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What does dominance mean to you?

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

How does that play out in bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does that play out in bed?"
depends on what is agreed before hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it means being a man, taking control of the situation and making sure the woman is satisfied beyond anything she has ever experienced before but it's also about trust and respect

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"To me it means being a man, taking control of the situation and making sure the woman is satisfied beyond anything she has ever experienced before but it's also about trust and respect"

I like this version far more than any talk of humiliation or degradation... I've never understood the latter. I do understand the urge to feel consumed by the passionate sensuality of another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a fine line between dominance and disrespectful bullying

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By *entileschi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

A very fine line, which trodden skilfully can produce exquisite results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d consider myself dominant. But all women are different, higher pain thresholds. Some like being chooked, some don’t. It’s all about setting boundaries before hand so you I don’t over step their personal comfort zone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me it means being a man, taking control of the situation and making sure the woman is satisfied beyond anything she has ever experienced before but it's also about trust and respect"

Like this but it doesn’t have to be the man who is dominant though. Could easily be the woman.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

When people talk about dominance in the bedroom, I usually wonder if they actually mean control.

To explain; if you are into kink dominance will relate to the wonderful wide world of kink that can run from sensual play to edgy play and is more than the bedroom. Any such play is done in the relationship of dominance and submission which brings extra requirements of full negotiation and care on both parts.

Whereas control in the bedroom really is male lead sex play, and the requirements and needs that brings. So in my view to separate things.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

One clarification, you can obviously have female lead control in the bedroom.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Very much depends on the participants. Ground rules crucial, taking care of those who aren't.

Doesn't have to mean pain or violence at all.

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