FabSwingers.com forum: Quick meets or long meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do people prefer?

Quickies or long slow meets?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long I love to explore and find a women’s likes and dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long ones.. ideally 12hrs +

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long, sensual, mind blowing

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

My best meets have been long ones, as they are soo satisfying..

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Long. With tea breaks and recovery time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do people prefer?

Quickies or long slow meets?"

Dnt do short meets unless the are social or if we meet has a couple we like to have fun then enjoy the rest of the evening together

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By *earded GentlemanMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do people prefer?

Quickies or long slow meets?"

Long with time to play, sleep, play, eat and play some more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever feel right meet.

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By *aling69Man
over a year ago

London

"Definitely long"

Agree

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Has to long.... anything less than 2 hours is just a quickie

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By *riage12Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually prefer a longer meet.

Not adverse to a quickie with someone I already know.

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

a few hours of horny play is good for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer long quickies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No less than 2 hours !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long. A drink. Create some tension and get that list feeling. Then enjoy yourselves. Wham bam thank you mam and leave meets are terrible.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

whatever type the lady or couple im meeting wants, they can both have positives and negatives...

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By *un Mike 2019Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Each person is different, and each connection is different... I go for what feels right.

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By *inkyandperky555Couple
over a year ago

swansea

3 or 4 hours for us then it’s our time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long sensual,snogging,snuggling mind blowing meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never seen the point in a quick meet 1 wam bam is boring 2 how do you cum so quick

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Our meets are 2-3 hours ish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long we love to make a night of it

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

Long slow teasing flirty meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do people prefer?

Quickies or long slow meets?

Long with time to play, sleep, play, eat and play some more"

This for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do people prefer?

Quickies or long slow meets?

Long with time to play, sleep, play, eat and play some more

This for us

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All night long.

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

I need atleast an hour minimum but if i had my way every meet would be an over night thing with lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All nighters the best ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who it’s with but usually all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All for long on this so far ! Which is good and yes I agree also, however, short and sensual also have a place for me also (with men I know)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleepovers are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like long meets that much , but depends on the meet how short they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers are the best "

They are I agree. But I do like my own bed and I feel a bit weird with a full sleepover, suppose it comes with being a single mum for years, and no help with kids from toddlers, you kinda feel weird. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both!

Craving each right now

Prob start with a short and a repeat meet for a long! If they were appealing enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers are the best "
yes they are. Can't beat walking up to lazy morning sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing! "

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends really, we definitely prefer long and sensual with a little bit of rough to spice it up.!!! But as we meet daytimes as well, would respect those who only have an hour or so...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?"

2 days ago....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?

2 days ago.... "

Was she/he a fwb? We all would like occasionaly as you describe but other commitments means we can’t. I for one know I wouldn’t meet a person and have what you describe on the first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?

2 days ago....

Was she/he a fwb? We all would like occasionaly as you describe but other commitments means we can’t. I for one know I wouldn’t meet a person and have what you describe on the first meet. "

Only because I don’t have time or opportunities to do so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?

2 days ago....

Was she/he a fwb? We all would like occasionaly as you describe but other commitments means we can’t. I for one know I wouldn’t meet a person and have what you describe on the first meet.

Only because I don’t have time or opportunities to do so! "

Long meets ... so much more time to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long all nighters everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?

2 days ago....

Was she/he a fwb? We all would like occasionaly as you describe but other commitments means we can’t. I for one know I wouldn’t meet a person and have what you describe on the first meet.

Only because I don’t have time or opportunities to do so! "

Aha she was fwb. Though I do think that what I describe as my personal fun first time^ is after a very long talking period, (trust me you don't wanna be sat there asking what your favourite colour is after sex and counting down the hours to leave the hotel or house) again takes time and trust. Before that scenario comes into play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?

2 days ago....

Was she/he a fwb? We all would like occasionaly as you describe but other commitments means we can’t. I for one know I wouldn’t meet a person and have what you describe on the first meet.

Only because I don’t have time or opportunities to do so!

Exactly my point ! Some initial first meets aren’t all fluffy and hearts and DVD’s etc,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?

2 days ago....

Was she/he a fwb? We all would like occasionaly as you describe but other commitments means we can’t. I for one know I wouldn’t meet a person and have what you describe on the first meet.

Only because I don’t have time or opportunities to do so!

Exactly my point ! Some initial first meets aren’t all fluffy and hearts and DVD’s etc,,,

So to get to that point you do need an initial meeting, and it’s not going to be over night is it? Majority or initial meetings won’t be as you describe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?

2 days ago....

Was she/he a fwb? We all would like occasionaly as you describe but other commitments means we can’t. I for one know I wouldn’t meet a person and have what you describe on the first meet.

Only because I don’t have time or opportunities to do so!

Exactly my point ! Some initial first meets aren’t all fluffy and hearts and DVD’s etc,,,

Time permitting is more the issue if anything I'd whole heartedly agree! 3 of the last meets that were first time meets where sat with a film on enjoying food :D and then sexy time. If you have time, confidence and trust it can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleepovers with movies,snacks, cuddles and feeling completely relaxed. Go from talking about anything and everything to kinky fun. No rushing!

I love them too but in all honesty when was the last time you actually done that?!! With a meet?

2 days ago....

Was she/he a fwb? We all would like occasionaly as you describe but other commitments means we can’t. I for one know I wouldn’t meet a person and have what you describe on the first meet.

Only because I don’t have time or opportunities to do so!

Exactly my point ! Some initial first meets aren’t all fluffy and hearts and DVD’s etc,,,

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Both depending on scenario!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s long for me

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

Preferably a minimum of 6 hours. Over-night even better.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Long meets for plenty of time for round after round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long!!

Especially when you meet someone on a regular. All depends on timing/schedule, but can be whole day, spending nights together, weekends... my preference is always for long rather then "fuck and go" or "quickie" meets. Need time to explore with no rushing for clothes on/off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do people prefer?

Quickies or long slow meets?"

Surely it depends on how much time you have to spare. Or maybe if they're any good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had either from here

but i'd say both are probably equally as good, depends what you're doing, where you're doing it.

Meeting someone on their lunch break for a quickie is much different to a night in a hotel but no doubt both are fun in their own ways

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Long. We have sleepover weekends with out best swinger friends, taking turns between our place and theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would definitely have to be long I wouldn’t be interested in anything else personally

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Long ones. Enough time for rounds 2, 3, 4 or more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it takes

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I hate rushing...

I prefer to take my time.

I love to tease and please.

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By *ornysquirtingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

somerset

Both - We have spent a long time in a meet building up to play and fun then talking into the night.

However we have been really horny and late at night and just got a man over to help us fuck good and hard, done in under a hour.

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