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By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

As a hot-blooded male, I (Luke) see the occasional profile that gets my heart racing and I long to tell them how beautiful they are. In most cases we're not what they are looking for and/or they live an impossible distance away. In those cases, it wouldn't be about hoping anything might happen and I would not want to annoy or disrespect them, but that doesn't remove the urge to say something.

I can imagine some women would like to be told and others would ignore the 86th time they have been told that day.

If it were you, would you appreciate a Fab guy saying you are beautiful and/or sexy (in respectful language) or would it be better to keep schtumm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a woman who pleases my eyes, I make sure to let her know.

A compliment is always welcome if it doesn't creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with above, I'm happy to send compliments without expecting response, I like to think that I may have made that woman smile and sometimes that is enough

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We (well Mrs, obviously!) get messages like this and they’re always welcome, for us anyway. Gives a little boost to your day

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Well meant compliments can make your day, especially if they pop up in between all the usual shite....currently why we are in hiding, needed a break from the idiots.

So I'd say go for it.

I would always reply to a nice complimentary message no matter the distance.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"We (well Mrs, obviously!) get messages like this and they’re always welcome, for us anyway. Gives a little boost to your day

We send them too! It's nice to be nice

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Give a little love and it all comes back to you...da da da da da da da..

I get those messages sometimes. I even send them. Nice little boost to your day.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I like compliments, as long as they don't come with strings.

I usually don't reply, unfortunately that's gone wrong for me more often than not, but it's appreciated (when it's not creepy as others have said).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compliments are good and make a nice change from the usual msgs

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Nothing wrong with sending a quick message paying a compliment, I've done it in the past and it's received well and also had a good conversation from a few too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always respond to compliments that sound genuine

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I always respond to compliments that sound genuine

I think that last word is the key - compliments on here can come across as being insincere and just thrown out there to try and get a response, so I tend to reserve them for either when I know someone well enough that they know they're genuine, or not make them the main focus of a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always nice to get compliments and I like to thank people who give them

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I've given up responding to compliments, simply because the usual type of message instantly follows, but that's just me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think they can be lovely to receive - some of the nicest messages I've received have been just them with no sexual agenda. I'd say go for it Op - people will interpret it how they choose but if it's well intentioned from you it's a lovely thing to do.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Compliments are very welcome and can be an ice breaker, if you look at the person who has complimented you sometimes you return the gesture...

Made some great friends this way..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with compliments

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Love a compliment xx

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Compliments are always nice to recieve.

I rarely reply to them these days though

It's actually one of the sad things about Fabs.

Some compliments maybe sincere, with no ulterior motive, just as you describe OP

But I've found, from experience that the minute I send back a simple thank you, it's seen as an invitation to instigate more.

I could write a very long list of reasons why it would be pointless or why I don't want to communicate with some people.

So to avoid the drama I rarely reply, which is a shame as some maybe truly lovely people

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"Nothing wrong with compliments "

Agree 100%.....

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"Compliments are always nice to recieve.

I rarely reply to them these days though

It's actually one of the sad things about Fabs.

Some compliments maybe sincere, with no ulterior motive, just as you describe OP

But I've found, from experience that the minute I send back a simple thank you, it's seen as an invitation to instigate more.

I could write a very long list of reasons why it would be pointless or why I don't want to communicate with some people.

So to avoid the drama I rarely reply, which is a shame as some maybe truly lovely people

O couldn't have put that any better

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