FabSwingers.com forum: How do you get meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, well a week is nothing, its not instashag, it could take months, just read profiles, tailor your messages to what a woman wants, be prepared to chat, get to know someone, I can't comment on your profile as you haven't asked but just enjoy the sites, join in the forums, maybe a club? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for message, could you comment on my profile to see if it’s ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for message, could you comment on my profile to see if it’s ok "

Write some more in your bio other than your 6 inches. Let people know what your like and looking for as your profile text isn't really going to grab anyone attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a message and ask for a fuck behind Lidl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the messages "

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for message, could you comment on my profile to see if it’s ok "

Rather too much cock xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I’ll delete some pics thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got to think that with the make to female ratio that your profile has to be much better than average to get any attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard"

Feck knows mate !

I've been here longer...

Joys of being a single male

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very true mate, it’s annoying when you get someone who wants to meet one day and the following day they blank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very true mate, it’s annoying when you get someone who wants to meet one day and the following day they blank you"

Haha that's normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ll have to get used to that then hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll have to get used to that then hahaha"

Welcome to my world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very true mate, it’s annoying when you get someone who wants to meet one day and the following day they blank you"

Develop a thicker skin...its usual for here.

Moaning won't help.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and do it again...(and again etc.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very true mate, it’s annoying when you get someone who wants to meet one day and the following day they blank you

Develop a thicker skin...its usual for here.

Moaning won't help.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and do it again...(and again etc.)"

Just to add to this....

Don't do Copy & Paste type messages !

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Always open with "FAF"

Send lots of cocks pics(covering all angles)

Make sure they know you are going to "ruin" them

Never meet for a social(they are boring)

Only meet at clubs on "greedy girls" nights

Just be yourself....it will happen(if "yourself" isn't too much of a twat)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always open with "FAF"

Send lots of cocks pics(covering all angles)

Make sure they know you are going to "ruin" them

Never meet for a social(they are boring)

Only meet at clubs on "greedy girls" nights

Just be yourself....it will happen(if "yourself" isn't too much of a twat)

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks people

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There is nothing of any significance about you in your profile. You have to be attractive. There are thousands upon thousands of single men on this site who want exactly what you want and have written pretty much what you have written. Why would a woman choose you over them, or men who make an effort? Do you think it's because you have put a load of naked photos on there? I'm afraid that is going to put off way more people than it attracts.

Women do not tend to just shag their way through men on this site. Even the ones who see a lot of guys are very choosy, and they can afford to be.

Your profile needs to say something about you. You need to show you respect the people you are trying to attract. Show them you are somebody they might like to spend time with, that you can hold a conversation and that you have a sense of humour. Making a woman laugh will get you into bed with one approximately 1,538,534 more times than showing her what you look like naked.

You need to sort out your photos. Leave something to the imagination. Get rid of the dick pics. They are mercilessly lambasted on this site. Get some nice photos of you dressed well in good locations. Show them what you look like when you make an effort.

If you do those things, it is just possible you might stand a chance of starting a conversation with somebody. Conversations with 100 women might get you a social meet. 100 social meets might get you what you want. Might.

If all you do is tell people what you want and expect them to come flocking like you are God's gift or a charity case then I guarantee you that you'll still be in the same position in a decade, let alone a week, and your prospects won't have improved either. This is a big mountain you are looking at climbing, and you probably can't even see base camp yet.

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By *ina teaspoonWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Your profile basically just says you want a shag, you want to unleash the beast or whatever, you aren't as innocent as you look.... My first impression would be that you have no interest in this being satisfying for any woman you might meet.

Also, fair play for having face photos on your profile, but maybe smile?!

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By *ina teaspoonWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard

Feck knows mate !

I've been here longer...

Joys of being a single male

You are quite beautiful!

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym

"I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard"

I've been on over a year. Still waiting. To be honest though most of that time I didn't even bother coming on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard"
it could take years before anything happens so go to social or clubs is the best bet as it hard on here for most single men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks and I’ve changed a bit of my profile

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By *ixedMagic1Man
over a year ago

"I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard"

Heres some advice, if you was a women would you look at your profile and think you would interested? No the only thing you would be getting is added to the block list.

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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago

Leicester

My advice is.. Pick a local club, go to it, get yourself known, have no expectations. Be nice to people. You might go 10 times, and nothing happens.. You might go once and something happens..

Use this site as a tool and not as the be all and end all...Remember your up against every other single bloke.. And we out number females on here..

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Thanks and I’ve changed a bit of my profile "

Not very much. You need a total overhaul. I can assure you, your profile won't get you anywhere as it is.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Thanks and I’ve changed a bit of my profile "

Didn't see it before, but it doesn't say much about why a lady would choose to meet up with you. Nothing interesting or amusing. Would you really meet someone in their 90s....?

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town

"I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard"

Make sure to read profiles. For example if a profile states no single males or no winks or messages off single guys then don’t ignore what is written. You might have more chance if you look what others are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard

Feck knows mate !

I've been here longer...

Joys of being a single male

You are quite beautiful! "

Thanks

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Thank you for message, could you comment on my profile to see if it’s ok "
. Similar to me you are a single guy that can’t accommodate no matter how genuine your reasons some will always be sceptical.My way is to go to socials and I am a member of a club and also go to a spa and that would be my advice to you.Also look at the age filters do you really want to meet a 99 year old.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Get to a club and network

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard"

I put sausages on a plate outside the house. As hungry men come to them I pull the plate inside on a string. Ince the guy’s inside he’s MINE!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’m new on here been on just over a week and was wondering, how do you get meets on here, I’m finding it hard

I put sausages on a plate outside the house. As hungry men come to them I pull the plate inside on a string. Ince the guy’s inside he’s MINE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be like some single men on this ?

Any holes a goal attitude and even stick your willy in a crack of a pavement type

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

Talk to ppl like there human an just be yourself don't be scared an maybe go to one of the club's local to you always a good start

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I put sausages on a plate outside the house. As hungry men come to them I pull the plate inside on a string. Ince the guy’s inside he’s MINE!

She has promised she'll let me out next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face."

I always look grumpy

Is that why I'm not getting any bonking ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face.

I always look grumpy

Is that why I'm not getting any bonking ? "

Quite possibly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face.

I always look grumpy

Is that why I'm not getting any bonking ?

Quite possibly."

Nah, I'm just an ugly fecker with no personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face.

I always look grumpy

Is that why I'm not getting any bonking ? "

You’re working the mean n moody look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face.

I always look grumpy

Is that why I'm not getting any bonking ?

Quite possibly.

Nah, I'm just an ugly fecker with no personality

Fecker who isn't bonking

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Ok I’ll delete some pics thanks"

Don't delete them. Just put them to friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face.

I always look grumpy

Is that why I'm not getting any bonking ?

Quite possibly.

Nah, I'm just an ugly fecker with no personality

Fecker who isn't bonking

I failed a "lol" at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face.

I always look grumpy

Is that why I'm not getting any bonking ?

You’re working the mean n moody look."

Like how you work the big boobies look ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face.

I always look grumpy

Is that why I'm not getting any bonking ?

Quite possibly.

Nah, I'm just an ugly fecker with no personality

Fecker who isn't bonking

I failed a "lol" at this

Soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to somewhere with more than 2 people

i've been here around 5 months and not met anyone yet, the three people who have shown interest have been 2+ hours away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everybody I’ll take on your advice and hope I get somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New username would help. Nice and horny somehow don't sound great together.

And pictures where you are naked or don't smile - very sad look on your face.

I always look grumpy

Is that why I'm not getting any bonking ?

You’re working the mean n moody look.

Like how you work the big boobies look ?! "

Yep, the very same

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Your strategy isn't great either. You winked at us after we had told you how bad and off putting your profile is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a wink and a cock pic that should do it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Send a wink and a cock pic that should do it"

A friend request without a message, and when it's ignored get angry and show her/ them exactly what they're missing out on with an all caps screed and several photos of your cock over the toilet. Nothing quite gets my motor running...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a wink and a cock pic that should do it

Look how horny you have got wait till you hear how big the cock is and how it can be rammed in every hole just before you get a donkey punch in the back of the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

"I send a message and ask for a fuck behind Lidl. "
you Cheapskate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send a message and ask for a fuck behind Lidl. "

And Im sure u get one f&b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send a message and ask for a fuck behind Lidl.

And Im sure u get one f&b

What about Poundland i will share my bottle of lambrini

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Is it the supermarket it's so much easier to pic up a good woman than on here. Almost guaranteed if ya got the look and gab

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Go to pub, wait till there are some birds half cut, and pull them. There is your simple solution if you care for meet alone, not for quality meet

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

" Is it the supermarket it's so much easier to pic up a good woman than on here. Almost guaranteed if ya got the look and gab"

The closest anyone has gotten to picking me up in a supermarket is an icy glare.

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

" Is it the supermarket it's so much easier to pic up a good woman than on here. Almost guaranteed if ya got the look and gab

The closest anyone has gotten to picking me up in a supermarket is an icy glare. "

I go to Lidl it's almost a very, pop in sometime

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"The closest anyone has gotten to picking me up in a supermarket is an icy glare. "

Presumably in the freezer section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers Clubs dude

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