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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm new to anal play.

I was wondering about butt plugs etc.

Advice for a newby please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a set, most of the usual sites do beginners kits in a 3 pack, don’t leave it in too long at first and work your way up in size and length of time

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm new to anal play.

I was wondering about butt plugs etc.

Advice for a newby please "

Um..... not really other than don’t buy a secondhand one??

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

as above.... set of 3 ....ease up the size... and enjoy... me and my kinky friends always have fun with them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are having a huge sale on used ones next week in New York .

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Cucumber is a cheap alternative

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

Use plenty of lube. Be wary of desensitising sprays, creams etc just take it nice and gently and slowly.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Take your time to enjoy each size up and get used to it, don't rush through eager to get to the biggest size!

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish


"Get a set, most of the usual sites do beginners kits in a 3 pack, don’t leave it in too long at first and work your way up in size and length of time"

Go for the silicon type first, much more comfortable than the stainless steel ones.

Make sure you use a good anal lube, don't use the normal lubes or vaseline. They say (who ever they are) do not use anal numbing lube/cream, you need to know how you body is reacting to it being inserted.

Have a lovely warm bath and totally relax beforehand, it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your time, if it hurts you need to stop for a second or two. Relaxation is really key here otherwise you're not going to have a good time

Like others have said start off modest and work your way up.

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By *notherGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Somewhere

Small one, slowly and slippery, first. Common sense really.

Pulling it back out, also slowly, is truly delightful. xxx

They make me wiggle more and I can feel every bump in the road when I’m sat smiling on the bus.

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

got a set of 3 coming to use as a naughty cake decoration....... if the lady used them...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I'm new to anal play.

I was wondering about butt plugs etc.

Advice for a newby please "

As above start off small and build yourself up. Main thing is don’t rush it and be totally relaxed or else it will hurt

Start with a finger, in the bath or shower, get used to how that feels first. Or if in bed a generously lobbed finger.

In relation to butt plugs, I struggled with the smaller silicone ones. I started with the smallest metal one you could get, a decent sized tapered head but a thin spout to allow your hole to close around it. Ensure you lube yourself generously inside as well as the plug.

When you start just push it gently against the hole, you will feel some discomfort so just hold it there, don’t try and push it any further. Your body will instinctively relax and you’ll know when to push a little farther, and then st some point you will feel your hole instinctively open up and it feels like it is getting naturally sucked in. Then just lay there and get used to the sensation. When you feel up to it, try walking around. Do all of this at your own pace.

I trained my own arse, I didn’t rush the process and it took me 7 months from using a finger to being able to sink myself over a 6’ length and girth dildo.

This took various different sizes of butt plugs, width and length, along with thinner anal toys and finally my stretcher butt plug.

The first time I had anal sex it was therefore pleasurable rather than painful

Happy to chat more if you wish but good luck with the process

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By *ueenandlittlecuckCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I'm new to anal play.

I was wondering about butt plugs etc.

Advice for a newby please "

my advice is to start small and work your way up to a larger one. use a good thick lube to. i get a really nice thick anal lube from the pantie purse com. i also got a lovely fox tail plug from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advise guys. I knew this was the right place to ask

How about douching?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advise guys. I knew this was the right place to ask

How about douching? "

Forgot to mention that but yes! For me it's really important knowing that I'm totally clean, just makes things much more enjoyable

Without douching the after part is awful and makes me never want to do butt stuff again haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advise guys. I knew this was the right place to ask

How about douching?

Forgot to mention that but yes! For me it's really important knowing that I'm totally clean, just makes things much more enjoyable

Without douching the after part is awful and makes me never want to do butt stuff again haha"

What after part??

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Thanks for the advise guys. I knew this was the right place to ask

How about douching?

Forgot to mention that but yes! For me it's really important knowing that I'm totally clean, just makes things much more enjoyable

Without douching the after part is awful and makes me never want to do butt stuff again haha

What after part?? "

If you don’t douche before anal teasing / play it is possible as you remove the plug or toy there could be poop on them or indeed, as your muscles have been relaxed and opened a “follow through” if you get my drift, without being crude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to anal play.

I was wondering about butt plugs etc.

Advice for a newby please "

They’re made to go in your ass in case u weren’t sure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would highly recommend a glass one. Far more smoother than silicone, and so it is easier to slide in

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I bought the clear silicon set from Love Honey using the link from this site, I found the smallest of the three was a waste of time, especially if you used to a well lubed finger going up there, I found myself using the middle one and the large one, the large one has a girth of 5" at it's thickest so compared to a cock, not massive, As point of note, if you buy the black Butt Plug set I believe they are bigger. I also bought a life like dildo 6" with 4" girth and I wish I hadn't, I find the unnatural moulded veins make it feel uncomfortable. As others have said plenty of lube and take at a pace you're comfortable with.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Start small x lots of lube x get aroused first x maybe try pop pers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm new to anal play.

I was wondering about butt plugs etc.

Advice for a newby please

They’re made to go in your ass in case u weren’t sure x"

Its arse! Pop yourself over to the lounge if you want to post inane useless comments. That's where the other morons reside!!

Thanks for all the useful tips though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to anal play.

I was wondering about butt plugs etc.

Advice for a newby please "
I started of with the small butt plug with the little gem its really nice. Dont go too big too quick

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Square Peg Slink toys are soft and flexible. Varying sizes, dont go straiggt for the biggest. Look it up as a video search on the t'interweb and youll see what I mean.

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