xtasia, she's actually wearing that top later in our profile picture, no bra going off with top I tell ya.

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By *ave1502Man
over a year ago

bewdley

Surely it was a compliment why not accept it, if not after do not dress like it, men will always look and comment surely it only becomes a problem if they try and touch then it is totally out of order unless invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Free nipples under clothing or not = ogling.

Fact of life. Rude to say something though, why not enjoy and be thankful?"
I briefly enjoyed yours the other day! Gorgeous! X

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By *rotica x OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chepstow/Portugal


"Surely it was a compliment why not accept it, if not after do not dress like it, men will always look and comment surely it only becomes a problem if they try and touch then it is totally out of order unless invited"

Thanks for your response I had my jacket on over but got quite hot. I don’t think it’s appropriate for a man to say not to dress like it? They’re nipples after all? I just don’t think he should have said something like that as I never give out the wrong message. Hubby was taken back as he thought there wasn’t anything wrong with what I was wearing. It was my first time not wearing a bra it was very nice actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad day when a man cant admire a sexy woman. I soundness have said anything but im pretty sure my glances would be noticed. Its a compliment and if you dress provocatively you have to expect attention. Perhaps choose not to be offended... You are lucky you have a confident sexy outgking partner. Just my thoughts.

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

He should not have commented its very rude.

Its disrespectful to you and your fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a man thing, nipples are fascinating, but that doesn't make sexist comments right. If you'd been like that in a swingers club maybe. Context and location can make a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree he totally overstepped the mark. Men commenting uninvited on women’s appearance is not on.

As for not wearing a bra, being an invite for attention - no, no, no.

Women should be able to wear or not wear something without being slut-shamed in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you expect ffs??

How can you actually be surprised some pervy old guy said something to you when you clearly went out with the intention of being looked at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you don't want people to comment don't wear provocative outfits..

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By *incs.cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Holton le Clay near Cleethorpes

We would love it if a stranger made that comment to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look beautiful from your pictures. I would admire but never say anything. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday was a bit of an experience for us. Went to a bar with a pool table not one local to us. It was the most friendliest of places with the locals of the town - no oggling glaring stares etc and hubby even had some great conversations with the guys outside. We’d finished our final rounds of pool - hubby didn’t mind the fact I was braless and saw my little nips poking through. But to have one man outside actually say to us that he found it very nice watching “your girlfriend play pool with nipples sticking out” in front of me. Sure, say it to your mates etc but in front of me and saying it to hubby? Over stepping the mark a bit, right?

Any we were taken back by it and hubby had a quiet word...

So, lads, ladies, is it still not okay for the nipples to be free without inappropriate men saying something. He was no doubt in his 40’s, hubby said he would never say anything like that to someone regardless of who they were because it’s two bumps in a shirt. "

Photo or it didn't happen lol

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Lol

If you cavort around a pool table seeking attention, don’t moan when you get attention..

Unbelievable..

You’re boyfriend should see it as a compliment and not act so insecure..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pert (fuck you gravity!!) 36C with inch long nipples so I rarely wear a bra. I do spot women and men having a cheeky glance, which turns me on tbh. I do like to wear tight fitting vest tops in the summer so I can't escape the nipple bulge !!

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"I'm a pert (fuck you gravity!!) 36C with inch long nipples so I rarely wear a bra. I do spot women and men having a cheeky glance, which turns me on tbh. I do like to wear tight fitting vest tops in the summer so I can't escape the nipple bulge !!"

Big tits for a bloke !!

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By *reenlanerCouple
over a year ago

bournemouth

It depends how he approached you, but we would take it as a compliment and thank him for his compliment,

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I would just keep my appreciation to myself.. unless my opinion was asked for.. and then it would always be favourable

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By *rotica x OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chepstow/Portugal


"Lol

If you cavort around a pool table seeking attention, don’t moan when you get attention..

Unbelievable..

You’re boyfriend should see it as a compliment and not act so insecure..

"

Wow I’m a very good pool player. Regardless of whether I’m on here or not, I was flat chested this time last year and didn’t wear bras. I was looking for attention

And he didn’t see it as a problem. It wasn’t a compliment, maybe in another age and time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol

If you cavort around a pool table seeking attention, don’t moan when you get attention..

Unbelievable..

You’re boyfriend should see it as a compliment and not act so insecure..

Wow I’m a very good pool player. Regardless of whether I’m on here or not, I was flat chested this time last year and didn’t wear bras. I was looking for attention

And he didn’t see it as a problem. It wasn’t a compliment, maybe in another age and time"

Maybe it was your delivery of the story but i still don't see a problem..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, it is desrespectful and although seeing erect nipple through thin clothing is erotic, you will always encounter 'the village idiot'... Without being disrespectful...'if you cannot stand the heat, then don't go in the kitchen'..

On a positive note, please keep the nipples on show as most guys (women too) love to observe braless titties regardless of their size...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree he totally overstepped the mark. Men commenting uninvited on women’s appearance is not on.

As for not wearing a bra, being an invite for attention - no, no, no.

Women should be able to wear or not wear something without being slut-shamed in public."

Completely agree. Why is it ok for mens nipples to poke through the t-shirt and not ok for womens? I've not heard of the law making bras compulsory.

Let them bobble free and be it free choice without judgment whether to wear a bra or not (I would set fire to my bra now but as I don't own one not going to buy one just for that).

Mrs

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Whether they stare, say something or just dribble I really don't care.....I don't own a bra and I'm not planning on buying any. I guess while they are looking at my nips it hides the fact that I don't wear knickers either.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

That was meant to be a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whether they stare, say something or just dribble I really don't care.....I don't own a bra and I'm not planning on buying any. I guess while they are looking at my nips it hides the fact that I don't wear knickers either. "

Or that you may have moved the white ball in the pool game

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Whether they stare, say something or just dribble I really don't care.....I don't own a bra and I'm not planning on buying any. I guess while they are looking at my nips it hides the fact that I don't wear knickers either.

Or that you may have moved the white ball in the pool game "

...wonder if I would be allowed to get away with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whether they stare, say something or just dribble I really don't care.....I don't own a bra and I'm not planning on buying any. I guess while they are looking at my nips it hides the fact that I don't wear knickers either.

Or that you may have moved the white ball in the pool game

...wonder if I would be allowed to get away with that?"

Play me pool, find out

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Lol

If you cavort around a pool table seeking attention, don’t moan when you get attention..

Unbelievable..

You’re boyfriend should see it as a compliment and not act so insecure..

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Col loves it when I am braless, he calls it the nipple effect, and he loves seeing others with nipple effect too, but he would never make a lewd comment, he’d just enjoy it x

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Mrs will have the nips sticking out later tonight, she's in a tight top and no bra ... The guys can say what they like, I love blokes eyeing her tits up haha.

And you're from Stoke?? Where exactly are you going later? lol x

We're off to West Bromwich and Xtasia, she's actually wearing that top later in our profile picture, no bra going off with top I tell ya."

Damn, we were originally thinking of xtasia tonight!!!! Would have loved the look!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pokees are awesome! This time of year they are everywhere and we love them. Where we are they seem to be socalilly acceptable where a camel toe isn't. Combine the two and a lady is guaranteed a lot of attention lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably meant it as a come on. If he's had been someone you found really attractive and sexy would you have responded differently?

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By *rotica x OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chepstow/Portugal

Very interesting comments ladies and gents. Then again, I don’t find a camel toe attractive haha and I don’t wear knickers either... hmmm men are visual creatures I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very interesting comments ladies and gents. Then again, I don’t find a camel toe attractive haha and I don’t wear knickers either... hmmm men are visual creatures I suppose

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Just keep doing it for you! And enjoy x (and send me a pic lol)

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

In the summer time I have been known to go bra-less a few times with definite nips sticking out hehehe. And yes, I do enjoy blokes watching (and pretending to not look if they're with their wifeys then sneak a glance LOL)

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the summer time I have been known to go bra-less a few times with definite nips sticking out hehehe. And yes, I do enjoy blokes watching (and pretending to not look if they're with their wifeys then sneak a glance LOL)

x"

Pics or I don't believe it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is hilarious and reaffirms my faith in my thinking. Yes men are very visual creatures, wired that way. I feel there's too much of this notion of having a right to be offended as some kind of power trip over someone else maybe in a way as to inflict guilt or even rather sickeningly a fear of being charged with some kind of hydeous sexual offence because you don't like how someone reacts. No wonder the dating scene is a mess these days. Lol. I blame the drink your honour . ...

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Weather not helping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely it was a compliment why not accept it, if not after do not dress like it, men will always look and comment surely it only becomes a problem if they try and touch then it is totally out of order unless invited"

Maybe men should just keep their mouth shut about it

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