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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

Just need to see what peeps opinions are on this.

Saw someone on here wanting a BB GB.. And not the first time either .. I wrote a fairly light message suggesting in this day and age was it fair to put mine and everyone else's sexual health at risk by looking for anyone to have unsafe sex with?

Obviously I got a fairly abusive reply about minding my own business (which it is of course!) .. Kind of expected it though .

However, is it right people can think they can advertise for all comers unprotected sex sessions?

I doubt if anyone shows up with a cert of 'I'm okay from any Gu symptoms today ' beforehand or worse!

Just think it's really really irresponsible these days .as is all this 'cleaning up' afterwards couples . Wtf!

I though lesson's we're learned after the Aids issue when so many people died and so many suffered/are suffering in one way or another from its impact .. Sadly it seems clear some 40 something swingers have clean forgotten it all .. Pun intended!

Anyway rant over.. Just think it's crazy and hugely irresponsible.. Hopefully at least some others do too

:/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need to see what peeps opinions are on this.

Saw someone on here wanting a BB GB.. And not the first time either .. I wrote a fairly light message suggesting in this day and age was it fair to put mine and everyone else's sexual health at risk by looking for anyone to have unsafe sex with?

Obviously I got a fairly abusive reply about minding my own business (which it is of course!) .. Kind of expected it though .

However, is it right people can think they can advertise for all comers unprotected sex sessions?

I doubt if anyone shows up with a cert of 'I'm okay from any Gu symptoms today ' beforehand or worse!

Just think it's really really irresponsible these days .as is all this 'cleaning up' afterwards couples . Wtf!

I though lesson's we're learned after the Aids issue when so many people died and so many suffered/are suffering in one way or another from its impact .. Sadly it seems clear some 40 something swingers have clean forgotten it all .. Pun intended!

Anyway rant over.. Just think it's crazy and hugely irresponsible.. Hopefully at least some others do too

:/

"

So you screen all your sexual partners do you?

Tell me, how do you do that exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least they are being honest about what they want. People can take it or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go!! popcorn at the ready, waiting on the bareback police to arrive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way... only if its a longterm fwb/partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it putting your sexual health at risk? Unless you are wanting to bb with them?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I totally think it's right that people advertise for what they are looking for.

If it isn't for you, walk on by. What gives you the right to question what they are looking for if you have no intention meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need to see what peeps opinions are on this.

Saw someone on here wanting a BB GB.. And not the first time either .. I wrote a fairly light message suggesting in this day and age was it fair to put mine and everyone else's sexual health at risk by looking for anyone to have unsafe sex with?

Obviously I got a fairly abusive reply about minding my own business (which it is of course!) .. Kind of expected it though .

However, is it right people can think they can advertise for all comers unprotected sex sessions?

I doubt if anyone shows up with a cert of 'I'm okay from any Gu symptoms today ' beforehand or worse!

Just think it's really really irresponsible these days .as is all this 'cleaning up' afterwards couples . Wtf!

I though lesson's we're learned after the Aids issue when so many people died and so many suffered/are suffering in one way or another from its impact .. Sadly it seems clear some 40 something swingers have clean forgotten it all .. Pun intended!

Anyway rant over.. Just think it's crazy and hugely irresponsible.. Hopefully at least some others do too

:/

"

And this is your opinion while others are entitled to theirs. You're not obliged to meet them. I'm sure they didn't ask for a lecture either.

Mrs

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

This is not something I would consider unless in a relationship.. but its that persons choice!

But as out spoken as i am I wouldn’t message someone and preach too them!

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym

With a long term partner then yes bareback.

1 off shags I'd rather be safe than sorry. Health matters.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

I wouldn't BB with ANYONE unless they are a long term partner or a long term FWB. I don't want to heighten the risk of my body being riddled with anything but, saying that its not up to me to tell people my opinions when its not asked for.

I do think it spreads STDs/diseases if people aren't responsible and don't get themselves checked.

I just don't meet people who bareback and if people won't use a condom I move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on op, noone’s forcing it down your throat.

Be thankful she’s advertising it in advance and not springing it on you when your trousers are round your ankles. You can move into a more suitable profile unruffled.

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

By having safe sex.. You can't 'screen'. But you can be responsible no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By having safe sex.. You can't 'screen'. But you can be responsible no? "

Would you be happy to meet the ones that dont advertise that they do bareback?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

It's all back to personal choice again. If people offer BB and you don't want it, then don't get involved Just let others do what they want without all the virtue-signalling and preaching. Those whose profiles say they want BB are adults and can assess the risks themselves.

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford


"Come on op, noone’s forcing it down your throat.

Be thankful she’s advertising it in advance and not springing it on you when your trousers are round your ankles. You can move into a more suitable profile unruffled."

That's valid.. However it isn't me I'm thinking of it is all the other 'me' s'

If you catch my drift..

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

Point taken but if no one starts to spread the good word then we are all the way back to the Aids days..

'don't die of ignorance'

And that doesn't just mean lack of information it also applies to lack of intelligence I would think?

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

So when u meet a new partner ...how long till you go bb...or do u march her/him to the clinic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come on op, noone’s forcing it down your throat.

Be thankful she’s advertising it in advance and not springing it on you when your trousers are round your ankles. You can move into a more suitable profile unruffled.

That's valid.. However it isn't me I'm thinking of it is all the other 'me' s'

If you catch my drift.. "

How’s it putting others at risk OP? As surely the “said” person is being honest about wanting BB so anyone participating will know and understand that the onus is on them not said person. As anyone who has BB sex will also understand this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point taken but if no one starts to spread the good word then we are all the way back to the Aids days..

'don't die of ignorance'

And that doesn't just mean lack of information it also applies to lack of intelligence I would think? "

Oh mate. You’re not doing yourself any favours with this.

And I’ve known some very intelligent barebackers, and LOTS of bright people who don’t get tested. It’s not about how bright you are, it’s about attitude to risk. You can only be responsible for your own sexual health.

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By *aling69Man
over a year ago

London


"Come on op, noone’s forcing it down your throat.

Be thankful she’s advertising it in advance and not springing it on you when your trousers are round your ankles. You can move into a more suitable profile unruffled.

That's valid.. However it isn't me I'm thinking of it is all the other 'me' s'

If you catch my drift.. "

Move on to folk you want to meet if it's not for you, their life, their choice, their decision, simples....

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need to see what peeps opinions are on this.

Saw someone on here wanting a BB GB.. And not the first time either .. I wrote a fairly light message suggesting in this day and age was it fair to put mine and everyone else's sexual health at risk by looking for anyone to have unsafe sex with?

Obviously I got a fairly abusive reply about minding my own business (which it is of course!) .. Kind of expected it though .

However, is it right people can think they can advertise for all comers unprotected sex sessions?

I doubt if anyone shows up with a cert of 'I'm okay from any Gu symptoms today ' beforehand or worse!

Just think it's really really irresponsible these days .as is all this 'cleaning up' afterwards couples . Wtf!

I though lesson's we're learned after the Aids issue when so many people died and so many suffered/are suffering in one way or another from its impact .. Sadly it seems clear some 40 something swingers have clean forgotten it all .. Pun intended!

Anyway rant over.. Just think it's crazy and hugely irresponsible.. Hopefully at least some others do too

:/

"

She is not putting your sexual health at risk. You don't have to fuck her.

Honestly I'm not a fan of bareback but I'm really not a fan of entitled people who tell other people how to play. There is ano unpleasant and incredibly arrogant attitude in thinking it is acceptable to message people and 5ell them what they should be doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal choice. Have never had a d*unken one night stand?

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I don’t do bareback for the common sense reasons. But I do not lecture other people on how they should behave. If you don’t like it, pass by. This site is for everyone to use, regardless of whether you or I agree with their choices. I would much prefer someone is honest about it than tried to surprise me at the critical moment.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Here’s a thought and a lot of people actually fall into this category. How about those that are against bare backing fucking BUT have no problem with unprotected oral sex?

Hmmmm...

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are going to do this at least take PREP to reduce risk of HIV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here we go!! popcorn at the ready, waiting on the bareback police to arrive "

Popcorn filled condoms for all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not for you then don't message them. I personally think it's out of order for you to PM them expressing your difference of opinion

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By *unkey_DuckCouple
over a year ago

Kingslynn

Not really thought about it. I would imagine they would be quite soft and fluffy but i'd worry about the claws. Quite heavy as well aren't they, bears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Point taken but if no one starts to spread the good word then we are all the way back to the Aids days"

Oh no you didn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh you sound a bit daft mate. They're not hiding anything and weren't asking you're opinion. Just be glad you got a response...people always moan they don't when they make the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Anyway rant over.. Just think it's crazy and hugely irresponsible.. Hopefully at least some others do too

:/

"

Do you need a parachute or is a firetruck ladder sufficient for you to get off that horse?

You can judge yourself till the cows come home but It's never your place to judge anyone else's desires, choices, or actions. She is not putting you at risk by any stretch of your imagination. You can choose to practice safer sex with the partners you choose to, get regularly tested, and only sleep with others that practice safer sex and are regularly tested.

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford


"How is it putting your sexual health at risk? Unless you are wanting to bb with them? "

See this is the issue

It's everyone's health isn't it? Just takes one person to take a risk and that's where it all goes wrong..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person taking the risk is aware because they've been told the situation. You're taking a risk wearing those trunks, see how things work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I , eat chips , drink beer , smoke fags, love dope, have ridden motorbikes for 30yrs , have fucked lots of lovely women skin to skin ,am in my lare 40's , and I'm still in good nick . You just have to weigh up the risks and take your choice . Each to their own as long as they are being honest and responsible .

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

They're being open and giving you information on which to base your intentions.

What's wrong with that?

Would you prefer they kept it secret?

If you don't like move on - we avoid bb like the plague but don't feel the need to cast judgement on others who don't hold our opinions.


"Just need to see what peeps opinions are on this.

Saw someone on here wanting a BB GB.. And not the first time either .. I wrote a fairly light message suggesting in this day and age was it fair to put mine and everyone else's sexual health at risk by looking for anyone to have unsafe sex with?

Obviously I got a fairly abusive reply about minding my own business (which it is of course!) .. Kind of expected it though .

However, is it right people can think they can advertise for all comers unprotected sex sessions?

I doubt if anyone shows up with a cert of 'I'm okay from any Gu symptoms today ' beforehand or worse!

Just think it's really really irresponsible these days .as is all this 'cleaning up' afterwards couples . Wtf!

I though lesson's we're learned after the Aids issue when so many people died and so many suffered/are suffering in one way or another from its impact .. Sadly it seems clear some 40 something swingers have clean forgotten it all .. Pun intended!

Anyway rant over.. Just think it's crazy and hugely irresponsible.. Hopefully at least some others do too

:/

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I would like to know is, if you’re into safe sex (which we are too!) do you also practice sale oral sex? Let’s not forget you can still pass on STI/Ds through that.

Not here to lecture, just making sure there’s no hypocrisy going on

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

I think standard issue on a date is an up to date certificate from the doctors saying crack on this man/woman hasn’t got aids etc etc a bit like having to produce your insurance documents when you get pulled over by pc plod

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Shall we just mind our own business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those pants will keep you 100% safe from any STI's my friend

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By *auriceFMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Just need to see what peeps opinions are on this.

Saw someone on here wanting a BB GB.. And not the first time either .. I wrote a fairly light message suggesting in this day and age was it fair to put mine and everyone else's sexual health at risk by looking for anyone to have unsafe sex with?

Obviously I got a fairly abusive reply about minding my own business (which it is of course!) .. Kind of expected it though .

However, is it right people can think they can advertise for all comers unprotected sex sessions?

I doubt if anyone shows up with a cert of 'I'm okay from any Gu symptoms today ' beforehand or worse!

Just think it's really really irresponsible these days .as is all this 'cleaning up' afterwards couples . Wtf!

I though lesson's we're learned after the Aids issue when so many people died and so many suffered/are suffering in one way or another from its impact .. Sadly it seems clear some 40 something swingers have clean forgotten it all .. Pun intended!

Anyway rant over.. Just think it's crazy and hugely irresponsible.. Hopefully at least some others do too

:/

"

Trolling for attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's personal choice but its kind of messing with a loaded weapon, but at the end of the day everyone has a choice.

I get tested every year and I don't do bb sex no matter what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't do BB why bother being tested ??

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

You don't!

When the times right and you think you are going a bit steady etc then you both go and get tested.. Common sense isn't it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it says anything on the profile or meet request that doesn't appeal to me, then I simply ignore it.

No point preaching your moral code to strangers who don't want to hear it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't do BB why bother being tested ??"

Really???

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

I disagree.. Nothing to do with 'entitled'

Common sense versus sheer irresponsibility and stupidity.. I know which one I am..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is it putting your sexual health at risk? Unless you are wanting to bb with them?

See this is the issue

It's everyone's health isn't it? Just takes one person to take a risk and that's where it all goes wrong..

"

How though? As surely that person is aware of said risk , and if it goes wrong then they knew the risk. I don’t understand what your train of thought is OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't!

When the times right and you think you are going a bit steady etc then you both go and get tested.. Common sense isn't it.. "

Common sense? What is this? I've heard talk of it over yonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't do BB why bother being tested ??

Really??? "

Yeah , really . if rubbers are so safe like ?? Surely you wouldn't need to ? Or are rubbers not so safe ??

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By *rystaldenisonWoman
over a year ago

salisbury

I get tested every 28 days, and I still will always use condoms

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By *rystaldenisonWoman
over a year ago

salisbury

Also if getting tested you do need to be doing so from any hole you use mouth included

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By *un Mike 2019Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Best opinion is not to share whatever yours is. You can’t make others choices for them and they can’t make them for you haha

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

Ermm

No not really.. But the attempt to lighten the thread is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree.. Nothing to do with 'entitled'

Common sense versus sheer irresponsibility and stupidity.. I know which one I am.. "

You seriously dont think that sending an unsolicited message to someone telling them how to play is entitled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't do BB why bother being tested ??

Really???

Yeah , really . if rubbers are so safe like ?? Surely you wouldn't need to ? Or are rubbers not so safe ?? "

Afraid they don't give absolute protection against all STIs. Do you use them for oral too? Can also be transmitted orally

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By *rystaldenisonWoman
over a year ago

salisbury


"If you don't do BB why bother being tested ??

Really???

Yeah , really . if rubbers are so safe like ?? Surely you wouldn't need to ? Or are rubbers not so safe ?? "

They are not 100%

Most professionals advise testing every 3 /6 months if active in risky behaviour also you can catch stuff from oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't do BB why bother being tested ??"

Are you actually serious?!!

You really need to educate yourself! Anything that can be spread with skin-to-skin contact is not going to be protected for by a condom.

Common STI that condoms do jack include: Syphilis, Herpes, HPV, Molluscum, and Crabs (almost extinct... thank god for waxed/shaved pubes)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't do BB why bother being tested ??

Are you actually serious?!!

You really need to educate yourself! Anything that can be spread with skin-to-skin contact is not going to be protected for by a condom.

Common STI that condoms do jack include: Syphilis, Herpes, HPV, Molluscum, and Crabs (almost extinct... thank god for waxed/shaved pubes)"

Eh no ,I wasn't actually Well spotted there Einstein ! lol Just saying , you weigh the risk . It makes a difference whether you go to swing clubs every week , or have one or two meets a year .

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

You really aren't seeing it.. If someone has unsafe sex and then does it again with someone else afterwards it is a risk.. Or am I not seeing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really aren't seeing it.. If someone has unsafe sex and then does it again with someone else afterwards it is a risk.. Or am I not seeing it?"

But how? If the person is being responsible for their own sexual health? So are you saying if someone has unsafe sex and then goes on again it’s her/his responsibility for the other person if they choose to go BB?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really aren't seeing it.. If someone has unsafe sex and then does it again with someone else afterwards it is a risk.. Or am I not seeing it?"

That's why responsible people get themselves checked out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very risky,but each to there own,I'd prefer to wear protection on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need to see what peeps opinions are on this.

Saw someone on here wanting a BB GB.. And not the first time either .. I wrote a fairly light message suggesting in this day and age was it fair to put mine and everyone else's sexual health at risk by looking for anyone to have unsafe sex with?

Obviously I got a fairly abusive reply about minding my own business (which it is of course!) .. Kind of expected it though .

However, is it right people can think they can advertise for all comers unprotected sex sessions?

I doubt if anyone shows up with a cert of 'I'm okay from any Gu symptoms today ' beforehand or worse!

Just think it's really really irresponsible these days .as is all this 'cleaning up' afterwards couples . Wtf!

I though lesson's we're learned after the Aids issue when so many people died and so many suffered/are suffering in one way or another from its impact .. Sadly it seems clear some 40 something swingers have clean forgotten it all .. Pun intended!

Anyway rant over.. Just think it's crazy and hugely irresponsible.. Hopefully at least some others do too

:/

And this is your opinion while others are entitled to theirs. You're not obliged to meet them. I'm sure they didn't ask for a lecture either.

Mrs "

While it's no good to feel harassed, I'm not sure 'lecturing' is what has happened here. Sometimes you have to at least try and intervene/teach if you feel something is not right. It is a human trait after all.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Each to their own but higher (unnecessary) risk than we are comfortable with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You really aren't seeing it.. If someone has unsafe sex and then does it again with someone else afterwards it is a risk.. Or am I not seeing it?

That's why responsible people get themselves checked out . "

Or even use protection to minimise risk aswell as getting tested regularly

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

That's a great life to lead my man but 'responsible'.. I don't think totally ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a great life to lead my man but 'responsible'.. I don't think totally ..

"

If you use protection OP and choose your sexual partners carefully why worry ? Your sexual health is yours and only your responsibility!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

While it's no good to feel harassed, I'm not sure 'lecturing' is what has happened here. Sometimes you have to at least try and intervene/teach if you feel something is not right. It is a human trait after all. "

Everyone is grown up here and I'd like to think they know what they're doing. It's not the place to intervene/teach if you don't agree with other's choices and preferences if you've not been asked to.

I don't agreed with everything I see on here but I don't go messaging people to express it either.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more scorn that is pushed on to those who bareback, the less likely they are to be honest about it.

Let people bareback to their hearts content and let them be loud and proud about it.

Applaud their courage and commend their honesty, let them know you respect their choices, then block them.

Why do you think guys are bi flexible but put straight on their profiles?

The more we condemn, the further undergeound the "bareback but say safe to get a fuck" people go.

You don't have to meet people who are open about bareback, but you can guarantee you know for sure they don't use condoms. Everyone else you have to trust they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go bareback, with very select guys, I test too .my lifestyle my choice xx

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

If it's who I think you're talking about, (I could be wrong) they're on prep and taking their perceived precautions for such. If you're swinging chances are you've been exposed to those that bareback in said lineage so concentrate on yourself and look after your own interests. Swinging is promiscuous, it's par for the course, the only question is is what are you doing to satisfy your own swinging concerns.

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By *ick270Man
over a year ago

Here

No way sorry its not a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way sorry its not a choice "

Of course it’s a choice! Maybe not yours or mine, but it’s still a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the OP was looking for a rush of replies from females and couples stating how amazingly sensible he was and would he like to meet with them

Needs to understand it’s people choice and impossible to screen anyone. It’s a topic that’s been done thousands of times too so nothing new to be gleaned here.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Not a cat in hells chance would I do bareback.workimg in the field there has been a huge increase recently of STDs as well as the hiv and the hebs. Most def not worth the risk.

Yes each to their own but like someone mentioned previously soon forgotten times of the aids explosion. Not only putting themselves at risk but others they may have BB sex with mths or yrs down the line

. All play partners can't be screened hence why with me they cover up. K

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By *hatawaste OP   Man
over a year ago

stafford

It truly is frightening the number of peolke who can't understand simple logic.. My train of thought is.. If someone bareback 6 guys a week for a few months.. That is a lot of guys then screwing other people afterwards.. Perhaps those guys will play safe.. Likely if they go BB they won't bother.. Then it may one day become mine or someone else turn to enjoy one of these women who may have accidentally took the one risk with a guy who previously has been BB other women.. The probability of someone catching something has just increased by quite a lot don't you agree?

It's other peoples previous sexual history who cause someone to have problems.. And that is why BB sex is in my opinion very irresponsible and could even prove lethal.. Hope that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great, me & the Mrs. haven't used condoms in years when we make love. Nowt wrong with baer bak.

Anyine outside if our happyittle bubble that we've played with always had to wear a rubber.

No exceptions there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It truly is frightening the number of peolke who can't understand simple logic.. My train of thought is.. If someone bareback 6 guys a week for a few months.. That is a lot of guys then screwing other people afterwards.. Perhaps those guys will play safe.. Likely if they go BB they won't bother.. Then it may one day become mine or someone else turn to enjoy one of these women who may have accidentally took the one risk with a guy who previously has been BB other women.. The probability of someone catching something has just increased by quite a lot don't you agree?

It's other peoples previous sexual history who cause someone to have problems.. And that is why BB sex is in my opinion very irresponsible and could even prove lethal.. Hope that makes sense?

"

No I don’t agree!! Because you would be using protection wouldn’t you? And minimum risk, I’m still struggling with your point OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It truly is frightening the number of peolke who can't understand simple logic.. My train of thought is.. If someone bareback 6 guys a week for a few months.. That is a lot of guys then screwing other people afterwards.. Perhaps those guys will play safe.. Likely if they go BB they won't bother.. Then it may one day become mine or someone else turn to enjoy one of these women who may have accidentally took the one risk with a guy who previously has been BB other women.. The probability of someone catching something has just increased by quite a lot don't you agree?

It's other peoples previous sexual history who cause someone to have problems.. And that is why BB sex is in my opinion very irresponsible and could even prove lethal.. Hope that makes sense?

"

Your banging on about people BB yet why is it your concern?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly is the problem? If they are advertising it as such, then they were right to tell you to sod off.

Everyone here is an adult and can make their own decisions, it's not your job to get involved in what other consenting adutls like to get up to.

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By *r and mrs 1976Couple
over a year ago

Middle of Somewhere


"It truly is frightening the number of peolke who can't understand simple logic.. My train of thought is.. If someone bareback 6 guys a week for a few months.. That is a lot of guys then screwing other people afterwards.. Perhaps those guys will play safe.. Likely if they go BB they won't bother.. Then it may one day become mine or someone else turn to enjoy one of these women who may have accidentally took the one risk with a guy who previously has been BB other women.. The probability of someone catching something has just increased by quite a lot don't you agree?

It's other peoples previous sexual history who cause someone to have problems.. And that is why BB sex is in my opinion very irresponsible and could even prove lethal.. Hope that makes sense?

"

Different strokes for different folks. This is swinging site. Not judge Judy. Personally I think you'd be better off just minding your own business op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What exactly is the problem? If they are advertising it as such, then they were right to tell you to sod off.

Everyone here is an adult and can make their own decisions, it's not your job to get involved in what other consenting adutls like to get up to. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It truly is frightening the number of peolke who can't understand simple logic.. My train of thought is.. If someone bareback 6 guys a week for a few months.. That is a lot of guys then screwing other people afterwards.. Perhaps those guys will play safe.. Likely if they go BB they won't bother.. Then it may one day become mine or someone else turn to enjoy one of these women who may have accidentally took the one risk with a guy who previously has been BB other women.. The probability of someone catching something has just increased by quite a lot don't you agree?

It's other peoples previous sexual history who cause someone to have problems.. And that is why BB sex is in my opinion very irresponsible and could even prove lethal.. Hope that makes sense?

Different strokes for different folks. This is swinging site. Not judge Judy. Personally I think you'd be better off just minding your own business op"

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