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By *ickyo OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ongar to Harlow

Hi and thank you in advance for taking the time to read my thread.

I am a slim early 40's sexy married lady. my partner is bi and gets a lot of enjoyment out of watching me with other guys. O guys even better.

What I / we want to do is arrange a gang bang for upto 10 single guys in one night. We have had some small groups but often things get in the way and people have to pull out at the last minute (sometimes us). This often causes dissapointment as i get my self all worked up in a horny erotic mode and ends up with just a 3 some (although nice)

My question is, I am being too ambitious, or down right greedy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it, but sounds like a big challenge to get 10 to turn up. Maybe invite 50 and hope they don't all make it! Good luck!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Over the years id had numerous gangbangs but got it into my head that before i was 40 i wanted a ten man gangbang blind folded(id never done one blind folded) i did wait until i was 41 but instead of 10 guys i had 13 guys. I just wanted to do it blind folded.

It can be done, but what you have to do is put some ground work into your selection process, you cant guarantee a full house but you can cut down on the fantasists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course not,,,

thats what i love about this site,,,

all or defo most of your fantasies can come true lol

hope you enjoy your night if it happens xx

auds xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club like chams on a friday night .... and tell some of the men soon you would have your men x I have had offers in my time there of groups of men , And very sexy ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club like chams on a friday night .... and tell some of the men soon you would have your men x I have had offers in my time there of groups of men , And very sexy ones too."

Totally agree and it is a safer environment plus my fave room is the orgy round room. Or alternatively if you are into black guys why not try something like bmfc or black by nature or cocoaflex as they already play as a group plus they have the numbers something like radletts is also worth looking at. Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

For my 40th I invited 12 and got 9..... which is bloody good going.

Best advice I can give is hunt around for some of the established GB groups... there are quite a few knocking around.

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By *ickyo OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ongar to Harlow

Everyone,

thanks very much for your tips so far,

we have done some clubs over the years but prefur our own house or hotel. That way i can just shower and straight to bed for a sleep.

I think this will take a bit of planning but I am taking names if any guys want to mail me.

Thanks again so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone,

thanks very much for your tips so far,

we have done some clubs over the years but prefur our own house or hotel. That way i can just shower and straight to bed for a sleep.

I think this will take a bit of planning but I am taking names if any guys want to mail me.

Thanks again so far"

best thing is to use a ready made group of guys who do this sort of thing ... there are a few in London ....i know !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone,

thanks very much for your tips so far,

we have done some clubs over the years but prefur our own house or hotel. That way i can just shower and straight to bed for a sleep.

I think this will take a bit of planning but I am taking names if any guys want to mail me.

Thanks again so far"
well i know at homes and hotels alot get let down .... some clubs have rooms you can sleep over night and with own bath rooms . But you know what your looking for its not easy . I have a local group ner me who meet .. with couples i am sure you must have men who have got together ner you too xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Everyone,

thanks very much for your tips so far,

we have done some clubs over the years but prefur our own house or hotel. That way i can just shower and straight to bed for a sleep.

I think this will take a bit of planning but I am taking names if any guys want to mail me.

Thanks again so far"

I generally don't give any value to verifications..... however, if you intend to pick guys individually, I would suggest checking they have verifications from group/club/gangbang sessions.

A lot of guys come on here because they want a shag... just regular 1-2-1. When they don't get that in the abundance they expected they start to look for compromises. In messages many will seem keen as they are focusing on the fact they'll get a shag, it is that thought and that thought alone which motivates them.... but as the cold light of day brings the full picture into _iew they realise they will not be the only guy.... and this idea may not appeal be so appealling.

Make sure guys are turned on by the whole gangbang scenario... not just that they will get a shag. Preferably they are turned on because they have done it before and loved it... not just always fancied the idea of it as a fantasy.

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By *ickyo OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Ongar to Harlow

if you want to send us the groups hun, we will look them up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to send us the groups hun, we will look them up"

i cant send u a message im not a site supporter ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I generally don't give any value to verifications..... however, if you intend to pick guys individually, I would suggest checking they have verifications from group/club/gangbang sessions.

A lot of guys come on here because they want a shag... just regular 1-2-1. When they don't get that in the abundance they expected they start to look for compromises. In messages many will seem keen as they are focusing on the fact they'll get a shag, it is that thought and that thought alone which motivates them.... but as the cold light of day brings the full picture into _iew they realise they will not be the only guy.... and this idea may not appeal be so appealling.

Make sure guys are turned on by the whole gangbang scenario... not just that they will get a shag. Preferably they are turned on because they have done it before and loved it... not just always fancied the idea of it as a fantasy."

this is great advice and hits the nail on the head why alot of the men wont turn up or disapear after turning up! or end up just wanting their dick sucked or just have a wank!

alot of guys talk the talk but dont really walk the walk on this one.

i think alot do intend to do it, but probally are alot more comfortable with the idea of doing it with all their mates and some bird rather than with a complete set of strangers, as lets face it if they had fantasies its probs involved something closer to home than just random people off the net they never met!

experience is definteally the key, ive been to parties and played in groups on me own as and as couple, and i feels a hell of a lot different and more confident when i play now compared to the first half a year or so that i played at parties, or with a couples etc

never really took part in a gang bang though, i will do at some point im sure, the thought dont really bother me myself now, if its a sexy mood and atmoshpere thats the main thing for me usually to help get me going.

as its best when everyones in the same mood and on the same page, coz when they too many people sometimes you get random conversations from people who are finished or on a break which sometimes kill the mood for me haha, but things like that ya get used to with more expierence

but some guys need to know they alot more that meets the eye than what you see on a porno if you meeting people off the net! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi and thank you in advance for taking the time to read my thread.

I am a slim early 40's sexy married lady. my partner is bi and gets a lot of enjoyment out of watching me with other guys. O guys even better.

What I / we want to do is arrange a gang bang for upto 10 single guys in one night. We have had some small groups but often things get in the way and people have to pull out at the last minute (sometimes us). This often causes dissapointment as i get my self all worked up in a horny erotic mode and ends up with just a 3 some (although nice)

My question is, I am being too ambitious, or down right greedy? "

A girl can never be too greedy Madam, greed is good!

I don't think you're being overly ambitious either. You are a delectable treat of a lady who wishes to indulge by being impaled upon an entire feast of cocks for an evening and a lady's wishes should always be met in my book!

You shouldn't get a shortage of applicants either as you look delicious and sound wonderfully broad-minded and intelligent. Any man worth his salt would delighted to be embedded in you up to the hilt!

I would invite more than ten though as other posters have said as it is possible for some plans to go tits up as you well know. Choose your studs wisely good lady, and enjoy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck with this... At our place we painfully managed 7... But found that its painfully hard work.. so now we just advertise that we are going to a club or cinema.

10 isn't greedy... Ten is a good starting number and good luck with it.

As already been said. Find guys with experience... As some men love the idea but when it gets to it they can't always manage.

Group play is our favourite play with others.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does sound best idea though going to a greedy girl night at a club and hand picking people you know who arnt going to shy away from the prospect too as no doubt they wont be heading to the play rooms if thats they way of thinking!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

go for it, invite more than the number you require

enjoy....

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"does sound best idea though going to a greedy girl night at a club and hand picking people you know who arnt going to shy away from the prospect too as no doubt they wont be heading to the play rooms if thats they way of thinking!"

You'd be surprised how many men at clubs don't want to do the group thing.... or... they will have a grope, wank, finger from the edge of a group but then expect to take you away from all the fun so they can shag you in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does sound best idea though going to a greedy girl night at a club and hand picking people you know who arnt going to shy away from the prospect too as no doubt they wont be heading to the play rooms if thats they way of thinking!

You'd be surprised how many men at clubs don't want to do the group thing.... or... they will have a grope, wank, finger from the edge of a group but then expect to take you away from all the fun so they can shag you in private."

well guess it dont suprise me too much after watching people make excuses at parties etc and knowing what men are like haha.

i never been to a club before, had a few girls i been in couples with wonder about going with me, but always like to at least do a few couple on couple meets with anyone first before going up there i reckon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i was organising one i'd probs go through all the people you met and done things with people, people you know are good and would turn up, thats gotta help alot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men shy away from male contact which is inevitable in group situations..

I am lucky that I now have a good selection of guys for groups.. but even at that do find that the cinemas or clubs are less hassle.. and I am not left without some choice.

I always now invite double what I need.. and If they all turned up.. well that would be a bonus.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does sound best idea though going to a greedy girl night at a club and hand picking people you know who arnt going to shy away from the prospect too as no doubt they wont be heading to the play rooms if thats they way of thinking!

You'd be surprised how many men at clubs don't want to do the group thing.... or... they will have a grope, wank, finger from the edge of a group but then expect to take you away from all the fun so they can shag you in private."

I agree with this. I can only speak from my own experience and I'm not into gang bangs which include penetrative sex, only oral, but when I attend BMFC parties at Radlett, the guys always try and get me to go into a quiet area away from the watchers.

There is an open door policy at Radlett but there is an attic room which is dark and many guys have asked me to go up there rather than play in public. Of course I decline as the whole point is that my partner sees and is involved as why would I want to play otherwise. But there are quite a lot of guys who are not into the group thing so take care ensuring they know and understand the full scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be different in the clubs to cinemas.. guessing at the cinemas they are just glad there is a real female there lol

I think thought that if the couple really want to find some guys to come to them, then its a case of lots of research.

Just hope they get what they are looking for.. as it is just the best fun.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be different in the clubs to cinemas.. guessing at the cinemas they are just glad there is a real female there lol

I think thought that if the couple really want to find some guys to come to them, then its a case of lots of research.

Just hope they get what they are looking for.. as it is just the best fun.

Cali "

i think alot would probally depend on how you acted and came accross too and the mood it created, your probs right though about them just being happy they some female action in there, i guess also they less places they could try and drag you off to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be different in the clubs to cinemas.. guessing at the cinemas they are just glad there is a real female there lol

I think thought that if the couple really want to find some guys to come to them, then its a case of lots of research.

Just hope they get what they are looking for.. as it is just the best fun.

Cali

i think alot would probally depend on how you acted and came accross too and the mood it created, your probs right though about them just being happy they some female action in there, i guess also they less places they could try and drag you off to "

I think as long as the partner makes it clear your his.. then men tend not to try that..or in our experience anyway..

Saying that first time I did have my lead on lol

I am also quite confident and sure of myself in that situation and confident that my Master will deal with any issues that may arise. I dont even rarely look at a guy that has been sent to touch.. as anyone outside my wants will have been already excluded with a shake of the head from my Master.

I am sure if the OP puts up a meet listing that some of the groups that do gangbangs will get in touch.. I tend to get them in groups of 2-3 contacting me..

Cali

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I did a 10 man at a club in Blackpool. It wasn't my intention, I'd gone away for a hen weekend, and I was bored, so I went to a club, didn't realise it was greedy girl night.

I'll always treasure that memory, hope when I get old and senile I'll remember it!!!

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