FabSwingers.com forum: Sub guys all the rage

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m struck by the number of men who have contacted me within the last few months expressing playing sub and and cuckold as their kink. If it was women we could all blame 50 Shades. I haven’t watched all the films but I don’t think Christian gets to tie up Andrew as well as Anastasia. I wonder if there’s just generally more acceptance of power play dynamics in sex within society, whether you are Male or female?

Or do my current pics just make me look like a VERY stern mistress?

Ladies of fab, have you had an increase in sub men contacting you?

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

I have quite a lot on here, but LOADS on Twitter where we share our domme/sub adventure.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I definitely get more of an increase when I post certain pics. But it’s no more than it’s ever been I don’t think. There are just a large amount of guys out there who love assertive women and fantasise about being dominated. In reality how much they could or would be prepared to take is actually another thing altogether

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Yes I seem to attract a lot of sub men , don't think there's a sudden trend tho

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Maybe us guys have just had enough pressure and hassle in the real world to say to the one we love and trust, “here, you sort Fab life out”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been with a dominant woman but intrigued to explore! Try everything once and all that...

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By *arried Bi KinksterMan
over a year ago

North West

"Maybe us guys have just had enough pressure and hassle in the real world to say to the one we love and trust, “here, you sort Fab life out” "

I can relate to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe us guys have just had enough pressure and hassle in the real world to say to the one we love and trust, “here, you sort Fab life out”

I can relate to this

Yep me too

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By *illy GunnMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I have noticed this too but as i'm a nice guy in the vanilla world i tend to want to be more dom in the bedroom.

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

Love sub bi guys

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't say an increase recently, but they do seem to come in waves.

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By *arker66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Used too be all Dom but recently discovered my sub side and loving it

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By *onnydayzMan
over a year ago

preston

Could I have your Twitter name please?

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I'm rather sub, and I get quite a lot of attention x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must be something in my profile rewrite that’s sparked it off, although not an effect I’d anticipated. Had expected tumblwe@d.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Finding sub women is fairly easy, it seems to be a kink that lots of women fantasise about. Sub men either tend to be cucks-in-cages or clean up artists, neither of which appeal to us.

It is surprisingly hard to find proper Dom's who would like to punish Her. She likes rough fucking and most guys seem to scared to even give light spanks let alone the harder stuff. Most "Dom's" who message seen to think I'll be a cuck (definitely not), they'll be having a 121 (definitely not) or I'll just be sitting and watching (definitely not).

They also think that being a dom is about verbal abuse, it isn't.

Too many people who wouldn't know what a dom is even if it came up to them with a pineapple on their head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tits on you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blame porn

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I wouldn't say an increase recently, but they do seem to come in waves. "

Yes usually all over my nice shiny shoes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I wouldn't say an increase recently, but they do seem to come in waves.

Yes usually all over my nice shiny shoes...."

That's usually the bile that I can't suppress, gagging at some of the diabolical stuff they write

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id like the chance to be sub for someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is an expectation on men to dominate in the bedroom, as well as in life, career, etc

Trying to adhere to (or even ignore) these standard can be tiring/difficult

So the idea of "handing over complete control" for a night can be quite appealing when things get tough

Just one potential explanation

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I do love a nice, obedient sub.

Or two.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

With out a connection between the two involved it’s just play and nothing more.

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