FabSwingers.com forum: How many......?

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fabsteroos

Musing again.

How many chances do you give someone if they let you down over a meet?

If the reasons seem valid and true then how many chances do they get?

Bhubaysi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One if we believe them.

Zero more chances if we don't.

Our free time is very limited and we don't like to waste it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One if we believe them.

Zero more chances if we don't.

Our free time is very limited and we don't like to waste it.

this.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One if we believe them.

Zero more chances if we don't.

Our free time is very limited and we don't like to waste it.

this.

Mrs "

I have the same policy, although it’s rare that someone who messed up once doesn’t mess up again.

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By *obandsue 69Couple
over a year ago

north Cornwall

We let a bull go as he cancelled us twice, that's enough chances I think.. his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the excuse given, and what I know of them already, sometimes things happen.

Never give a 3rd chance though.

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By *v371Man
over a year ago

Ashford

Just one and only chance for all. Timewasters get no more. Folks being unable to attend due to changed circumstances and sending excuses in advance, get a bonus chance, may be even two... We know how it is with life and work and family and all - but plain decency and common sense is still not banned officially, or are they?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

They get once chance only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabsteroos

Musing again.

How many chances do you give someone if they let you down over a meet?

If the reasons seem valid and true then how many chances do they get?

Bhubaysi x "

One chance. But if they do it again they're out. X

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

One.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm ridiculous but after a first meet which was amazing I gave someone 13 chances Haha

Insane I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I'm ridiculous but after a first meet which was amazing I gave someone 13 chances Haha

Insane I know"

I think we've all done that in our early days on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One more chance if they gave a valid reason for cancelling and we believed them, things do happen after all. I would have thought if you'd had to cancel once you would definitely turn up the second time if you ever intended to.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I know I'm ridiculous but after a first meet which was amazing I gave someone 13 chances Haha

Insane I know

I think we've all done that in our early days on Fab. "

Some not so early on though.....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"One more chance if they gave a valid reason for cancelling and we believed them, things do happen after all. I would have thought if you'd had to cancel once you would definitely turn up the second time if you ever intended to."

This

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

zero i'm afraid. life too short to waste time on flakers

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"zero i'm afraid. life too short to waste time on flakers"

I had one woman cancel on me last minute, because her car had burst a water hose. She sent me a photo to prove it which I felt was fair enough, and certainly worthy of a second chance

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

If I've never met the woman before, one, because well, shit can happen at times.

If it's someone I've met before it doesn't matter, I'll know them well enough to know they're not bullshitting.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Second chance if it seems genuine. One if they don’t!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Zero.

1 day before the planned meet I will contact for confirmation. If no response up to 2 hrs prior to the meet, I wont bother to change and will go out have fun as my male self.

I wont ask for explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One chance or two depending on my mood if their excuses are valid.

Btw I'll check that excuse first though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabsteroos

Musing again.

How many chances do you give someone if they let you down over a meet?

If the reasons seem valid and true then how many chances do they get?

Bhubaysi x "

1. maybe. with a doctor's note. lol

or never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this couple profile I would not give them a second chance, unless it was a very good excuse.

On my single profile I would give them one second chance possibly

(Hev)

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We give everyone one chance... But ironically they have always let us down again so really history should teach us to not give them a second chance.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We move on if cancelled upon.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"One if we believe them.

Zero more chances if we don't.

Our free time is very limited and we don't like to waste it.

Precisely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one if we believe none if we don't our time is to limited to be messed around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One simple as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One if we believe them.

Zero more chances if we don't.

Our free time is very limited and we don't like to waste it.

Kind of the same...yellow card then a red card, some go straight to red...benched aka offty fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero if anyone lets us down or goes quiet before a meet we don’t give anymore chances .

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Chance would be a fine thing

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Fabsteroos

Musing again.

How many chances do you give someone if they let you down over a meet?

If the reasons seem valid and true then how many chances do they get?

Bhubaysi x "

One. Too many sexy people out there to be waiting around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the reason given and whether I think it’s BS or not. I’ve given 2nd / 3rd chances before, sometimes it was worth it other times not.

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