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Hardend swingers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all ,

after been on this site for a few months we have noticed in a lot of profiles it say "we are not hardend swingers".Can anyone elaborate what a hardend swinger is?

xxxx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Nope - but no one wants to be one!!! Always confused me as well!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Zoe- Steve,

i just dont get it at all.Funny though that no one wants to be one lol

Wonder if anyone can actually tell me what it is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all ,

Can anyone elaborate what a hardend swinger is?

"

Not sure, but my end is sometimes hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well thanks to viagra there are more hardened swingers about now lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Hi,

sorry I wasn't that much help really! Possibly people whose whole life revolves around swinging & they don't do any vanilla activities - dunno really!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah thats what we thought .....

Viagra lol do u need it ?or use it reccreationally?(spelling)lol.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah thats what we thought .....

Viagra lol do u need it ?or use it reccreationally?(spelling)lol.

xx "

never tried or needed it but always like to try new things lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably its people who have to have a meet once a week or more and get withdrawal symptoms if they don't.

Those who put sex before everything else!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ahhh ok thanx for the info trace,

well i do get withdrawals from sex ooooppps must me me harded one then lol

Hubby never gets a momenst rest with me...... mind you he never complains lol

xxxxx

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

i would think hardend swingers are those who cant get enough of it and their life is swinging, and people who wouold maybe do things that you wouldnt ever do as it either scares you or you think thats just to kinky,weird,etc!!!!

not sure, i guess everyones opinions are different!!! xx

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling


"Hi all, after been on this site for a few months we have noticed in a lot of profiles it say "we are not hardend swingers".Can anyone elaborate what a hardend swinger is?

xxxx "

i reckon it means ppl that have done it for a few years and are well experienced in swinging? maybe not.

xx

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

me and mr duo been doing it about 4/5 yrs now and quite experienced in what we do but i wouldnt say we were hardened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"me and mr duo been doing it about 4/5 yrs now and quite experienced in what we do but i wouldnt say we were hardened "
please someone actually admit to it .....and tell us how to get there ....

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By *eavensg84uCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

A hardened swinger is anyone who has shagged 5 more people than you have!

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

I would hazard a guess like some others here, it refers to those members who feel they HAVE to meet every week or more.

Those profiles that have lots and lots of verifications from many others over a short time period. I have seen some profiles that show people meeting 3/4 times a week!

There is a difference between hardened (above) and experienced. Those of us who like to meet now and again, maybe once a month, maybe less than that, to have a pleasurable time. Rather than just out and out sex just because we can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lives of a certain couple that we know revolve around swinging, it's the main focus of their lives and they seem to have meets or try to get meets almost every week, they travel the length and breadth of the country for a meet, nothing, not even their kids get in the way of their fun.

That is our take on a 'hardened' swinger, granted it's an extreme example ......

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

We found this on a site ...

Hardened Swingers is usually used in the negative (e.g. "We're not hardened Swingers") and simply means very experienced Swingers who are very active in the scene. The reason this term is often used in the negative is because a lot of people who swing do not necessarily live, eat and breath swinging. Saying, "We're not hardened Swingers", is usually just another way of saying, "It's OK, we're normal and balanced, honest!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply guys.Have cleared up that for us.xxx

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Can any of us, swingers, be called 'normal' seeing as this is something of a minority and unusual interest in the eyes of the general population?

If someone or some couple while swinging seek and enjoy a lot of sex with a lot of partners, does that mean they should be referred to in derogatory terms?

Personally we prefer the word 'experienced'. Having been on the scene some time and being at least moderately active (sometimes so sometimes not) we don't actually believe there is any such creature as a hardened swinger cos we ain't met one yet.

But if anyone would confess to being one or to having met one, then you may convince us otherwise. Our gut feeling is they don't exist.

xxxx

ju & rich

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

i do think hardened swingers excist but my definition and other definitions vary!!!!

so each to their own, and if every1 is havin a good time hardened or not then its all good!!

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

we dont say on our profile that we are not hardened swingers ,but if we did ,it would mean that we dont play every night of the week,not hardened means every now n then when in the mood,i think (to us anyway),as in its not essential to play every free time you have.xx

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