FabSwingers.com forum: the days beforehand....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always hate the days before hand...

Will they or won't they 'meet'. Or will they cancel / go quiet

I don't think I'll ever get used to it....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I always hate the days before hand...

Will they or won't they 'meet'. Or will they cancel / go quiet

I don't think I'll ever get used to it...."

just never upset yourself if they don't...... it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the expectation, the excitement, its one of the reasons that swinging is such fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a back up plan.

Like planning to meet somewhere with shopping facilities for a meet and greet drink. If he fails to show up, I would go shopping so that the trip is not wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the build up to a meet! The messages the texting between all parties! Adds to the excitement!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

It's even worse on the day of the meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty nervous when meeting people I see day in day out so you can imagine the state I can get in when it's a new Fab meet.

Strangly though it's very much a different sort of nervousness. There's something about knowing that your all there just to have some fun that places part of the mind at ease, and for me at least, helps me to come out of my shell (literally :P)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Although I don't arrange many one on one meets these days (due to last minute cancellations or no shows) the last time I did so I was too busy in the days leading up to it to worry too much. I've got a dreadful memory too so sometimes forget I've got one arranged til I check my diary!

Having said that, the hours before the meet are full of anticipation, with a tinge of worry about them turning up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tend to wile away the time watching a dvd, takes me mind off it.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I must be a cynic - I always assume it wont happen, right up until the time I set off....

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

i'm currently arranging a pub social and have got that 'what if no-one shows' grumbly tummy feeling that you get before parties!

it could just be me, one friend whos deffo coming and the landlord!!!! arrrrrrgggghhhh!!!

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