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By *trangelefty OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Every time I get rejected or don't meet anyone's requirements I put a little private note saying do not message again so that I'm. Not a nuisance... No more profiles to view...

What do I do now?

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you saying you’ve mailed every profile inside the M25?! I think you deserve a meet for the effort alone!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Improve your profile and attractiveness to meets, up your messages, wait a period of time, and try the ones that weren't a definitive no again.

Bending the rules slightly, your profile as it stands is going to be a non starter.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Improve your profile and attractiveness to meets, up your messages, wait a period of time, and try the ones that weren't a definitive no again.

Bending the rules slightly, your profile as it stands is going to be a non starter. "

Err. Up the quality of your messages I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy some new shoes

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By *trangelefty OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Improve your profile and attractiveness to meets, up your messages, wait a period of time, and try the ones that weren't a definitive no again.

Bending the rules slightly, your profile as it stands is going to be a non starter. "

"Not my type." Or "I need to be attracted to the person I meet." Is the response I get... how do you suggest I improve on that?

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm not most people type as I'm not female? Not black and my todger isn't ten foot long.im not bald all over

Apart from that I'm a god so it's there loss hahaha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Improve your profile and attractiveness to meets, up your messages, wait a period of time, and try the ones that weren't a definitive no again.

Bending the rules slightly, your profile as it stands is going to be a non starter.

"Not my type." Or "I need to be attracted to the person I meet." Is the response I get... how do you suggest I improve on that? "

If you're getting responses then that's a final answer. If not you might be able to try again.

But ultimately you aren't guaranteed meets from here.

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By *trangelefty OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Improve your profile and attractiveness to meets, up your messages, wait a period of time, and try the ones that weren't a definitive no again.

Bending the rules slightly, your profile as it stands is going to be a non starter.

"Not my type." Or "I need to be attracted to the person I meet." Is the response I get... how do you suggest I improve on that?

If you're getting responses then that's a final answer. If not you might be able to try again.

But ultimately you aren't guaranteed meets from here. "

I know that!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Improve your profile and attractiveness to meets, up your messages, wait a period of time, and try the ones that weren't a definitive no again.

Bending the rules slightly, your profile as it stands is going to be a non starter.

"Not my type." Or "I need to be attracted to the person I meet." Is the response I get... how do you suggest I improve on that? "

You haven't asked for profile advice so it can't be given. But the majority of people will look there first.

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym


"Every time I get rejected or don't meet anyone's requirements I put a little private note saying do not message again so that I'm. Not a nuisance... No more profiles to view...

What do I do now?"

Have all the messages you've sent been read? Majority of ones I've sent just go unread due to the huge amount women get on here.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Improve your profile and attractiveness to meets, up your messages, wait a period of time, and try the ones that weren't a definitive no again.

Bending the rules slightly, your profile as it stands is going to be a non starter.

"Not my type." Or "I need to be attracted to the person I meet." Is the response I get... how do you suggest I improve on that? "

Fair enough, you can’t do much to change your physical appearance (assuming you’re making the best of what you were born with and make a little effort) but you can change your approach and attitude.

How does your profile compare to the more ‘successful’ single males on here? Do they have public profile pics? Do they have humour in their text? Do they make themselves sound more appealing? Many women are won over by humour and charm over looks.

Plus, most people who can’t meet in the evenings tend to be attached, this could also put people off. Write a little about what you’re into and treat the site as your advertising tool ... chances are you wouldn’t view a house from an estate agent without seeing some photos and reading a good description first.

Good luck and be positive, nobody gives out sympathy shags.

Lou x

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Well that rules me out, I'm in deepest, darkest Kent, well outside the M25 boundary - phew

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By *trangelefty OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I get rejected or don't meet anyone's requirements I put a little private note saying do not message again so that I'm. Not a nuisance... No more profiles to view...

What do I do now?"

If you've completed Fab, let admin know, they'll send you a completion pack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to not verbally abuse them

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By *trangelefty OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Every time I get rejected or don't meet anyone's requirements I put a little private note saying do not message again so that I'm. Not a nuisance... No more profiles to view...

What do I do now?

Have all the messages you've sent been read? Majority of ones I've sent just go unread due to the huge amount women get on here."

I am aware of that... but that happens on a minority .... majority delete, block or say I'm not their type (in horrible ways and nice ways)

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