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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question to anyone and everyone...

Generally, how do you prefer the first message you receive to be?

I know there isn't a one-size-fits-all answer.....

I'm always polite in mine, but so often see comments about not wanting 'hi' etc, but equally not wanting filth.... what DO you want then lol

Have a good, long weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send both just to be sure

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We are quite happy to receive "hi, how are you messages". If I was approached by someone in a bar who immediately launched into a monologue saying what he liked about me, what he was interested in etc I'd be bored and think he was a bit odd, same goes for if he immediately started telling me what he'd like sexually.

It's the profile, pictures and the way they communicate after the initial message that counts.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Depends on the recipient's mood, day and your profile. If all these things align, you're on to a winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say hi to me I don’t see the problem with hi how are you or how’s your day been. I like to converse before talking sexually for the most part that is

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I want a normal message. Like you would if you approached someone away from here. Some people appear to have lost the ability to communicate normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the recipient's mood, day and your profile. If all these things align, you're on to a winner. "

I've missed your posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a normal message. Like you would if you approached someone away from here. Some people appear to have lost the ability to communicate normally. "

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Depends on the recipient's mood, day and your profile. If all these things align, you're on to a winner.

I've missed your posts. "

Thank you.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A polite message is the best way to start, even a simple hello, how are you works. It is what follows in the next few messages which will dictate whether we continue to chat.

Obviously as we are not looking for single guys if we get a polite message from guy we will politely tell him that he is not what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies

It makes sense to take the polite approach - I'd never approach a woman with an explicit statement of what I'd like to do ..... maybe the 'women' wanting that are actually guys.... really wouldn't surprise me lol

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By *inandRussianCouple
over a year ago

lymm


"A question to anyone and everyone...

Generally, how do you prefer the first message you receive to be?

I know there isn't a one-size-fits-all answer.....

I'm always polite in mine, but so often see comments about not wanting 'hi' etc, but equally not wanting filth.... what DO you want then lol

Have a good, long weekend "

Polite deffo for us smut will be deleted immediately x

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