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Single guys posing as single fems

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have come across several guys pretending to be females on the site. Has anyone else caught a few guys out?

It is really infuriating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

report them to admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"report them to admin"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YEAH CAME ACROSS A FEW, i tend to not bother mailing unless they have at leats two veris on profile. That way they cannot just veri themselves with their male profile and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the reasoning behind this?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"What's the reasoning behind this?"

Cock pics, smutty chat and wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only come across men posing as couples and then saying they are no longer together. I dont know of you can change your status or not though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come across lots of guys posing as couples ask to speak to the female and she is asleep or at work our in America

blocked then move on

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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

no pics on profile check, no webcam erm check(with the excuse they dont have one) ,random pm s yep probably a gay man trying to get cheap thrills by wanting to see your photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah thats defo a little worrisome, Indeed report to admin asap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah there's lots of profiles like that.

One I saw the other day was giving away their email, bb messenger all in the profile which is the first sign of fakery. Then the photos were of this hot model, the description text said 'if you've seen my pics before, it's because I did some adult modelling a few yrs ago', ha! And what, they haven't been snapped in a home made pic since?

Obviously a guy. Just looking for text sex or cock pics or pic of your wife to explore their 'bi' side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're quite easy to spot! Report any suspected fakes to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only come across men posing as couples and then saying they are no longer together. I dont know of you can change your status or not though."
yes i get this x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sad as fcuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have yet to see a single fem posing as a single male but its gotta be happening somewhere lol xx

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

all man here

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"no pics on profile check, no webcam erm check(with the excuse they dont have one) ,random pm s yep probably a gay man trying to get cheap thrills by wanting to see your photos"

They must be cheap thrills... have you seen the lush men on Gaydar........ phwoarrrrrrrrr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have reciently came across a girl pretending to be a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have reciently came across a girl pretending to be a guy"

One way of cutting down on the mail I suppose xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have reciently came across a girl pretending to be a guy"

Hope you cleaned it up afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha ive clocked a few like, had some real funny attempts at them wanting more than pictures or dirty talk though! they blatenlty thought they could trick people into gay meets haha

they one "girl" on here who wanted me to go out with her and this lad she knew, said she was in america but coming back to north east in a few weeks time. but wanted me to start seeing the lad so when she come over we would already be used to each other and getting on well for when we have fun!

funny how when she got us to speak to the guy account as well they always both on the same time, and she never on during weird hours even though lived in usa for a few month with family, always same hours as a english person! went all defensive when i said well give me a ring or go on cam sometime to show me your genuine and went off on one saying you think im fake and the guy account suddenly started to message saying how would she be able to do this she in USA! i was like its just as easy to get on phone or cam in USA as it is in england ! went pretty quiet not long after that which i thought was funny haha.

had another as well, this time a couple! but its always the mrs on it, the story is her boyfriends working away but she wants to have bi 3 some when he comes back and looking for the right guy! claims to have been let down so many times so wants proof that your bi. so she asks if i would meet her boyfriends fuck buddy so he can report back to her what im like in bed and proove myself to her lol

pretty funny how stupid these men think you are! just put a few pictures of skinny young blonde girls and message you and expect you to gay up to get with a fictional female haha.

had a few others but the genious of these two impressed me wondering how many people fall for it!

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

Well, as the OP is female I doubt very much it was a gay guy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, as the OP is female I doubt very much it was a gay guy... "

might be a lesbian in a mans body!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of couples where it's a guy saying woman is at work, woman is out, woman is on holiday, woman is asleep. Blimey, how do they ever have time for meets as a couple!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get a lot of couples where it's a guy saying woman is at work, woman is out, woman is on holiday, woman is asleep. Blimey, how do they ever have time for meets as a couple!?!

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^This happens a lot - stopped contacting unverified couples now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came across a lady who said she would only meet if i fckd her bi mate a week before we met. I found this a little odd, but then she has been verified various times. Still i decided against it as for me i didnt care how attractive her pixs were (and believe me they were) thats just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have come across quite a few couples and I can see why they would do that but there is little to be gain from posing as a woman unless the man is bi.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"What's the reasoning behind this?"

Cranks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came across a lady who said she would only meet if i fckd her bi mate a week before we met. I found this a little odd, but then she has been verified various times. Still i decided against it as for me i didnt care how attractive her pixs were (and believe me they were) thats just not for me."

its a guy, i think the situation where your required to proove your bi by getting into a bloke before hand are pretty rare, if you think of it then it sounds like a guy trick to get sex rather than a woman thing to do!

i can understand they women paranoid about straight people lying to get into them for 3some by saying they bi,

but when the photos are always something very fit and special + the fact they will always reply to you, and dont seem too fussy even if you maybe on paper out of their league. then you gotta add up all things you know and think is this a guy or a woman, if they act like a guy and think like a guy and look to good to be true, then i think they probally are a guy! espiecally if they contacted you first!

i just find people funny like that, enjoy chatting to them and asking them to step things up and proove themselves to be genuine and watch the excuses and things they say to get out of it haha !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is good sport!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only come across men posing as couples and then saying they are no longer together. I dont know of you can change your status or not though."

I'm not 100% sure but I think you can ask admin to change it. Not sure how that would work with verifications though? Guess the person is still genuine, just their relationship status has changed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to smile at this thread. Just supposing this thread was coughs) was started by a man who is actual posing as a woman. I am a huge fan of irony and this would be at the pinnacle of irony.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I once had a 'woman' saying that she was trying to arrange a fem to meet and shag her boyfriend as a birthday present ... Solo of course. I simply said,

a) I'm not up for being offered as a 'gift' to ANYONE

and

b) Do you think I'm stupid? You're a MAN you sad muppet!

Emm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had ANOTHER 'couple' message me looking for a meet - But can only send pics via MSN 6 day member no verifications

Asked to speak to his missus on the phone to confirm and he bolted.

These weirdos seem to love the gut on me!

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Well, as the OP is female I doubt very much it was a gay guy...

might be a lesbian in a mans body!"

i must be a lesbian too as i only shag ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only come across men posing as couples and then saying they are no longer together. I dont know of you can change your status or not though.

I'm not 100% sure but I think you can ask admin to change it. Not sure how that would work with verifications though? Guess the person is still genuine, just their relationship status has changed?"

You can ask admin to change yes as I did that very same thing. Veris are veris so left mine there until I get a new load.

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