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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered people’s opinions on this. It annoys me a little bit. 99.9% of couples put in their profiles that you must include a face photo if messaging them and I completely understand that. It’s common sense and I always do. A large percentage of couples on here have a good selection of their pictures on their profiles (not faces obviously) so you can get an idea of if you’d like to message them. You do get quite a few couples though that literally don’t put any images at all. Not even a general courtesy image. Surely that just encourages any person to message and not someone who actually might be attracted to them? Would love to know peoples thoughts

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I don't take them seriously if they don't have an avatar. Generally it's only one half on the profile when it's blank and unverified by photo, cam or meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't take them seriously if they don't have an avatar. Generally it's only one half on the profile when it's blank and unverified by photo, cam or meet. "

You do see some though with verifications and a token bit of text with no images at all. Surely can’t be that hard to put any kind of image on. Something for everyone to go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not couples. Fake fake fake.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Like mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think it's the biggest give away of a fake profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it the same for all profiles with no pictures?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't it the same for all profiles with no pictures? "

Yes I just tend to search for couples so was explaining my experiences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like mine? "
you’ve got a very nice public photo on yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the text on their profile is enough to for visitors to determine if they're compatible enough or not, and if there's still interest after reading, they might just message anyway.

It's poor taste to claim that everyone without a pic must be a fake, when there are also other nuggets of information that might make them out to be genuine, albeit much more reserved than a typical fabber... no-one is forcing you to click the link of any silhouetted profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I haven’t personally suggested that they are all fake. I don’t intend to offend you either. I do wonder though whether you would reply back to a single gent who has messaged you but included no pictures and has none at all on their profile? Like I say no offence intended

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

To digress slightly, I am always surprised to see a couple profile, where almost all the pics are selfies, normally of the female of the couple.

If they're genuine, why can't they take each other's photo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they search for people they're interested in themselves and send pictures with their message? If they're easily recognisable in their area or something that would make sense, it doesn't mean they're all fake.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We would want to see pics of both in the couple and tend to think along the lines they are fake unless a few veris are shown and where you can see who left them, if we got a message where the profile had no pics and they didn’t send any then it’s a no go for sure even then would be dubious but maybe some couples just browse for people and send a first message with pics. We certainly wouldn’t message anyone first though with an empty profile, why would anybody? kind of says you would meet anyone no matter if there’s no attraction and that’s not us

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"We would want to see pics of both in the couple and tend to think along the lines they are fake unless a few veris are shown and where you can see who left them, if we got a message where the profile had no pics and they didn’t send any then it’s a no go for sure even then would be dubious but maybe some couples just browse for people and send a first message with pics. We certainly wouldn’t message anyone first though with an empty profile, why would anybody? kind of says you would meet anyone no matter if there’s no attraction and that’s not us "

This exactly.

Makes us laugh silhouette profiles, no veris moaning no one will meet them etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't take them seriously if they don't have an avatar. Generally it's only one half on the profile when it's blank and unverified by photo, cam or meet. "

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We think they must be ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I find it a bit hypercritical, if they are requesting pics without any on their profile. Fab can be unfair at times due to the large numbers of men to women and resulting poor behaviour on both sides. Still great though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this point in the history of the internet and just liers and paddlers of alternative facts. We have to assume everything is fake until we know it is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered people’s opinions on this. It annoys me a little bit. 99.9% of couples put in their profiles that you must include a face photo if messaging them and I completely understand that. It’s common sense and I always do. A large percentage of couples on here have a good selection of their pictures on their profiles (not faces obviously) so you can get an idea of if you’d like to message them. You do get quite a few couples though that literally don’t put any images at all. Not even a general courtesy image. Surely that just encourages any person to message and not someone who actually might be attracted to them? Would love to know peoples thoughts "

My thoughts?

I think it's up to them how they promote their profile.

If it's not to your liking it's easy to ignore and/or pass them by.

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