FabSwingers.com forum: Sussing out other swingers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How does one suss out other swingers without the intro or use of Fabswingers.

And has it led to an awkward situation ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you be bothering to do that in general public places?

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

We have it on good authority that when staying in hotels swingers put a "do not disturb" sign on the door.

So next time your in a hotel and you see a door with such a sigh on then just give a cheerful knock and when the door is answered tell whoever answers it that you'd like to join the fun.

Works every time !

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"How does one suss out other swingers without the intro or use of Fabswingers.

And has it led to an awkward situation ?"
I'm pretty sure when sat in chams

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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago

south west , continental

"We have it on good authority that when staying in hotels swingers put a "do not disturb" sign on the door.

So next time your in a hotel and you see a door with such a sigh on then just give a cheerful knock and when the door is answered tell whoever answers it that you'd like to join the fun.

Works every time !"

crikey that's some dare!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when in a supermarket, if they are pushing a trolley they are vanilla, but swingers on the 'pull' will be pulling the trolley behind them. After a quick wink and chat, follow them home where you will find a sure confirmation with them having pampass grass in the front garden.

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

There's pampas grass growing in the local church....now I wonder if....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's pampas grass growing in the local church....now I wonder if...."

My parents always have pampas grass in their front garden

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

"How does one suss out other swingers without the intro or use of Fabswingers.

And has it led to an awkward situation ?"

So without open communication how do you tell anyone anything.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"We have it on good authority that when staying in hotels swingers put a "do not disturb" sign on the door.

So next time your in a hotel and you see a door with such a sigh on then just give a cheerful knock and when the door is answered tell whoever answers it that you'd like to join the fun.

Works every time !"
Haha...excellent

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve always wanted to approach a swinging looking (they have that dirty look about them ) couple in the Supermarket and ask them ‘ Excuse me but are you on ‘Fab’ ? If they look really genuinely puzzled I would follow it up with ‘really sorry I’m mixing you up with someone else’ and no harm done as they are none the wiser and think it’s a genuine mistake but instead they may look all sheepish and say ‘how do you know have we met before ‘? in which case you can say you are on Fab too and you thought you recognise them from some previous correspondence on there and do they want to go to the cafe for a cuppa and a chat.

Never done it though !

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"I’ve always wanted to approach a swinging looking (they have that dirty look about them ) couple in the Supermarket and ask them ‘ Excuse me but are you on ‘Fab’ ? If they look really genuinely puzzled I would follow it up with ‘really sorry I’m mixing you up with someone else’ and no harm done as they are none the wiser and think it’s a genuine mistake but instead they may look all sheepish and say ‘how do you know have we met before ‘? in which case you can say you are on Fab too and you thought you recognise them from some previous correspondence on there and do they want to go to the cafe for a cuppa and a chat.

Never done it though ! "

Seems like good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump trolleys and start a silly chat. Drop the word fab into the conversation more than anyone would usually do it and steer it towards a sexy subject. Walk away and check see who's near because if they are they will do the same. Wink and a knowing smile if you pass on the next Isle. If you pass on the next Isle then they are not trying to avoid you so try and have another chat and take it from there.

No. Hasn't happened. Even when you run into people you know chances are you will get a smile and a nod and that's it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if they say fab a lot? I knew a woman that would always place the word fab into every conversation. It makes me wonder.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

Why don't we just have a badge that says "Fab Swingers"?

Wear it with pride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just did a search for "FAB BADGE" on eBay and came up with some interesting buttons. Lots of Fab lollies and an enamel slice of battenberg cake

Is anyone up for wearing them next time you go to Lidl?

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Have you all forgotten about the upside pineapple in the trolley. You have to follow them home, then if they have a pampas grass in their garden then bingo!

Not sure about peeps in flats. Can you get a potted pampas grass?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pmsl... some Fab answers. Think I’ll just stick to the website

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some ladies wear an anklet..was a thread about this recently.

I must admit I looked for one last night as it goes....J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I would hate someone to approach me in public about it. Who knows who I could be with?

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Garden gnomes or flamingo ornaments in their trolley. Or just the good ol' fashioned "I Love Swinging" t-shirt

To be honest, not sure you can spot swingers in everyday life, unless they're blatantly obvious, just like you can't usually spot people with other traits of character!

We move amongst them!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We've been approached twice out and about. Both times on holiday.

Our opinion is that if you don't like being politely and publicly turned down don't politely and publicly approach people.

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