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Are threesomes better than foursomes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do MFMF foursomes get a bit awkward sometimes with jealousy and one partner enjoying more than the other? Seems a minefield to me with threesomes seeming much less complicated!

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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago

in lincs between lincoln grantham boston

Yet to find a couple to find out! Hard to find other couples that are both straight or mabey just us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One less brew to make for afterwards

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Being selfish, I love having 2 men to myself...

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By *istress CockneyWoman
over a year ago

LONDON


"One less brew to make for afterwards "
Good thinking!

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By *ssex Playfull CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Grays

Love both. I think 3somes are more easier to ‘organise’ as you’ve only got one person to impress..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 is amazing

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Foursomes for us. Two cocks and two pussies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being selfish, I love having 2 men to myself... "

greedy girl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, much prefer a 4some to a 3some.

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I think probably foursomes can be better because no-one needs to be left out.

XX

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

MFMF for us is so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foursomes a great as everyone’s involved however we wouldn’t say no to a threesome with the right person.

It’s meets we struggle with.. for example we’re looking for a hot couple to join us Saturday night and have zero interest.

It’s arranging the meet that we find awkward, not the meet itself lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely seems it sometimes.

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I think it entirely depends on the people you’re with and the dynamic.

A couple playing with a third can be tricky if too much attention is paid to one person - depends on how secure everyone is.

I’ve had mmf threesomes (straight males) and they generally go off without a hitch - men falling over themselves to prove them self the ‘best’.

I’ve had mff threesones that have been absolutely incredible - but the ladies involved have confessed at different points that they felt slight jealous at certain times during - not massively and not enough to be an issue - but if I’d just made someone cum swapped to someone else and they wanted more...

I think it just depends on the dynamic, honest conversations about expectations and reassurance for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who with, love HW getting all the attention in a MMF but with cpl last year we were introduced to restraints etc and it meant HW had 3 playing with her at the same time... it was awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found 3somes complicated and not really enjoyable. One reason I now only meet one on one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer a 4some to a 3some, dynamic works better in our experience xx

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Much prefer a 4some to a 3some, dynamic works better in our experience xx"

Everyone involved, yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer a 4some to a 3some, dynamic works better in our experience xx

Everyone involved, yummy "

Exactly xx

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Much prefer threesomes - somehow find the imbalance very sexy.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Much prefer a 4some to a 3some, dynamic works better in our experience xx

Everyone involved, yummy

Exactly xx"

Fun for all, MFM is indulgent yes and simple to arrange but dynamics, flirting etc is more one sided as hubby likes just as much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer threesomes - somehow find the imbalance very sexy."

Exactly the same here. Concentrating on MissJ getting maximum pleasure and then maybe having some voyeurism etc works wonders for us. And a guilt-free spit-roast is a good thing. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do MFMF foursomes get a bit awkward sometimes with jealousy and one partner enjoying more than the other? Seems a minefield to me with threesomes seeming much less complicated! "

Spot on this can 100% happen and agreed three is the magic number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer threesomes - somehow find the imbalance very sexy."

I much prefer mmmf.. I think the woman did as well

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think with a threesome (especially a single playing with a couple) you have to be very careful the no one gets left out or neglected. This may even harder to do with a MFF than MFM. So in that respect foursomes may be arguably easier. But to be regardless of the number of people things mainly rely on the individuals and couples involved. The number of people is not the issuse, the chemistry, communication, attitude, security and to a certain extent experiance of all involved is key.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Both are really hot with the right people , had, some great threesomes and foursomes so both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference, both great fun if the dynamics are equal, if they are skewed then not so great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love mff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the people in my experience I have had great threesomes as well as great foursomes xxxx

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By *ungfunfellaMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Depends on the mix of people threes all more intense all together a mfmf is fun for swapping a mmmf is a free for all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the persons involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both are really hot with the right people , had, some great threesomes and foursomes so both"

Agreed and the build up to it can make all the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love mmf

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

We prefer 2 couples to threesomes. For us, threesomes got old and we wanted more.

But try for yourself and see what is for you.

Regarding jealously, just avoid anyone like that. Drama takes the fun away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on all of the variables, but general for most people I suspect that threesomes work better.

The main reason being that unless all 4 parties are bi there is always going to be a barrier to a fully free flowing play session. In a typical MFMF even where both females are bi that's two participants who don't physically interact.

IMO that's why most MFMFs we have had have been more of a wife swap than a play meet. Which is fine but not exactly what we think of when we think of swinging.

We much prefer three ways, I think I'd even take a MMF over an MFMF.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"No preference, both great fun if the dynamics are equal, if they are skewed then not so great x"

^ that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on all of the variables, but general for most people I suspect that threesomes work better.

The main reason being that unless all 4 parties are bi there is always going to be a barrier to a fully free flowing play session. In a typical MFMF even where both females are bi that's two participants who don't physically interact.

IMO that's why most MFMFs we have had have been more of a wife swap than a play meet. Which is fine but not exactly what we think of when we think of swinging.

We much prefer three ways, I think I'd even take a MMF over an MFMF."

From a single woman’s perspective, I agree with this. Prefer odd numbers so it’s not a straight swap - 3 or 5, regardless of what the gender balance is. Haven’t tried 7, that I recall anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

threesomes for us - just FFM as we both only like girls

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By *ent_Guy_83Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

Had 4sum at weekend (MMMM) was a lot of fun! Imagine 3sum is better when MFM going on

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

Love mmf

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Threesomes are lovely, foursomes are lovely, and 24somes are really, really good!

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

Mfm for me or mff

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We prefer MFMF but finding the right couple is a nightmare. (Prefer we’re F is bi so I can have fun with two men and the female!) I don’t want just a straight swap, I prefer us all to have fun! So we have gone with MFM & FFM but even that is almost as difficult as finding a couple. We put meets up and have no interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes less complicated in my opinion!

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By *oodgirlbadboyCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Do MFMF foursomes get a bit awkward sometimes with jealousy and one partner enjoying more than the other? Seems a minefield to me with threesomes seeming much less complicated! "

Much prefer MMMF foursomes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmf as I'm a greedy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFM everytime for me (fella)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mff

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