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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same, is it time to hang my stockings up and take up knitting I’m starting to get what guys say now when they are older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50s the new 30 dont you know

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I only joined when I was 50 and have no complaints - perhaps it's not your age OP - maybe other factors are putting guys off - as with anyone saying they're not finding the site is working for them I'd advise taking a look at your profile to see if it's appealing or looking at how you approach the site to see if there's anything you can change for the better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"50s the new 30 dont you know "
i am obviously missing out lol x

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

No don’t say that. I’ve only got a few weeks left!

Lex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only joined when I was 50 and have no complaints - perhaps it's not your age OP - maybe other factors are putting guys off - as with anyone saying they're not finding the site is working for them I'd advise taking a look at your profile to see if it's appealing or looking at how you approach the site to see if there's anything you can change for the better "
point taken thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No don’t say that. I’ve only got a few weeks left!

Lex"
I’m sure you will be fine Lex x

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington


"what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same."

Hah, you have a singular preference for men aged 35-39

I'm sure if your broaden your age range by 1-2 years you'll have lots of new interest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 51 ( today) still gets loads of offers good luck op x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confidence has plummeted since turning 50! Too scared to meet these days. My sensible head says I’m being daft but my irrational head says I’m old fat and past it

Let’s hope it a phase .......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same.

Hah, you have a singular preference for men aged 35-39

I'm sure if your broaden your age range by 1-2 years you'll have lots of new interest..."
Thanks will take a look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No don’t say that. I’ve only got a few weeks left!

Lex"
Bloody hell Lex you sure?!!

Those rear view pics are of a 20 year old! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im 51 ( today) still gets loads of offers good luck op x"
Happy birthday you look great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice set of boobs on you

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By *rishlad2787Man
over a year ago

scun

Well if you changed your preference to 30 you defo would have alot more attention x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid 50+ is the fab use by date...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My confidence has plummeted since turning 50! Too scared to meet these days. My sensible head says I’m being daft but my irrational head says I’m old fat and past it

Let’s hope it a phase .......

"

How different are you to when you were 49? We didn't even start swinging until I was about 52.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phoebe I'd give anything to see 50 again! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My confidence has plummeted since turning 50! Too scared to meet these days. My sensible head says I’m being daft but my irrational head says I’m old fat and past it

Let’s hope it a phase .......

"
yep I seem to have the same thought process too x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The older we grow the fewer people will want to meet us. The trick is to concentrate on those that will

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"No don’t say that. I’ve only got a few weeks left!

LexBloody hell Lex you sure?!!

Those rear view pics are of a 20 year old! xx"

Haha you’ve made an old (ish) woman very happy

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington


" My sensible head says I’m being daft but my irrational head says I’m old fat and past it "

Don't let your irrational head win the argument.

Take a chance and find someone who thinks you're gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice set of boobs on you "
Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if you changed your preference to 30 you defo would have alot more attention x "
Been there done that upped my age range a while back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg I'm 51 and have absolutely no problems at all! And I live in the back end of nowhere!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm afraid 50+ is the fab use by date..."
Arghhh lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice set of boobs on you Thanks x"

Free of charge x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Omg I'm 51 and have absolutely no problems at all! And I live in the back end of nowhere! "
I do get offers but some I wouldn’t take lol x

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same, is it time to hang my stockings up and take up knitting I’m starting to get what guys say now when they are older."

Guess I got it all wrong then joining so late in life, but my recommendations look healthy enough. You're missing all those good guys over 39 (your cut off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg I'm 51 and have absolutely no problems at all! And I live in the back end of nowhere! I do get offers but some I wouldn’t take lol x"

Oh I'm fussy as tbh but still have no problems though I am a social soul!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same, is it time to hang my stockings up and take up knitting I’m starting to get what guys say now when they are older.

Guess I got it all wrong then joining so late in life, but my recommendations look healthy enough. You're missing all those good guys over 39 (your cut off)"
yes I’m going to look at my age range x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same, is it time to hang my stockings up and take up knitting I’m starting to get what guys say now when they are older.

Guess I got it all wrong then joining so late in life, but my recommendations look healthy enough. You're missing all those good guys over 39 (your cut off) yes I’m going to look at my age range x"

And under 35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No don’t say that. I’ve only got a few weeks left!

LexBloody hell Lex you sure?!!

Those rear view pics are of a 20 year old! xx

Haha you’ve made an old (ish) woman very happy "
And you've cheered up an old night shift worker with those pics!! Lol

Another one for the Hot list! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same, is it time to hang my stockings up and take up knitting I’m starting to get what guys say now when they are older.

Guess I got it all wrong then joining so late in life, but my recommendations look healthy enough. You're missing all those good guys over 39 (your cut off) yes I’m going to look at my age range x

And under 35 "
ha ha just need a happy medium xxx

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington


"And I live in the back end of nowhere! "

I'm not sure London is entirely unknown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And under 35 ha ha just need a happy medium xxx"

Exactly! I'm definitely sure there's plenty of interest out there for you, just about opening it up a bit

You seem nice from your posts and from the little preview of your profile pic you look very nice too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Omg I'm 51 and have absolutely no problems at all! And I live in the back end of nowhere! I do get offers but some I wouldn’t take lol x

Oh I'm fussy as tbh but still have no problems though I am a social soul! "
sorry didn’t mean it to come across like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35-39 will be killing your messages

I'm far too old for you at a mere 46

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only been on here little while wife is mid 50s not stopped her getting plenty of interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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And under 35 ha ha just need a happy medium xxx

Exactly! I'm definitely sure there's plenty of interest out there for you, just about opening it up a bit

You seem nice from your posts and from the little preview of your profile pic you look very nice too! "

Thanks lovely of you to say xx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Nearly 60 here ..... no issues at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt join here till I was 56 get lots of interest and lots of fun. Age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nearly 60 here ..... no issues at all "
looking great x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didnt join here till I was 56 get lots of interest and lots of fun. Age is just a number."
yes it’s just finding mr compatible x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly 60 here ..... no issues at all "
And looking soooo good! X

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Nearly 60 here ..... no issues at all And looking soooo good! X "

Thanks

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Nearly 60 here ..... no issues at all looking great x"

Thanks x..... it’s just a number x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"35-39 will be killing your messages

I'm far too old for you at a mere 46"
I know looking into it x

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same, is it time to hang my stockings up and take up knitting I’m starting to get what guys say now when they are older."

I’d suggest a cottage industry of knitting cock warmers... you’ll have no end of willing volunteers for size requests and Xmas will be sorted for your male friends and relatives!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same, is it time to hang my stockings up and take up knitting I’m starting to get what guys say now when they are older.

I’d suggest a cottage industry of knitting cock warmers... you’ll have no end of

willing volunteers for size requests and Xmas will be sorted for your male friends and relatives!! "
Ha ha your so right there’s a thought x

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By *r lickylickyMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Think there a good couple of points for you here Phoebe Lexa is obviously getting lots of attention and fun.....firstly she has 16 cracking photos of her sexy body and secondly her age range is 25 to 55 hence she was recently verified by a 29 year old. You have no public photos yet and have a very tight restrictive age range of 35 to 39 !!! This seems odd if you want more contact if you meet up you don't have to do anything if there is no chemistry. I have had lots of luck since turning 50 and I am no Adonis. Good Luck Phoebe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think there a good couple of points for you here Phoebe Lexa is obviously getting lots of attention and fun.....firstly she has 16 cracking photos of her sexy body and secondly her age range is 25 to 55 hence she was recently verified by a 29 year old. You have no public photos yet and have a very tight restrictive age range of 35 to 39 !!! This seems odd if you want more contact if you meet up you don't have to do anything if there is no chemistry. I have had lots of luck since turning 50 and I am no Adonis. Good Luck Phoebe"
Yes I’ve took on board the above comments and have already adjusted my age range my last meet was a guy who was 32 but couldn’t veri each other as neither had veri’s this is s problem with veri’s x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I turned 50 in November, and I’m doing very well for Fabster fun

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By *r lickylickyMan
over a year ago

birmingham

30 to 45 you will be swamped now I am sure especially if you can put a couple of public photos on your profile....not think verification is such a worry for a lot of single guys but maybe you couldn't verify each other when he was outside of your stated age range of 10 minutes ago. Sure you will be fine now and good luck......I am off to Chameleons with one of my lady friends Saturday night.....I cant wait. xxx

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"what has happened ! since I’ve hit 50 my fun on here seams to of hit a rock lol struggling to find compatible genuine guys looking for the same, is it time to hang my stockings up and take up knitting I’m starting to get what guys say now when they are older."

Feeling the same.... changing tactics, stopping meeting from fab and taking our chances in clubs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"30 to 45 you will be swamped now I am sure especially if you can put a couple of public photos on your profile....not think verification is such a worry for a lot of single guys but maybe you couldn't verify each other when he was outside of your stated age range of 10 minutes ago. Sure you will be fine now and good luck......I am off to Chameleons with one of my lady friends Saturday night.....I cant wait. xxx"
you can’t verify each other unless one person is already verified x have fun Saturday x

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

Would echo what others have said with age range, you're right to widen it. We are in our 50s, only joined fab last year, and have been very pleasantly surprised how age doesn't matter to many people on here - it certainly doesn't mean much to us! Good luck and you look great xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No don’t say that. I’ve only got a few weeks left!

LexBloody hell Lex you sure?!!

Those rear view pics are of a 20 year old! xx

Haha you’ve made an old (ish) woman very happy "
I agree 100%, smokin hot!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would echo what others have said with age range, you're right to widen it. We are in our 50s, only joined fab last year, and have been very pleasantly surprised how age doesn't matter to many people on here - it certainly doesn't mean much to us! Good luck and you look great xx "
thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im 51 ( today) still gets loads of offers good luck op x"

Happy birthday xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's their loss! I like your profile and pics! Could it be because of some people have their filter set to 50 so less people possibly seeing your profile ... maybe? Xxx

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By *hisCharmingMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

I’m 50 and newly joined, having fun so far so good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm afraid 50+ is the fab use by date..."

Best I retire gracefully then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well it's their loss! I like your profile and pics! Could it be because of some people have their filter set to 50 so less people possibly seeing your profile ... maybe? Xxx "
yes possibly thanks x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I've looked at the profile of every woman (including part of a couple) and I think you all look damn fine - every single one of you. Age would not be a reason for us turning down any of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I live in the back end of nowhere!

I'm not sure London is entirely unknown "

I live more land's end lol just work there sometimes

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