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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A good topic for conversation, in your opinion who is more satisfying sexually and mentally. In my opinion has to be the older ladies as there is something about them which younger females cannot do. What’s your say?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think people can be categorised like that, myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good topic for conversation, in your opinion who is more satisfying sexually and mentally. In my opinion has to be the older ladies as there is something about them which younger females cannot do. What’s your say?"

You have much to learn young man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an older lady I think this is rubbish

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A good topic for conversation, in your opinion who is more satisfying sexually and mentally. In my opinion has to be the older ladies as there is something about them which younger females cannot do. What’s your say?"

Ah but younger women have something us older women don't and that is youth. I don't mean to rain on your parade in any way but most men will choose a younger woman over an older one all else being equal.

That isn't to say that older women don't have a lot to offer, we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the thing younger women can't do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the thing younger women can't do? "

Knit

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By *jwalls36Man
over a year ago

near kirkham/poulton

Older woman make a better breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the thing younger women can't do?

Knit "

I can knit!

Wait, am i old?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Older woman make a better breakfast "

this about sums it up I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the thing younger women can't do?

Knit

I can knit!

Wait, am i old? "

Shit you must be

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What is the thing younger women can't do?

Knit

I can knit!

Wait, am i old? "

I could knit when I was 7 so no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the thing younger women can't do?

Knit

I can knit!

Wait, am i old?

Shit you must be "

To be honest I feel it sometimes!

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By *jwalls36Man
over a year ago

near kirkham/poulton

Rubi, with your slim shady reference on your profile, this places you with the younger generation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being just 24 just feels weird because I'm more attracted to older women (mentally I feel like a 40 year old, damn back aches). Maturity is pretty sexy and underrated. And nothing more hotter than seeing someone who you see as mature person, turn into a kinky person. Just yum!

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By *ilo_Stitch69Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

I don't personally believe you can categorised people like that , I’ve had plenty off fun with guys younger and older than me both with different outcomes

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

It's hard to say, for example who's better in bed

50 year old women who had just 1 partner, or

25 year old who had 25 partners

Then you can go how kinky and how experienced they are

50 year old could be passionate in bad even though she had 1 partner

And 25 year old could be just laying in bad waiting till you finish like a plank of wood even though she slept with 25

Or vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older preferably but younger sometimes, just gets me really going some how

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's hard to say, for example who's better in bed

50 year old women who had just 1 partner, or

25 year old who had 25 partners

Then you can go how kinky and how experienced they are

50 year old could be passionate in bad even though she had 1 partner

And 25 year old could be just laying in bad waiting till you finish like a plank of wood even though she slept with 25

Or vice versa "

At least some of how a woman of any age is in bed is down to the person she's in bed with.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull


"It's hard to say, for example who's better in bed

50 year old women who had just 1 partner, or

25 year old who had 25 partners

Then you can go how kinky and how experienced they are

50 year old could be passionate in bad even though she had 1 partner

And 25 year old could be just laying in bad waiting till you finish like a plank of wood even though she slept with 25

Or vice versa

At least some of how a woman of any age is in bed is down to the person she's in bed with. "

True

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"A good topic for conversation, in your opinion who is more satisfying sexually and mentally. In my opinion has to be the older ladies as there is something about them which younger females cannot do. What’s your say?"

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By *ilo_Stitch69Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"It's hard to say, for example who's better in bed

50 year old women who had just 1 partner, or

25 year old who had 25 partners

Then you can go how kinky and how experienced they are

50 year old could be passionate in bad even though she had 1 partner

And 25 year old could be just laying in bad

waiting till you finish like a plank of wood even though she slept with 25

Or vice versa "

So agreed with this argument. Xx

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells


"It's hard to say, for example who's better in bed

50 year old women who had just 1 partner, or

25 year old who had 25 partners

Then you can go how kinky and how experienced they are

50 year old could be passionate in bad even though she had 1 partner

And 25 year old could be just laying in bad waiting till you finish like a plank of wood even though she slept with 25

Or vice versa "

What about a 50 year old woman who has had countless partners and is passionate and kinky (but can't stay in the same position because of aching joints!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though the only gutting thing about my age is not being in people's age range! I can't message them.

*Whispers* message me first

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By *rMister40Man
over a year ago

Kingston

Wrong mindset bud. Or shows where you are with your sexual self maturity... In my opinion but I respond with sincere respect

Good luck though and nothing wrong with the question but you shouldn't base it on age

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull


"It's hard to say, for example who's better in bed

50 year old women who had just 1 partner, or

25 year old who had 25 partners

Then you can go how kinky and how experienced they are

50 year old could be passionate in bad even though she had 1 partner

And 25 year old could be just laying in bad waiting till you finish like a plank of wood even though she slept with 25

Or vice versa

What about a 50 year old woman who has had countless partners and is passionate and kinky (but can't stay in the same position because of aching joints!) "

Haha that's what I'm trying to say, there is so many variables, so one can't judge just by age or partners count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rubi, with your slim shady reference on your profile, this places you with the younger generation "

Slim shady, wasn't that about 2 decades ago?

I like younger women, I like older women, but women around my age are the best of all except when they are not.

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By *jwalls36Man
over a year ago

near kirkham/poulton


"Rubi, with your slim shady reference on your profile, this places you with the younger generation

Slim shady, wasn't that about 2 decades ago?

I like younger women, I like older women, but women around my age are the best of all except when they are not."

The slim shady train has just rolled back into the station

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By *tevie DurhamMan
over a year ago

Durham

older ladies know how to please a man more and are more patient than younger ladies. Younger ladies are generally more versatile and active and less patient! It's a massive generalisation tho!

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"A good topic for conversation, in your opinion who is more satisfying sexually and mentally. In my opinion has to be the older ladies as there is something about them which younger females cannot do. What’s your say?"

I say, if I could just have a couple of volunteers from each category, I’ll let you know in a week or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good topic for conversation, in your opinion who is more satisfying sexually and mentally. In my opinion has to be the older ladies as there is something about them which younger females cannot do. What’s your say?"

That's just screaming immaturity

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger men seek older women, as they won’t always be older than us. Older men seek younger women, as they’ll always be younger. Simples. I have solved the riddle of the fiddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the thing younger women can't do?

Knit

I can knit!

Wait, am i old?

I could knit when I was 7 so no. "

I can't knit am I young!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What is the thing younger women can't do?

Knit

I can knit!

Wait, am i old?

I could knit when I was 7 so no.

I can't knit am I young!"

Yes!

I can crochet and embroider too I must be flaming ancient

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What is the thing younger women can't do?

Knit

I can knit!

Wait, am i old?

I could knit when I was 7 so no.

I can't knit am I young!"

PS I love your style in your second photo

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Older woman make a better breakfast "

Not if I'm cooking it

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

One of the things about fab which has consistently got on my nerves is the fetishising of women based on their age. It seems often that men think we should be grateful in our advanced years that someone will fuck us or that we’re desperate and will shag anything. I’m not even 40 yet! Me thinks American Pie has much to answer for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would an older lady care to let me find out??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the things about fab which has consistently got on my nerves is the fetishising of women based on their age. It seems often that men think we should be grateful in our advanced years that someone will fuck us or that we’re desperate and will shag anything. I’m not even 40 yet! Me thinks American Pie has much to answer for!! "

Everyone stereotypes and has preferences - including women. If you don’t like it, start dating the deaf and dumb.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"One of the things about fab which has consistently got on my nerves is the fetishising of women based on their age. It seems often that men think we should be grateful in our advanced years that someone will fuck us or that we’re desperate and will shag anything. I’m not even 40 yet! Me thinks American Pie has much to answer for!! "

I get people I consider my contemporaries messaging me looking for a cougar. I've passed the scary 3-0, I'm over the hill

And yeah, there are probably things that are true about me because of my age, but I don't like being fetishised because of it. (to each their own, but not for me)

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Does age matter....????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older woman make a better breakfast "

Yay!! Something I’m good at, cooking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the things about fab which has consistently got on my nerves is the fetishising of women based on their age. It seems often that men think we should be grateful in our advanced years that someone will fuck us or that we’re desperate and will shag anything. I’m not even 40 yet! Me thinks American Pie has much to answer for!!

Everyone stereotypes and has preferences - including women. If you don’t like it, start dating the deaf and dumb. "

Deaf and dumb? You mean human beings with thoughts, feelings, hopes and desires?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"One of the things about fab which has consistently got on my nerves is the fetishising of women based on their age. It seems often that men think we should be grateful in our advanced years that someone will fuck us or that we’re desperate and will shag anything. I’m not even 40 yet! Me thinks American Pie has much to answer for!!

Everyone stereotypes and has preferences - including women. If you don’t like it, start dating the deaf and dumb. "

And sometimes it's conveyed in a way that is massively off putting to the recipient, who's perfectly entitled to their feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the things about fab which has consistently got on my nerves is the fetishising of women based on their age. It seems often that men think we should be grateful in our advanced years that someone will fuck us or that we’re desperate and will shag anything. I’m not even 40 yet! Me thinks American Pie has much to answer for!!

Everyone stereotypes and has preferences - including women. If you don’t like it, start dating the deaf and dumb.

Deaf and dumb? You mean human beings with thoughts, feelings, hopes and desires?"

Those that can’t tell her their preferences, nor hear her of hers(commonly known as hypocrisy).

It was not said to speak Ill of the less fortunate.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does age matter....????"

Yes, it does to me.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land


"One of the things about fab which has consistently got on my nerves is the fetishising of women based on their age. It seems often that men think we should be grateful in our advanced years that someone will fuck us or that we’re desperate and will shag anything. I’m not even 40 yet! Me thinks American Pie has much to answer for!!

Everyone stereotypes and has preferences - including women. If you don’t like it, start dating the deaf and dumb. "

Not dating anyone actually. Also, I explained one thing that to me personally was unattractive. I don’t quite see how that prompted you to be quite so rude, particularly as I have certainly had no interaction with you one way or the other. I shall just go with the idea that you must be having a bad day and lashed out unnecessarily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the things about fab which has consistently got on my nerves is the fetishising of women based on their age. It seems often that men think we should be grateful in our advanced years that someone will fuck us or that we’re desperate and will shag anything. I’m not even 40 yet! Me thinks American Pie has much to answer for!!

Everyone stereotypes and has preferences - including women. If you don’t like it, start dating the deaf and dumb.

Not dating anyone actually. Also, I explained one thing that to me personally was unattractive. I don’t quite see how that prompted you to be quite so rude, particularly as I have certainly had no interaction with you one way or the other. I shall just go with the idea that you must be having a bad day and lashed out unnecessarily. "

I'm not lashing out, I just find that women on here always have something to say about mens preferences. Yet, have a super long list of their own.

If you don't like men having preferences, then find one that is incapable of telling you of them. This is the gist of my post.

Having a preference for an age is no different to one preferring a certain hair colour, skin colour, height, body type etc. etc. etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the thing younger women can't do? "

I believe its not about younger or older women !!

All about who gives a good sex in bed !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more comfortable with guys around my own age. I did try out much younger when I first joined... It didn't suit me well

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By *g55555Man
over a year ago

chorley

Age doesn’t matter .. but from experience older woman can handle a load better

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


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I'm not lashing out, I just find that women on here always have something to say about mens preferences. Yet, have a super long list of their own.

If you don't like men having preferences, then find one that is incapable of telling you of them. This is the gist of my post.

Having a preference for an age is no different to one preferring a certain hair colour, skin colour, height, body type etc. etc. etc.

"

Here's the thing. You, me, anyone, can like anything at all. Assuming it's legal, you/ I/ they can look for it.

But the recipients of your desire have feelings and preferences too. For example, I get messages telling me that I'm a disgrace because my dresses/ skirts are long and loose. I'm losing part of my market because my dress sense offends them. That's information I can take and choose to act on if I want. I might get more attention if I went for minis rather than flouncy skirts.

Here, some women are saying that either they don't like the age thing, and/or it can be put in a way which is off-putting. That might be information that you choose to use in order to find what you want. Or not. Whatever you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm not lashing out, I just find that women on here always have something to say about mens preferences. Yet, have a super long list of their own.

If you don't like men having preferences, then find one that is incapable of telling you of them. This is the gist of my post.

Having a preference for an age is no different to one preferring a certain hair colour, skin colour, height, body type etc. etc. etc.

Here's the thing. You, me, anyone, can like anything at all. Assuming it's legal, you/ I/ they can look for it.

But the recipients of your desire have feelings and preferences too. For example, I get messages telling me that I'm a disgrace because my dresses/ skirts are long and loose. I'm losing part of my market because my dress sense offends them. That's information I can take and choose to act on if I want. I might get more attention if I went for minis rather than flouncy skirts.

Here, some women are saying that either they don't like the age thing, and/or it can be put in a way which is off-putting. That might be information that you choose to use in order to find what you want. Or not. Whatever you like. "

Your rant has nothing to do with what I had said. Everyone has feelings, why is it wrong for a man to like mature women as their only preference. Whilst you are allowed whichever preferences that you wish.

Simply desiring mature women is a compliment, not an insult. Whomever finds it to be an offence is quite frankly, never going to be happy as they’re perpetually offended by something.

I guess we should all complain about the bbc only, send face pictures or delete, professional only, tall only, within our age limits only, british only, no gingers. No fat men, no thin/twink men, no hairy men, no bald men, no ugly men, no men, no single men. You see these, are far more offensive. I can add more also.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... You've completely misunderstood my point.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... You've completely misunderstood my point.

Have fun. "

Well, you went on a massive rant about your dress sense which, quite frankly has nothing to do with the topic, nor the majority of men on here.

The rest of my post was entirely in line with the topic matter. If someone doesn’t like something, that’s fine. It doesn’t mean that anyone has a right to demonize nor assume what their reasonings are for their preference.

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’ve always gone for older fellas. I have to admit that a younger one does appeal now but I just can’t bring myself to yet

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