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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester

We've been on the site for a couple of years now, and so far have virtually no experience of time wasters and knobheads. All we've found instead are a load of genuine, horny people, some of who have become great friends now, who actually want to meet for NSA sex with a bit of social on the side. They even turn up when they say they will, and, get this, the rogues generally respect our boundaries and preferences.

What the hell are we doing wrong???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to know your secret you are obiously doing something right. Have to say every meet I choose everyone has turned up too and that is after 3 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, no need to brag about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been on the site for a couple of years now, and so far have virtually no experience of time wasters and knobheads. All we've found instead are a load of genuine, horny people, some of who have become great friends now, who actually want to meet for NSA sex with a bit of social on the side. They even turn up when they say they will, and, get this, the rogues generally respect our boundaries and preferences.

What the hell are we doing wrong??? "

You are probably more realistic and accept things don't always go to plan unlike other people. A more relaxed attitude will gain more trust too.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Agreed, sick and tired of it. Everyone we speak to and get on with turns up and if running late calls to let us know the new eta.

We're not renewing next time out it's full of fakes, timewasters and single men, femine dressed as slutty female pornstars.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden


"We've been on the site for a couple of years now, and so far have virtually no experience of time wasters and knobheads. All we've found instead are a load of genuine, horny people, some of who have become great friends now, who actually want to meet for NSA sex with a bit of social on the side. They even turn up when they say they will, and, get this, the rogues generally respect our boundaries and preferences.

The cheeky beggars. And i bet they enjoyed themselves too, what is this site coming to? We are all going to get a bad reputation now, timewasters will have nothing to do with any of us, oh the shame of it. I will never be able to hold my head up in a club again

What the hell are we doing wrong??? "

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Never had the problem with fakes, and only one couple ever let me down at last minute and she bottled her first MMF and at least they called to apologise.

Do i need to look for fakes and timwasters.

Mind you i dont get many invites.... I must be a timewaster myself.

Hey thats life.

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By *ong_legs2Couple
over a year ago

essex


"We've been on the site for a couple of years now, and so far have virtually no experience of time wasters and knobheads. All we've found instead are a load of genuine, horny people, some of who have become great friends now, who actually want to meet for NSA sex with a bit of social on the side. They even turn up when they say they will, and, get this, the rogues generally respect our boundaries and preferences.

What the hell are we doing wrong??? "

Same here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think this thread outrageous; you come on here bragging about meets; then they turn up without messing you about and you think this is the norm!

Next you'll be telling us all that they smell nice, have recently showered and deliver great sex. I for one, am appalled by this and am sure that many others on here will be too..

(walks away muttering and to read the reject emails)

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester


"Well I think this thread outrageous; you come on here bragging about meets; then they turn up without messing you about and you think this is the norm!

Next you'll be telling us all that they smell nice, have recently showered and deliver great sex. I for one, am appalled by this and am sure that many others on here will be too..

(walks away muttering and to read the reject emails)

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... ha ha ha!! We thought about including the 'nicely dressed, clean and sweet-smelling' and the fact that the sex has been mostly first class, but thought that might just sound too incredible!

Look, we know there are lots of people who haven't had a mostly fantastic experience on fab and other sites, but we really do wonder what some of them must be doing to generate the oft-repeated tales of woe and angst that we read almost daily in the forums. If we have any pointers we'd want to pass on, they would include: at an early stage exchange recent facpics of both/all parties, ALWAYS have a simple social before agreeing to a play meet, (much easier on the nerves when you head out for sex with 'strangers' if you've already clicked socially, and thus much better chance they won't bottle it at the last second) keep it relatively local (better chance of peeps turning up even for the drink and chat if they don't have to travel halfway across the country), and be very frank before play about your (and their) boundaries and expectations.

And, wherever possible, we generally avoid anyone who has extreme tastes, expectations (only want "VVVWE" etc!) or who make exceptional claims as to their stamina etc (breathe thru ears, repeater,).. we essentially only want to meet 'normal' people with, like us, a naughty and adventurous streak.

So far, so good....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it helps how you display both of you on your profile! any amounts of couples just show the lass and wonder why they dont attract the meets they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think it helps how you display both of you on your profile! any amounts of couples just show the lass and wonder why they dont attract the meets they want.

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+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant even get a chat in th bludy chatroom

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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Thats coz u 2 sexy peeps know how to le out the timewasters lol or maybe coz ur genuine people urself and always when talking/messaging people always say what ur looking for so ur not timewasting and people can sense that xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had a meet on saturday night. he had the temerity to text us and tell us what time he'd be here then sent another telling us he was running late but would get here as quick as he could..and he brought some beers

I mean,the audacity of the man

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By *woBiTwo OP   Couple
over a year ago

north manchester


"Thats coz u 2 sexy peeps know how to le out the timewasters lol or maybe coz ur genuine people urself and always when talking/messaging people always say what ur looking for so ur not timewasting and people can sense that xxxxxxx"

Mwahh!! You're two of the best! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been on the site for a couple of years now, and so far have virtually no experience of time wasters and knobheads. All we've found instead are a load of genuine, horny people, some of who have become great friends now, who actually want to meet for NSA sex with a bit of social on the side. They even turn up when they say they will, and, get this, the rogues generally respect our boundaries and preferences.

What the hell are we doing wrong??? "

Im sorry, u two are just plain weird! If you go putting posts like this up in forum, you will give this site a bad name!! lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Wow, a positive thread about meeting, nice to read xx

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

This is my favourite thread of 2012, sure I've had let downs but hey, life goes on and it's all too short to worry about little things like that. hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxx

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