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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After my first time at Isis last night, so many guys appear to look a lot bigger than me which is a shame, I'm only 6".. I still had fun though.

They also all seem to be wanking for a good few hour! I can't last nowhere near as long as that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After my first time at Isis last night, so many guys appear to look a lot bigger than me which is a shame, I'm only 6".. I still had fun though.

They also all seem to be wanking for a good few hour! I can't last nowhere near as long as that!"

And your point is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can probably go again though... plus who wants to wank for an hour?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After my first time at Isis last night, so many guys appear to look a lot bigger than me which is a shame, I'm only 6".. I still had fun though.

They also all seem to be wanking for a good few hour! I can't last nowhere near as long as that!

And your point is?"

Just make me a bit embarrassed that I can't last so long, and a bit inferior. I feel other will be watching and look down at me and laugh in their head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is the key... Confidence is sexy..

Why worry... Have fun.. and not everyone wants someone that can last an hour.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of men cum quick and why worry about what they think anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After my first time at Isis last night, so many guys appear to look a lot bigger than me which is a shame, I'm only 6".. I still had fun though.

They also all seem to be wanking for a good few hour! I can't last nowhere near as long as that!

And your point is?

Just make me a bit embarrassed that I can't last so long, and a bit inferior. I feel other will be watching and look down at me and laugh in their head."

mate im five foot three bald fat and also have a six inch cock

I can last though cause unfortunately i cant cum most of the time

Do i give a fuck if others in a group situation laugh??

Nope not as though its ever happened like taht anyway

Confidence mate and a belief in yaself xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of men cum quick and why worry about what they think anyway."

yh, for me I worry a bit because ladies may have a giggle in their head or amongst them selves say he's only 6" or he only lasts 5mins.. he's just a kid. And will want to stay away from me and not accept me into the circles.

We still had a great time though, and there are a lot of very nice people there

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"After my first time at Isis last night, so many guys appear to look a lot bigger than me which is a shame, I'm only 6".. I still had fun though.

They also all seem to be wanking for a good few hour! I can't last nowhere near as long as that!"

well that was your first time, apart from what you have said, I hope you enjoyed it.

the more you go, the more comfortable you will become as you will see allsorts.

big, small, thick, thin, cut, uncut, floppy, hard and the always floppy....

chin up, use what you have to the best you can, give pleasure to others, enjoy the pleasure given to you.......

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of men cum quick and why worry about what they think anyway.

yh, for me I worry a bit because ladies may have a giggle in their head or amongst them selves say he's only 6" or he only lasts 5mins.. he's just a kid. And will want to stay away from me and not accept me into the circles.

Not all men have long ones, its how hard it is that counts, my vibrator is 6inches and is very good, and i think 5mins is quite a long time, some of the men i have had sex with have cum quicker than that, i still liked it though.

We still had a great time though, and there are a lot of very nice people there"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just accept people come in all shapes in sizes if everyone felt same way as you there be no swinging clubs !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all women think men in their twenties are just kids, a lot of ladies like me apreciate having a much younger man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of blokes on here who wished they had a 6" cock

Anyway, fuck her twice and tell her she's had 12"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of men cum quick and why worry about what they think anyway.

yh, for me I worry a bit because ladies may have a giggle in their head or amongst them selves say he's only 6" or he only lasts 5mins.. he's just a kid. And will want to stay away from me and not accept me into the circles.

We still had a great time though, and there are a lot of very nice people there"

I know what you mean mate, I'll hold my hand up and admit to being another 6 incher.

When I was your age I doubt I'd have had the bottle to go to a swinging club and If I did and got the chance to play with a mature lady (my fantasy at your age) I'd have probably lasted 5 strokes not 5 minutes.

I know what you mean about other guys, makes you sometimes think they only become swingers because they have big cocks and probably wouldn't have the bottle to do it if they didn't have.

And yes, in the back of my mind I still have the same doubts as you do.

But all that aside, now thirty years on, I still have 6" but sometimes it takes me forever to come, so with age not only comes wisdom but a less sensitive cock too.

Just try to relax and enjoy yourself, which, I know, is sometimes easier said than done especially when the self consciousness takes hold.

Good luck and have fun! R

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Lots of men cum quick and why worry about what they think anyway.

yh, for me I worry a bit because ladies may have a giggle in their head or amongst them selves say he's only 6" or he only lasts 5mins.. he's just a kid. And will want to stay away from me and not accept me into the circles.

We still had a great time though, and there are a lot of very nice people there

I know what you mean mate, I'll hold my hand up and admit to being another 6 incher.

When I was your age I doubt I'd have had the bottle to go to a swinging club and If I did and got the chance to play with a mature lady (my fantasy at your age) I'd have probably lasted 5 strokes not 5 minutes.

I know what you mean about other guys, makes you sometimes think they only become swingers because they have big cocks and probably wouldn't have the bottle to do it if they didn't have.

And yes, in the back of my mind I still have the same doubts as you do.

But all that aside, now thirty years on, I still have 6" but sometimes it takes me forever to come, so with age not only comes wisdom but a less sensitive cock too.

Just try to relax and enjoy yourself, which, I know, is sometimes easier said than done especially when the self consciousness takes hold.

Good luck and have fun! R"

A very nice post....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of men cum quick and why worry about what they think anyway.

yh, for me I worry a bit because ladies may have a giggle in their head or amongst them selves say he's only 6" or he only lasts 5mins.. he's just a kid. And will want to stay away from me and not accept me into the circles.

We still had a great time though, and there are a lot of very nice people there

I know what you mean mate, I'll hold my hand up and admit to being another 6 incher.

When I was your age I doubt I'd have had the bottle to go to a swinging club and If I did and got the chance to play with a mature lady (my fantasy at your age) I'd have probably lasted 5 strokes not 5 minutes.

I know what you mean about other guys, makes you sometimes think they only become swingers because they have big cocks and probably wouldn't have the bottle to do it if they didn't have.

And yes, in the back of my mind I still have the same doubts as you do.

But all that aside, now thirty years on, I still have 6" but sometimes it takes me forever to come, so with age not only comes wisdom but a less sensitive cock too.

Just try to relax and enjoy yourself, which, I know, is sometimes easier said than done especially when the self consciousness takes hold.

Good luck and have fun! R"

Great advice, that's re-assuring thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not all women think men in their twenties are just kids, a lot of ladies like me apreciate having a much younger man. "

aww thanks, thats good to know :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After my first time at Isis last night, so many guys appear to look a lot bigger than me which is a shame, I'm only 6".. I still had fun though.

They also all seem to be wanking for a good few hour! I can't last nowhere near as long as that!"

It's not what you've got....it's what you do with it!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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They also all seem to be wanking for a good few hour!"

They probably practice every night behind their keyboards

Like the others have said, a few more visits and youll see they come in all shapes, sizes and talents...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've gotta rationalise those worries of yours - do you think for one moment the ladies are going to be thinking that, or are they going to be concentrating on how good you feel inside instead?

Guys will always measure themselves up to the next guy.. y'know just read through all the forum threads over the years about cock size and what women want. Cock size is further down the list than you might think. They want someone with a good sense of humour that they'll have a good time with above all. Sizing up is meaningless anyway - the most successful guys aren't the big guns..

Do people actually look like they're thinking those things? - chances are their minds are on any one of a load of things, whilst you're focussed on something that could bring you down and stop you having fun, and it's fun that we're in this for in the first place.

With time will come experience and you'll be looking back on this post years from now thinking a lot differently and wondering why you ever worried about stuff like that. Put those worries on the back burner, relax and enjoy yourself - remember the fun's about what you get out of it too

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After my first time at Isis last night, so many guys appear to look a lot bigger than me which is a shame, I'm only 6".. I still had fun though.

They also all seem to be wanking for a good few hour! I can't last nowhere near as long as that!

And your point is?"

That was not very nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely is not all about size. The most well endowed man I have ever met was very dull in bed. He only liked the missionary position and had no clue about foreplay. Give me a man with a smaller cock and a great imagination (and fingers) any day.

If you liked the club I hope you go again and don't worry what others think.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've gotta rationalise those worries of yours - do you think for one moment the ladies are going to be thinking that, or are they going to be concentrating on how good you feel inside instead?

Guys will always measure themselves up to the next guy.. y'know just read through all the forum threads over the years about cock size and what women want. Cock size is further down the list than you might think. They want someone with a good sense of humour that they'll have a good time with above all. Sizing up is meaningless anyway - the most successful guys aren't the big guns..

Do people actually look like they're thinking those things? - chances are their minds are on any one of a load of things, whilst you're focussed on something that could bring you down and stop you having fun, and it's fun that we're in this for in the first place.

With time will come experience and you'll be looking back on this post years from now thinking a lot differently and wondering why you ever worried about stuff like that. Put those worries on the back burner, relax and enjoy yourself - remember the fun's about what you get out of it too

Wolf

"

Thankyou that helped massively!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You had fun, dont worry about other people, your not in the school showers.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You had fun, dont worry about other people, your not in the school showers.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You had fun, dont worry about other people, your not in the school showers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You had fun, dont worry about other people, your not in the school showers. "

ya can say that again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After my first time at Isis last night, so many guys appear to look a lot bigger than me which is a shame, I'm only 6".. I still had fun though.

They also all seem to be wanking for a good few hour! I can't last nowhere near as long as that!

And your point is?"

Why have you replied in this way. It was an honest post asking for others' _iews. Did you reply in this way because you thought this is what the forum expects or do you generally lack empathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP in any club there will always be someone with a bigger cock or bigger tits than us.

Lots of men have similar worries, about whether they are big enough, whether they can cum, whether they remain hard.

Not many of us are sexual athletes, but we may be confident and happy with our own abilities.

If you've gone to a club and had a great time, regardless of size or performance, then its a positive experience. Enjoy

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

sex is so much more than what you do with a cock, know how to make a women come, using fingers and mouth, and you are far more likely to be remembered well than some guy who thinks it is all about the cock.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

dude, you have a lovely missus, so why would you think women wouldnt like your cock? at least 1 does, and she is the most important in the world, surely?

dont forget, some guys with big dicks thats all they are, there is nothing behind them.

as has been said, use what you have to the best you can.

hell, you could learn how to be a better lover too, so all good for your OH. lol

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