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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

It sounds funny but i have seen huge penises on here and it really makes me feel inadequate.I don't even want to look at mine if its not erect , it makes me sad every time.It's really making me unhappy every time i go to the loo.

I really don't care what people say about size but i really wanted a bigger one and it bugs me every time.

I have measured mine , bone pressed , and its only 8 inches long and 6 inches thick .This is not what i want.I have spent over £3000 trying all sorts , except surgery, to make it bigger but with no luck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh won't someone please look at my BBC?

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

That's miniscule, are you sure it's not just a big clitoris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol so your think its too small that your ptofile name has bbc in it, its 8 inches, me think its a look at me post.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You have bbc as part of your username though, so you obviously know it's not small. Learn to love what you have, it's a nice penis

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Lol so your think its too small that your ptofile name has bbc in it, its 8 inches, me think its a look at me post."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh won't someone please look at my BBC?"

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's miniscule, are you sure it's not just a big clitoris? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"You have bbc as part of your username though, so you obviously know it's not small. Learn to love what you have, it's a nice penis "

I put it there but deep down i feel inadequate , and that's the truth .Just put yourself in my shoes and compare with https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/big_harold .

How would you feel afterwards? be honest ?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

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looks average to me

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

"

How can 8 inches be called massive ? Even when you look at women here , they all say 9" or over and I never apply coz i know i am not adequate

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I mean I'm quite happy with the penis I have tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention seeker , that's all

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

You’re right we don’t like it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average is 6 inches and this is crazy talk. Everyone is different and everyone likes different sizes. Love what you got and get on with your life.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If you feel you are having issues about your body you should go to your GP and get referred for counselling OP. There is a mental health condition called body dysmorphic disorder. Best to get help early on. Good luck. X

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I love my cock

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By *parxyndpetalCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Apparently the average size of a penis in the UK is 6 inches, anything over the size of that is considered large...

Be happy with what you have do you know how many men would be happy to have your size penis?? Be grateful...

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By *parxyndpetalCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

How can 8 inches be called massive ? Even when you look at women here , they all say 9" or over and I never apply coz i know i am not adequate"

So every female asks for 9 inches or more?? I have never saw that once on any females profile,

If you genuinely do feel like this I definitely agree that you should go speak to your doctor about body dysphoria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw it's so CUTE

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

looks average to me "

My point exactly , it is average , that's why i hate it .It makes me feel less of a man .

Everyday I walking , I am obsersed with looking at men's bulges just to see how many have the big dick .

I am telling the truth , and i am sure i am not alone but people here might try and pretend that its all fake , lot's of men like me feel the same especially in the bathrooms when you feel inadequate and you end up not using the urinary when peeing and instead you go into the cubicle. That's a reality folks

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"You have bbc as part of your username though, so you obviously know it's not small. Learn to love what you have, it's a nice penis

I put it there but deep down i feel inadequate , and that's the truth .Just put yourself in my shoes and compare with https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/big_harold .

How would you feel afterwards? be honest ? "

There are women on here who have better boobs than me but it doesn't make me feel inadequate. You can't be the biggest and best at everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

How can 8 inches be called massive ? Even when you look at women here , they all say 9" or over and I never apply coz i know i am not adequate"

Totally right. Anything under 9 is completely pointless imo. May as well chop it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There are women on here who have better boobs than me but it doesn't make me feel inadequate. You can't be the biggest and best at everything. "

This

If you do genuinely feel that way about yourself then I'd recommend speaking to a professional. You can't let your perfectly fine dick ruin your life.

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Aw it's so CUTE "

When you hear a lady saying that it's not a complement , when you watch porn , ladies open their eyes wide at the site of a huge dick and it really makes me look small.

Anyway , i thought i would share with you my personal feelings , believe it or not , that's how i feel and that's the truth , take it the way you want .

I have mentioned it and it is what it is

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"

There are women on here who have better boobs than me but it doesn't make me feel inadequate. You can't be the biggest and best at everything.

This

If you do genuinely feel that way about yourself then I'd recommend speaking to a professional. You can't let your perfectly fine dick ruin your life. "

I have tried all african herbs and all those adverts on pron sites and bought so many of then but it doesn't grow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw it's so CUTE

When you hear a lady saying that it's not a complement , when you watch porn , ladies open their eyes wide at the site of a huge dick and it really makes me look small.

Anyway , i thought i would share with you my personal feelings , believe it or not , that's how i feel and that's the truth , take it the way you want .

I have mentioned it and it is what it is

"

I wasn't being serious you sausage!! Like I said in my above comment, go speak to a professional if it's upsetting you.

Not every woman wants a massive cock. I definitely would rather an average penis to a huge banana.

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By *xkinkycouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

just because it aint huge aint nothing to be worried about! size aint everything, you can still be better in bed then someone with a bigger cock!

Skill over size for us!

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By *parxyndpetalCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

looks average to me

My point exactly , it is average , that's why i hate it .It makes me feel less of a man .

Everyday I walking , I am obsersed with looking at men's bulges just to see how many have the big dick .

I am telling the truth , and i am sure i am not alone but people here might try and pretend that its all fake , lot's of men like me feel the same especially in the bathrooms when you feel inadequate and you end up not using the urinary when peeing and instead you go into the cubicle. That's a reality folks "

But if you feel that self conscious about it, why do you have it as your profile pic??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

looks average to me

My point exactly , it is average , that's why i hate it .It makes me feel less of a man .

Everyday I walking , I am obsersed with looking at men's bulges just to see how many have the big dick .

I am telling the truth , and i am sure i am not alone but people here might try and pretend that its all fake , lot's of men like me feel the same especially in the bathrooms when you feel inadequate and you end up not using the urinary when peeing and instead you go into the cubicle. That's a reality folks

But if you feel that self conscious about it, why do you have it as your profile pic?? "

Exactly!

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


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But if you feel that self conscious about it, why do you have it as your profile pic?? "

Coz i can't put my face , i work in a security service and can't show my face .

TO be honest , if you don't believe me , its OK , i understand , i just thought i would share my experiences , that's all. I didn't mean anything else except to say out my insecurities and the fact that you think i am OK doesn't change the fact that 8 inches is not big enough to attract women especially one here.

I have a friend of mine who has a huge dick who is no longer on the site but everytime he post his dick pics , he would get lot's of requests juts coz of his huge dick , and this is where my insecurities started

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Maybe ditch the bbc bit from your profile just a thought

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By *lltogethernowMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Get some balls mate!!

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Maybe ditch the bbc bit from your profile just a thought "

I have tried but the site doesn't allow more than 3 changes

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By *parxyndpetalCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"

But if you feel that self conscious about it, why do you have it as your profile pic??

Coz i can't put my face , i work in a security service and can't show my face .

TO be honest , if you don't believe me , its OK , i understand , i just thought i would share my experiences , that's all. I didn't mean anything else except to say out my insecurities and the fact that you think i am OK doesn't change the fact that 8 inches is not big enough to attract women especially one here.

I have a friend of mine who has a huge dick who is no longer on the site but everytime he post his dick pics , he would get lot's of requests juts coz of his huge dick , and this is where my insecurities started "

I understand not wanting to put your face, many of us don't, butttttt to be completely honest after reading your profile I don't think it's your dick that is putting women off... That's just my opinion I could be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. That is a bit small. Good on you for posting pics of the tiny pecker though, let us know if any ladies like small ones.

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"

I understand not wanting to put your face, many of us don't, butttttt to be completely honest after reading your profile I don't think it's your dick that is putting women off... That's just my opinion I could be wrong.

"

Help me understand , please? verification's? more pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're so right...this is funny.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Maybe ditch the bbc bit from your profile just a thought

I have tried but the site doesn't allow more than 3 changes "

tbh fella I think you’re dick is above average and I would not worry about it there’s always going to be someone bigger but there’s plenty who are way smaller than you

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By *parxyndpetalCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"

I understand not wanting to put your face, many of us don't, butttttt to be completely honest after reading your profile I don't think it's your dick that is putting women off... That's just my opinion I could be wrong.

Help me understand , please? verification's? more pictures? "

Yes more pics, a few verications but the main thing would be that you're basically wanting to meet for a quick bang, no communication outside the website etc, no getting to know each other, no regular meets, now someone can correct me if I'm wrong butttttt there may be a small handful of women who would be in to this but I would assume a very very small handful which would be hard to find on this site, most women want to have regular meets with the same people/persons

It may come across that you're either married or in a relationship and you're basically fucking around behind your partners back which is a big no no

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By *heik yourwillyMan
over a year ago

shire

what you complaining about , some have 12 inches but dont use it as a rule

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Wow. That is a bit small. Good on you for posting pics of the tiny pecker though, let us know if any ladies like small ones."

It's definitely not small , it's average . haha. If it was small , then i guess i would have just accepted , but i always wonder why it didn't grow at least one more inch .

I tried bathmate enlarger for 3 months and my penis was becoming funny looking but not growing and i stopped it , i did jelging , but no luck , spent over £3000 on those pills from porn sites and one of the pills almost killed me.

The only pills that worked for me were the Tongkat Ali Extract from Indonesia but they don't grow the penis , they just make it erect all the time which wasn't good coz it made people see my penis which is what i didn't want.

The other thing is that at work , in my department , i am the only black guy and when we go out for drinks , women always ask me about BBC jokingly.The stereotype is there in London ,and I don't measure up .

If i had a big dick like some of the profiles here , i would have made lots of my women work mates at least touch it coz they are always asking me whenever they are d*unk , but i always refse

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to get out more who cares? My dick is like half a rolo.....but I survive

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By *lltogethernowMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Lucky you dont have a big dick then I guess

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You need to get out more who cares? My dick is like half a rolo.....but I survive "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to get out more who cares? My dick is like half a rolo.....but I survive "

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Lucky you dont have a big dick then I guess "

haha , why ? coz i can't show it around to my female work mates who have a stereotype about black men ?

It's them who ask me , not the other way round so i am covered

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP you cannot make your penis larger with herbs or anything like that.

Your penis is larger than average and many women are more than happy with average. Some women on Fab want sex with a particularly well endowed man but by no means most and it is highly unlikely to be relevant in a relationship.

If you are genuinely very unhappy with your penis, you need to seek mental health support, as others have said.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Lucky you dont have a big dick then I guess

haha , why ? coz i can't show it around to my female work mates who have a stereotype about black men ?

It's them who ask me , not the other way round so i am covered "

Nothing wrong with you or your tool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you cannot make your penis larger with herbs or anything like that.

Your penis is larger than average and many women are more than happy with average. Some women on Fab want sex with a particularly well endowed man but by no means most and it is highly unlikely to be relevant in a relationship.

If you are genuinely very unhappy with your penis, you need to seek mental health support, as others have said."

in fairness only a handful if that have said. The rest have just mocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

How can 8 inches be called massive ? Even when you look at women here , they all say 9" or over and I never apply coz i know i am not adequate

Totally right. Anything under 9 is completely pointless imo. May as well chop it off "

send it over here and I’ll stitch it on mine

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By *parxyndpetalCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Lucky you dont have a big dick then I guess

haha , why ? coz i can't show it around to my female work mates who have a stereotype about black men ?

It's them who ask me , not the other way round so i am covered "

That says more about them than you to be honest, and you do know them acting like that towards you in the work place could be classed as sexual harassment.... Just putting that out there, seems to having a negative effect on your mental health and you should really go speak to a professional.

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By *lltogethernowMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"Lucky you dont have a big dick then I guess

haha , why ? coz i can't show it around to my female work mates who have a stereotype about black men ?

It's them who ask me , not the other way round so i am covered "

could be! or your so upset with your little button mushroom and crying! if you had the cock you want maybe your ego would be out of control! So it's just a lesson for you I guess.

Oh and I know it is a wind up just banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow. That is a bit small. Good on you for posting pics of the tiny pecker though, let us know if any ladies like small ones.

It's definitely not small , it's average . haha. If it was small , then i guess i would have just accepted , but i always wonder why it didn't grow at least one more inch .

I tried bathmate enlarger for 3 months and my penis was becoming funny looking but not growing and i stopped it , i did jelging , but no luck , spent over £3000 on those pills from porn sites and one of the pills almost killed me.

The only pills that worked for me were the Tongkat Ali Extract from Indonesia but they don't grow the penis , they just make it erect all the time which wasn't good coz it made people see my penis which is what i didn't want.

The other thing is that at work , in my department , i am the only black guy and when we go out for drinks , women always ask me about BBC jokingly.The stereotype is there in London ,and I don't measure up .

If i had a big dick like some of the profiles here , i would have made lots of my women work mates at least touch it coz they are always asking me whenever they are d*unk , but i always refse "

I empathize with you, to most this is a very stupid problem to have when you have above average size cock and if it's a grower rather than constantly large it can affect you mentally.

I don't know if this makes any difference at all but for us women. Me at least anything larger would be a problem for me. It can be quite painful unless the pumpum is larger or stretched.

As it stands your not accepting that this is what you have and make the most of it. Your comparing yourself to others knowing full well that there is nothing you can do about it. I can understand as a black man it's demoralising when the expectations have been set at having a dick the size of people's arms. But I've played with plenty of black men and my preference is actually in your size range. It comes down to the connection and being able to let go during sex, that's the best sex and the size of the penis has nothing to do with that. My body just responds better to someone who is willing to let go with me.

I've had large ones and at times it ether hurt or the guy just wanted to ram it in thinking my screams where of ecstasy. That's not always the case. And my most memorable experience have been with men who are same or smaller than you.

All I can suggest is that you accept who you are, that includes your size of penis. Be grateful for what you have and stop comparing yourself to others.

Their size has nothing to do with their skills and or ability to truly enjoy sex.

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"

That says more about them than you to be honest, and you do know them acting like that towards you in the work place could be classed as sexual harassment.... Just putting that out there, seems to having a negative effect on your mental health and you should really go speak to a professional."

It's fine , it's usually done at the drinks after work and i , sometimes wish i had that massive dick which they think i have , i would have probably fucked half of my work mates .

But hey , i think also , it is a blessing in disguise i don't have it

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"

I empathize with you, to most this is a very stupid problem to have when you have above average size cock and if it's a grower rather than constantly large it can affect you mentally.

I don't know if this makes any difference at all but for us women. Me at least anything larger would be a problem for me. It can be quite painful unless the pumpum is larger or stretched.

As it stands your not accepting that this is what you have and make the most of it. Your comparing yourself to others knowing full well that there is nothing you can do about it. I can understand as a black man it's demoralising when the expectations have been set at having a dick the size of people's arms. But I've played with plenty of black men and my preference is actually in your size range. It comes down to the connection and being able to let go during sex, that's the best sex and the size of the penis has nothing to do with that. My body just responds better to someone who is willing to let go with me.

I've had large ones and at times it ether hurt or the guy just wanted to ram it in thinking my screams where of ecstasy. That's not always the case. And my most memorable experience have been with men who are same or smaller than you.

All I can suggest is that you accept who you are, that includes your size of penis. Be grateful for what you have and stop comparing yourself to others.

Their size has nothing to do with their skills and or ability to truly enjoy sex."

Wow , thanks a lot for this , it has actually lifted my spirits.

Thanks a million to be honest , people have no idea what these kind of messages do to people .

like you said , it's probably worse coz of the stereotype of the black man and the society expectations.

Thanks once again.

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By *parxyndpetalCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"

That says more about them than you to be honest, and you do know them acting like that towards you in the work place could be classed as sexual harassment.... Just putting that out there, seems to having a negative effect on your mental health and you should really go speak to a professional.

It's fine , it's usually done at the drinks after work and i , sometimes wish i had that massive dick which they think i have , i would have probably fucked half of my work mates .

But hey , i think also , it is a blessing in disguise i don't have it "

Well crack on and fuck them if they all want you and you're in a position to do that and stop bloody complaining,

Good luck with what ever it is you're doing

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You need to get out more who cares? My dick is like half a rolo.....but I survive

"

do you share your rolo's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I empathize with you, to most this is a very stupid problem to have when you have above average size cock and if it's a grower rather than constantly large it can affect you mentally.

I don't know if this makes any difference at all but for us women. Me at least anything larger would be a problem for me. It can be quite painful unless the pumpum is larger or stretched.

As it stands your not accepting that this is what you have and make the most of it. Your comparing yourself to others knowing full well that there is nothing you can do about it. I can understand as a black man it's demoralising when the expectations have been set at having a dick the size of people's arms. But I've played with plenty of black men and my preference is actually in your size range. It comes down to the connection and being able to let go during sex, that's the best sex and the size of the penis has nothing to do with that. My body just responds better to someone who is willing to let go with me.

I've had large ones and at times it ether hurt or the guy just wanted to ram it in thinking my screams where of ecstasy. That's not always the case. And my most memorable experience have been with men who are same or smaller than you.

All I can suggest is that you accept who you are, that includes your size of penis. Be grateful for what you have and stop comparing yourself to others.

Their size has nothing to do with their skills and or ability to truly enjoy sex.

Wow , thanks a lot for this , it has actually lifted my spirits.

Thanks a million to be honest , people have no idea what these kind of messages do to people .

like you said , it's probably worse coz of the stereotype of the black man and the society expectations.

Thanks once again. "

No problem.. I do understand where your coming from. Your not the first black man to express this in your size range and I've seen how it can affect you.

Just accept yourself and enjoy life

X

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"OP you cannot make your penis larger with herbs or anything like that.

Your penis is larger than average and many women are more than happy with average. Some women on Fab want sex with a particularly well endowed man but by no means most and it is highly unlikely to be relevant in a relationship.

If you are genuinely very unhappy with your penis, you need to seek mental health support, as others have said. in fairness only a handful if that have said. The rest have just mocked. "

Sadly, so much easier to be cruel online and call it "banter"

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Trust me, you have a big cock. But trust this; no woman will care how big your cock is, only that it is not attached to one. Get over it and live your life or this obsession will rob you of life altogether.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Lol

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By *.LBCouple
over a year ago

South


"

I empathize with you, to most this is a very stupid problem to have when you have above average size cock and if it's a grower rather than constantly large it can affect you mentally.

I don't know if this makes any difference at all but for us women. Me at least anything larger would be a problem for me. It can be quite painful unless the pumpum is larger or stretched.

As it stands your not accepting that this is what you have and make the most of it. Your comparing yourself to others knowing full well that there is nothing you can do about it. I can understand as a black man it's demoralising when the expectations have been set at having a dick the size of people's arms. But I've played with plenty of black men and my preference is actually in your size range. It comes down to the connection and being able to let go during sex, that's the best sex and the size of the penis has nothing to do with that. My body just responds better to someone who is willing to let go with me.

I've had large ones and at times it ether hurt or the guy just wanted to ram it in thinking my screams where of ecstasy. That's not always the case. And my most memorable experience have been with men who are same or smaller than you.

All I can suggest is that you accept who you are, that includes your size of penis. Be grateful for what you have and stop comparing yourself to others.

Their size has nothing to do with their skills and or ability to truly enjoy sex.

Wow , thanks a lot for this , it has actually lifted my spirits.

Thanks a million to be honest , people have no idea what these kind of messages do to people .

like you said , it's probably worse coz of the stereotype of the black man and the society expectations.

Thanks once again. "

You have fucked my wife on two occasions , and i didn’t see her complain she loved it, and she has fucked some hung guys as you know,

don’t beat yourself up,

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By *ondon_afterwork_fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"

You have fucked my wife on two occasions , and i didn’t see her complain she loved it, and she has fucked some hung guys as you know,

don’t beat yourself up,

"

Yea , but do you remember how i was talking about the other guy's dick and you told me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By *.LBCouple
over a year ago

South


"

You have fucked my wife on two occasions , and i didn’t see her complain she loved it, and she has fucked some hung guys as you know,

don’t beat yourself up,

Yea , but do you remember how i was talking about the other guy's dick and you told me off "

Between the two of you, you gave her a good seeing too, spent condoms everywhere

Was a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of the day you can only fuck with the cock your given

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

OP, you have what you have. Learn to make the most of it, and ensure that foreplay is exceptional. Cock will just be the icing on the cake.

Work on your confidence and insecurities though. Doubting your abilities and questioning everything will only hinder you in the bedroom and insecurity to that degree is a massive red flag to many. That’s what will hold you back, not the size of your cock.

All the best dealing with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is seeming more and more like a joke post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got issues that you need professional help with. You're obsessed with your penis, its size and your perception of it. You just want to 'get laid' and think its the only criteria on stopping women fancying you. To be honest, having the attitude that you have about your penis and all that you have to do is lob out a big one for women to drop their knickers, gush like a tsunami and have multiple orgasms, is unattractive and possibly the real reason why you are not on a continual shag fest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyday I walking , I am obsersed with looking at men's bulges just to see how many have the big dick .I am telling the truth , and i am sure i am not alone but people here might try and pretend that its all fake , lot's of men like me feel the same especially in the bathrooms when you feel inadequate and you end up not using the urinary when peeing and instead you go into the cubicle. That's a reality folks "

You are not alone, I too am obsessed with looking at men’s bulges I don’t use the urinals as I get hard standing next to another guy with any size cock. Mine is just about average - it’s what I have and can’t change it - but it’s given me many years of fun with no complaints from men or women and hopefully a few more to come.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I think you're measuring it wrong. Looks bigger than 8 inches to me.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

OP seems desperate to up his profile views and increase his Fab count n my opinion, I don't believe for one minute he honestly believes his cock is inadequate, jeez, unless that's someone else's picture, it's way above average.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Everyday I walking , I am obsersed with looking at men's bulges just to see how many have the big dick .I am telling the truth , and i am sure i am not alone but people here might try and pretend that its all fake , lot's of men like me feel the same especially in the bathrooms when you feel inadequate and you end up not using the urinary when peeing and instead you go into the cubicle. That's a reality folks

I think a lot of guys are probably proud to flaunt their bulges. Standing next to a guy at a urinal who’s got a whopper is a bit of an endurance test lol

You are not alone, I too am obsessed with looking at men’s bulges I don’t use the urinals as I get hard standing next to another guy with any size cock. Mine is just about average - it’s what I have and can’t change it - but it’s given me many years of fun with no complaints from men or women and hopefully a few more to come."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like mine, it’s just others that don’t

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

I quite like mine even if it did get slated on here previously

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

The thing is, with his apparent ethnic heritage the pressure to have a big dick must be immense.

If he knows some of us (tick box here) 'white British' have a bigger cock than he does (take a look small fry) he really will feel terribly inadequate.

.

He should probably quit the site to help his own mental health wellbeing.

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

FOR SALE. d.i.y. penis enlargement kit. The kit contains the following.

1 metre of nylon rope.

1 high density concrete block.

1. box of kleenex tissues.

1. Wooden mixing spoon.

Instructions.

1. Kneel down naked on floor. 2. Tie one end of said rope to concrete block. 3. Tie other end around bell end of length deficiency penis. 4. Place wooden spoon in your mouth, ready to bite down on it. 5. Take a handful of tissues, as the next procedure will bring tears to your eyes. 6. Then Try standing upright with feet apart.

At this point you will notice a significant improvement in length strait away. But maybe disappointed in the girth. To remedy this. Place your penis on a hard surface, then drop said concrete block on it. Sadly the swelling will only last 7 days.

It is recommended, that this kit is used 15 minutes prior to intercourse. So get your fab friend to assist.

N.B. No fingers or toes were crushed or injured in making this product.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like mine much either.... but I’m kinda attached to it too.... is what it is

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"The thing is, with his apparent ethnic heritage the pressure to have a big dick must be immense.

If he knows some of us (tick box here) 'white British' have a bigger cock than he does (take a look small fry) he really will feel terribly inadequate.

.

He should probably quit the site to help his own mental health wellbeing. "

All irony purely intentional.

Relax.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot


" lot's of men like me feel the same especially in the bathrooms when you feel inadequate and you end up not using the urinary when peeing and instead you go into the cubicle. That's a reality folks "

Nope, can't say I feel inadequate to the point where I use a cubicle and I've got a pretty small cock by comparison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like mine much either.... but I’m kinda attached to it too.... is what it is "

This has made my Monday better

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

How can 8 inches be called massive ? Even when you look at women here , they all say 9" or over and I never apply coz i know i am not adequate"

Lol come try my shoes. I'm hardly 6 inches . It's like marmalade for me. Some people compliment me and some just straight up delete my message

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"...I have spent over £3000 trying all sorts , except surgery, to make it bigger but with no luck . "

It's not luck.

A fool and his money are soon parted.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

You could chop it off or not base your identity on your prick while we 10 incher do lol

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"Everyday I walking , I am obsersed with looking at men's bulges just to see how many have the big dick .I am telling the truth , and i am sure i am not alone but people here might try and pretend that its all fake , lot's of men like me feel the same especially in the bathrooms when you feel inadequate and you end up not using the urinary when peeing and instead you go into the cubicle. That's a reality folks

I think a lot of guys are probably proud to flaunt their bulges. Standing next to a guy at a urinal who’s got a whopper is a bit of an endurance test lol

You are not alone, I too am obsessed with looking at men’s bulges I don’t use the urinals as I get hard standing next to another guy with any size cock. Mine is just about average - it’s what I have and can’t change it - but it’s given me many years of fun with no complaints from men or women and hopefully a few more to come."

I think a lot of guys check each other out and there are guys who flaunt it. It’s not easy to concentrate on having a pee when the guy next to you is waving a huge chopper about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have bbc as part of your username though, so you obviously know it's not small. Learn to love what you have, it's a nice penis

I put it there but deep down i feel inadequate , and that's the truth .Just put yourself in my shoes and compare with https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/big_harold .

How would you feel afterwards? be honest ? "

I haven’t seen big Harold, but I feel good standing next to anyone with a dick. I am me and they are themselves. I won’t change the size, shape, colour and length of my dick.

I hope you grow to love your dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re big mate. Don’t worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be happy with your size, a lot of men would love to have your size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take that tape measure back to wickes if I were you ??

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

At the end of the day OP its mot size that counts for a lady, its actually how you use it, correct me if im wromg ladies.

Quality over quantity i believe is what interests the ladies

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I think what you’ve got is medically called a ‘mangina’

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

I would play my tiny violin for you but your massive wanger keeps getting in the way.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think what you’ve got is medically called a ‘mangina’"

I'm Old Greeeeeeeg!

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Anyone fancy a flirtini?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at his massive chopper people, look at it

How can 8 inches be called massive ? Even when you look at women here , they all say 9" or over and I never apply coz i know i am not adequate"

REALLY.... GET A GRIP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think what you’ve got is medically called a ‘mangina’"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies pm me and I'll show you my almighty schlong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t looked at your profile, but read on here that you’re getting meets. You obviously have no issue with impotence because of this, so try not to worry so much. It’s a cliche that you’ve got caught up with.

We all have hang ups about something about ourselves, don’t let this become an obsession for you. Has any woman ever complained you’re too small? Said she’s not satisfied? Comparing yourself to a stereotype won’t help you.

A guy i was speaking to was 13 or 14” (can’t remember exactly, was last year) saw him briefly on cam and knew he would be way too big for my comfort. So having a huge penis isn’t the be all and end all. He said that he has the BBC, but it put women off, not attracted them. Too big can be painful and daunting.

Just have fun with what you have. The best sexual organ is the brain, engage that, and the woman will always love the size of your penis xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind my penis, just wish it wasn't so veiny!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If this is a serious post, it sounds like you may have body dysmorphia which is a mental issue rather than a physical one.

Have a look at the MIND website for more info and consider your options in terms of treatment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t looked at your profile, but read on here that you’re getting meets. You obviously have no issue with impotence because of this, so try not to worry so much. It’s a cliche that you’ve got caught up with.

We all have hang ups about something about ourselves, don’t let this become an obsession for you. Has any woman ever complained you’re too small? Said she’s not satisfied? Comparing yourself to a stereotype won’t help you.

A guy i was speaking to was 13 or 14” (can’t remember exactly, was last year) saw him briefly on cam and knew he would be way too big for my comfort. So having a huge penis isn’t the be all and end all. He said that he has the BBC, but it put women off, not attracted them. Too big can be painful and daunting.

Just have fun with what you have. The best sexual organ is the brain, engage that, and the woman will always love the size of your penis xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The negativity here is bad.

Lots of people struggle with self esteem.

Even bodybuilders and ballet dancers.

So if the OP says he's feeling inadequate, shouting at him to stop attention seeking is missing the point.

Practise self care bud.

We are all human and feel insecure at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is smaller of course Id love a bigger one but that's life. A good tradesman doesn't blame his tool

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