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By *estmidsguy OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall/west brom

hi are all us single guys classed the same as the moron's on here, ive been trying now for over 6 months and very rare u even get a reply and hats after sending a nice well written message makes u wonder if the idiots that just send a message saying anychance of a meet and sex do ok as they cant be doing any worse, any advice welcome oh why ive got ur attention if any couples/singles interested in chatting to a geniuine guy hopefully even leading to meet/drink please do get intouch

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

One word. Full stops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steve

Its the numbers game mate. You are one of thousands of guys who talk the talk. Unfortunately not all of your peers walk the walk and as a result the guys with integrity get tarred with the same brush as the tosspot fantasists. Its a sad fact of the lifestyle but as a couple that meets guys we privately promote the reliable guys and equally advise other like minded couples of the dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to find the grammar police on duty tonight but isn't that 2 words?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One word. Full stops."

Yeap Diamond's right. Punctuation gets you laid hehehehehehehe

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Nice to find the grammar police on duty tonight but isn't that 2 words?"

First impressions count for alot. It was hard work reading it and came over as one continuous whinge. If the guys that comlain read the forums instead of just posting a moan they would get on much better.

I dont need to make a good first impression as its not my first post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

constructive criticism noticable by it's absence...

Mate, I've been swinging for over 8 years both as a couple and as a single but this site is the worst for non-responders, let alone timewasters. Single guys get tarred with the same brush but I've had couples not turn up and switch their phone off on the night etc....(after speaking with both partners by the way before all the couples start saying it was a single male timewaster)...could be due to the fact that this site is a non-paysite

Everyone's quick to criticise us single guys as timewasters..try replying to your mails couples...you may find something genuine!

(commas, apostrophies and even an elipses there for Bamber!)

Oh, and before all the couples start saying single guys stop whining? There are tons of profiles and ads (especially in the meet today section) complaining about non-responders, no-shows, timewasters etc...

I've simply stopped trying in all earnest!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"constructive criticism noticable by it's absence...

Mate, I've been swinging for over 8 years both as a couple and as a single but this site is the worst for non-responders, let alone timewasters. Single guys get tarred with the same brush but I've had couples not turn up and switch their phone off on the night etc....(after speaking with both partners by the way before all the couples start saying it was a single male timewaster)...could be due to the fact that this site is a non-paysite

Everyone's quick to criticise us single guys as timewasters..try replying to your mails couples...you may find something genuine!

(commas, apostrophies and even an elipses there for Bamber!)

Oh, and before all the couples start saying single guys stop whining? There are tons of profiles and ads (especially in the meet today section) complaining about non-responders, no-shows, timewasters etc...

I've simply stopped trying in all earnest!

"

Just a question, if its such a bad site why dont you just leave. Its free, its not as though anyone has paid out any money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who thinks it would be a great idea to combine all the single male winging threads into one! Then they can all moan together.

How many have we got now on the boards?....Lets have a quick count shall we.

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By *estmidsguy OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall/west brom

well diamonds the message wasn't put on for you to come over with some childish comment's, ok no full stops as it was said in one long breath lol, it's you and your type that get us all tarnished the same so please lets end your stupid comments if you dont mind, this was put on as a geniune message to recieve geniune feedback so id be grateful if you took your childish comments elsewhere.......... enough full stops?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to find the grammar police on duty tonight but isn't that 2 words?

First impressions count for alot. It was hard work reading it and came over as one continuous whinge. If the guys that comlain read the forums instead of just posting a moan they would get on much better.

I dont need to make a good first impression as its not my first post."

"I dont need to make a good first impression as its not my first post." Well you certainly achieved that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well diamonds the message wasn't put on for you to come over with some childish comment's, ok no full stops as it was said in one long breath lol, it's you and your type that get us all tarnished the same so please lets end your stupid comments if you dont mind, this was put on as a geniune message to recieve geniune feedback so id be grateful if you took your childish comments elsewhere.......... enough full stops? "

there is loads of genuine feedback to genuine messages on the million other genuine single male..help i cant get laid...moan moan moan threads that are already in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am being harrassed, people are picking on me, why are you picking on me, what have I done to deserve this.

I am referring of course to the number of you who replied to my mails during my 18months as a single on this site, also to those who didn't treat me like a leper just because I was single, those that became my friends, socialised with me and visited me at my home despite not wanting to play with single guys.

People like Tiffany and Mark who visit me regular or invite me to thier home despite having told me I am not what they are looking for, that did not stop us becoming great friends.

Anyway I wish you would stop it, it's not fair that apparently I am treated differently to 90% of the single guys on here, unless of course you want to tell me that I treated you differently to 90% of the single guys on here and thats why you answer my mails (even in the negative) and thats why you talk to me and treat me with respect.

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

As one of the single male lepers on here, I can say that it is possible as a single male to meet both couples and singles and to form ongoing friendships through the site, yeh I agree there will be timewasters on here as you will find on any site such as this but in the main 90% of people are after meets and fun. So to anyone complaining about lack of response I would say that it is the profile that needs to catch the eye.... that is the shop window to which people will either wanna browse further or walk on by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well diamonds the message wasn't put on for you to come over with some childish comment's, ok no full stops as it was said in one long breath lol, it's you and your type that get us all tarnished the same so please lets end your stupid comments if you dont mind, this was put on as a geniune message to recieve geniune feedback so id be grateful if you took your childish comments elsewhere.......... enough full stops? "

Steve,.. sorry mate, but you have pick Diamond up wrongly, you are complaining that you are not getting the replys, the meets etc,. well we are sorry, but we do think your profile is there to take much of the blame.

I went to read your profile, started, but didnt finish, if you had wrote to us, we would have done just that, but sorry we wouldnt have replied to you,..because of your profile

You have to think about things differently, your profile is advertising you as a swinger, if you get that wrong then people are going to move on to the next person,..without a good profile, you are nothing within the thousands of single men out there,..if you want to be out there on top, then sort your profile out.

Remember, its not weither you see your profile as good,..its all about how others see your profile,..and you, that will get you where you want to be

S&A

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"hi are all us single guys classed the same as the moron's on here, ive been trying now for over 6 months and very rare u even get a reply and hats after sending a nice well written message makes u wonder if the idiots that just send a message saying anychance of a meet and sex do ok as they cant be doing any worse, any advice welcome oh why ive got ur attention if any couples/singles interested in chatting to a geniuine guy hopefully even leading to meet/drink please do get intouch"

Read the first 12 words.

Gave up.

Went to your profile. Looked.

Gave up.

Picture. All blurry.

Gave up.

Your profile is your link to the couples and women on this site.

How many tried to read it?

And then gave up.

Single male whinging threads are the bane of any swingers ite.

Single women and couples see them and.... guess what?

They give up.

Put a decent photo on. Correct your spelling and grammer. Make sure it's easy to read. Join the chat rooms and the forums. Don't whine. Don't whinge. Don't moan. Make friends. Go to the parties.

That way you will get out what you put in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steve, I have to concur with the views above, your profile is selling you in a way or maybe not in your case. It takes time to get it right, you have to alter and refine it to make it work. Take a look at loads of other male profiles, borrow bits of them if you think it will work. Also, don't take non replys as a slight, you may think you have written a lovely polite message, but don't forget that may the the 50th she/they they have receieved that day. So modify your profile, maybe a better pic and in the end, If an old ugly git like me can have lots of fun on here, trust me, anyone can! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deja vu ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep, till i have met someone i class all guys the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am being harrassed, people are picking on me, why are you picking on me, what have I done to deserve this.

I am referring of course to the number of you who replied to my mails during my 18months as a single on this site, also to those who didn't treat me like a leper just because I was single, those that became my friends, socialised with me and visited me at my home despite not wanting to play with single guys.

People like Tiffany and Mark who visit me regular or invite me to thier home despite having told me I am not what they are looking for, that did not stop us becoming great friends.

Anyway I wish you would stop it, it's not fair that apparently I am treated differently to 90% of the single guys on here, unless of course you want to tell me that I treated you differently to 90% of the single guys on here and thats why you answer my mails (even in the negative) and thats why you talk to me and treat me with respect.

"

*thumbs up*

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"well diamonds the message wasn't put on for you to come over with some childish comment's, ok no full stops as it was said in one long breath lol, it's you and your type that get us all tarnished the same so please lets end your stupid comments if you dont mind, this was put on as a geniune message to recieve geniune feedback so id be grateful if you took your childish comments elsewhere.......... enough full stops? "

You put a thread on wondering why you didnt get a reply. I said full stops now you can call that reply childish or you can take on board what has been said in this thread. Many single guys have asked advice from the ladies on here and although harsh they have taken it on board and become top totty.

But i can already tell your not into taking anyones advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Karen,

Get yourself on message girl as I can testify to the fact that rocking the boat will end in tears..............

Whispers... I'm with you girl on this one!!

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