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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this post is inspired by this little story that happened to me recently.

Someone(on another site) contacted me wanting a meet, and saying how'd they'd love to meet me. I replied saying that I would love to. They then asked me to travel to them(about 70 miles) I was fine with that. They then asked me to get a hotel for us, I was fine with that too. But then gave me the exact hotel they wanted that was about £400 p/n. To which they then added that I would have to leave later on so they could have the room for the night.

I politely said that it wouldn't be possible at the minute as I don't have that amount of money going free, and offered alternatives which they declined then sent me several abusive messages.

So I was wondering, do you think this is acceptable? and how much would do for e meet until you have to take a step back and so no?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the second word I would use to them would be OFF, I wont advise the 'first'....

starts with an 'F' tho........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the second word I would use to them would be OFF, I wont advise the 'first'....

starts with an 'F' tho........"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats disgusting ... the arrogance of that is shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some fuckin nutters about lol there really are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only hope is that it was a wind up to see how gullible you are? As others have said - shocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you were being a bit tight - why not throw in tickets to a show and a bottle of bubbly as well? Hehe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To make matters worse they then started telling other users I was a 'time waster'. Safe to say I'm not on that site anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£400 for a hotel room, as soon as she said that, you should of blocked and deleted her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My only hope is that it was a wind up to see how gullible you are? As others have said - shocking.

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Nop not a wind up at all, the only reason I offered to pay for a cheaper hotel was I thought I may stay the night and do some birthday shopping the day after! haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd travel and at best go 50/50 for a room if they couldn't accomodate.

We'd be happy for them to have the room if they'd travelled farther than we had, and if we had to return home.

It would be a Travelodge or Premier Inn type hotel though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dreadful, never heard the like...

spot on Soaps

Wolf

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have seen on here requests for guys to get a room, the female would shag him and then he leave as she was inviting other guys to join her for the night...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

Travelodge or premier inn all the way. Nothing special but perfect for a sex meet. Cheap and basic and clean and all over the place.

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

omg how cheeky you pay for the room, you make the effort of travelling to them and they expected to be the ones who slept in the room and have you leave, glad you refused or i would be thinking they might have rushed in someone else after you had left, stranger things might have happened.

Sorry to hear you had to deal with that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this post is inspired by this little story that happened to me recently.

Someone(on another site) contacted me wanting a meet, and saying how'd they'd love to meet me. I replied saying that I would love to. They then asked me to travel to them(about 70 miles) I was fine with that. They then asked me to get a hotel for us, I was fine with that too. But then gave me the exact hotel they wanted that was about £400 p/n. To which they then added that I would have to leave later on so they could have the room for the night.

I politely said that it wouldn't be possible at the minute as I don't have that amount of money going free, and offered alternatives which they declined then sent me several abusive messages.

So I was wondering, do you think this is acceptable? and how much would do for e meet until you have to take a step back and so no?

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Cheeky sods hey lol I am not as polite as you m8. I would have told the person to go fuck them self lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£400 pound per night? I wouldn't even cough up the effort of replying to that mate....

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

some people have the neck to be that greedy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I replied just to be polite haha, just a shame as I had to leave that site because of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...But then gave me the exact hotel they wanted that was about £400 p/n. To which they then added that I would have to leave later on so they could have the room for the night.

I politely said that it wouldn't be possible at the minute as I don't have that amount of money going free, and offered alternatives which they declined then sent me several abusive messages."

I find this shocking. Shocking that a guy would still offer to meet at an alternative venue with a couple that had promised to kick him out of a expensive hotel room he'd paid for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I forget to mention that I told them I'd want the room as I planned to stay the night and do some birthday shopping the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this post is inspired by this little story that happened to me recently.

Someone(on another site) contacted me wanting a meet, and saying how'd they'd love to meet me. I replied saying that I would love to. They then asked me to travel to them(about 70 miles) I was fine with that. They then asked me to get a hotel for us, I was fine with that too. But then gave me the exact hotel they wanted that was about £400 p/n. To which they then added that I would have to leave later on so they could have the room for the night.

I politely said that it wouldn't be possible at the minute as I don't have that amount of money going free, and offered alternatives which they declined then sent me several abusive messages.

So I was wondering, do you think this is acceptable? and how much would do for e meet until you have to take a step back and so no?

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im disgusted with this couple hunny... they were out for a free ride ( parden the pun) cheeky feckers!!! hope you blocked their asses ggrrrrr

Not everyone is like them just stay in local area from now on and share hotel bill but dont go over80 pounds,,,,there there for sex not a fecking pamper day in a swanky hotel.... pity you cant name them,...bloody fuming for you hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" They then asked me to travel to them(about 70 miles)

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Is the point at which you should of perhaps took that step back...anyway you played it right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this post is inspired by this little story that happened to me recently.

Someone(on another site) contacted me wanting a meet, and saying how'd they'd love to meet me. I replied saying that I would love to. They then asked me to travel to them(about 70 miles) I was fine with that. They then asked me to get a hotel for us, I was fine with that too. But then gave me the exact hotel they wanted that was about £400 p/n. To which they then added that I would have to leave later on so they could have the room for the night.

I politely said that it wouldn't be possible at the minute as I don't have that amount of money going free, and offered alternatives which they declined then sent me several abusive messages.

So I was wondering, do you think this is acceptable? and how much would do for e meet until you have to take a step back and so no?

"

wow the cheek of some people - nope wouldnt find that acceptable for anyone, either gender, great believer in it should be fair on both sides

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I will do it for 3 black sports mix and a ribena

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

There are some right piss takers out there

Its a shame that some people let them get away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it a five star spar hotel , lol most good london hotels dont cost as much as this ? you sure she is not on the game and getting money back , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd travel and at best go 50/50 for a room if they couldn't accomodate.

We'd be happy for them to have the room if they'd travelled farther than we had, and if we had to return home.

It would be a Travelodge or Premier Inn type hotel though.

Same, 50/50 on room if we weren't able to accomm and home if we were the closest. And a budget hotel like above too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider that as taking the piss, and would cut my losses and run as fast as I could.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"To make matters worse they then started telling other users I was a 'time waster'. Safe to say I'm not on that site anymore! "

As youll see from threads on here, the word 'timewaster' gets thrown around very easily...

Agree with the other posts that this is taking the piss, but it does make you wonder how many people fall for it eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you had booked the room, and then left and they stayed. You would still be responsible for that room, and if they trashed it from a party etc, you would pay for it via your card...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were bang out of order imho, as long as its somewhere clean we are happy, and also think its fair to pay halves or book another room for ourselves to stay if we were going to be there overnight too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is so dodgy it stands out a mile.


"So this post is inspired by this little story that happened to me recently.

Someone(on another site) contacted me wanting a meet, and saying how'd they'd love to meet me. I replied saying that I would love to. They then asked me to travel to them(about 70 miles) I was fine with that. They then asked me to get a hotel for us, I was fine with that too. But then gave me the exact hotel they wanted that was about £400 p/n. To which they then added that I would have to leave later on so they could have the room for the night.

I politely said that it wouldn't be possible at the minute as I don't have that amount of money going free, and offered alternatives which they declined then sent me several abusive messages.

So I was wondering, do you think this is acceptable? and how much would do for e meet until you have to take a step back and so no?

"

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some people will try anything. I am surprised that you even got back to them at all for wanting you to pay all of any hotel room, there was two of them and one of you, they where going to get as much pleasure as you. I prime example of some thinking single guys will jump through hoops to get a meet. Im sorry you chose to leave the site though i would of stayed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most swingers are happy going 50/50 on rooms booked to play in ... why on earth did thay feel you should pay the lot , You need to block this couple never chat to them again and move on . XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I replied just to be polite haha, just a shame as I had to leave that site because of them"

Bless you. Yer lovely. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree with a lot that is been said, the bit for me is you have to leave and let them have the room,totally out of order.

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