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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just need some advice im a virgin and well on here to find someone to take it and maybe train me before i find someone i want to be with, does this sound weird or twisted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd advise you to put a bit more into your profile and also put some sort of pic as your avatar instead of the silhouette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Train you in what way? You do know that this is not a school don't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not as in lessons just brake me in get the 1st time problems out the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not as in lessons just brake me in get the 1st time problems out the way"

Why not just go with an escort. Let her break you in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good point considered it lol but i think thats last last resort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are 22 losing your viginity should be special not something you want toget rid of. As you will remember it for the rest of your life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the problem is ive never got close to anyone im a bit of oddity lol and i watched the 40 year old virgin and well dont wanna do that

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"good point considered it lol but i think thats last last resort"

Or do you mean this way is cheaper?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"the problem is ive never got close to anyone im a bit of oddity lol and i watched the 40 year old virgin and well dont wanna do that"

'a bit of an oddity'..... you may not want to shout that too loud....

however, you will fit right in here.

good luck, be yourself, take it at your pace and enjoy what will be .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no its just someone off here will want to a escort would just do it for the money

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

On a personal note, the thought of meeting a guy just so he can get all of his ‘problems’ out of the way is not really an attractive proposition.

They say there is someone for everyone out there…. so I am sure you will find someone who likes the idea of popping a cherry more than physical satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for your words of wisdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my idea of fun sorry. Just sounds so desprate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all your comments a good education for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness, how are your house work skills? There are quite a few ladies on here who might like a nice little slave to do the cleaning etc as a power thing. You being as inexperienced as you are would add flavour to that scenario.... You might like to try that sort of angle....

Good luck.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

probably need to work on my ironing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldnt be the first to lose his actual virginity on this site i know two guys that did

However can i just say that the emotional implications for you could be immense

The two guys im quoting are no longer swingers

Its not the best way mate really and neither is it with a working girl either

Good luck with whatever you decide thou xx

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

i think you would find this first lesson would not last long ............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand where you are coming from...

I lost my virginity last year in the summer, with a man who wasn't a partner but someone I met from a site. For me loosing my virginity with him was a decision I made, which I don't regret at all. I didn't loose my v, because I wanted to get it out of the way.

I think you should do what you think is right for you.

Good luck

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"no its just someone off here will want to a escort would just do it for the money "

So swingers will shag you out of pity you mean?

What do you think swingers are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just need some advice im a virgin and well on here to find someone to take it and maybe train me before i find someone i want to be with, does this sound weird or twisted."

of course its not wierd and twisted, everyone has to start somewhere and the older you get the harder it is as not many guys in there 20s want to admit to being a virgin so it just takes longer and longer to find someone

However im not sure women on a swingers sites will want someone with no sexual experience, you may find some to help you out but over all women on here come to enhance their sex lifes and find new and exciting things and without wanting to sound rude a virgin cant really give you that

Good luck tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why don't you find the person you want to be with and let them train you. Think that might be wiser.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"You are 22 losing your viginity should be special not something you want toget rid of. As you will remember it for the rest of your life."

+1

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By *oystaMan
over a year ago

Liverpool Tuebrook


"You are 22 losing your viginity should be special not something you want toget rid of. As you will remember it for the rest of your life.

+1

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totally agree

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

There nothing says you have to lose your virginity by a certain age.like others have said why don't you wait till you meet that special someone because if they are special they won't judge you we all started somewhere and a quick fumble with an escort or a swinger won't help you much in getting that experince you want ..Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go on fish - dating site will get you hooked up in no time

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