FabSwingers.com forum: It’s not as easy as it looks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Swinging and other naughty extra curricular activities seemed quite simple from what we knew beforehand but it’s actually a complicated thing to navigate.Or is it just us who is getting tied up in knots! You start with the bare bones of a fantasy but that can quickly start to be twisted out of shape when the messages start rolling in.Theres a lot more to sexuality than you think or at least we thought.We were naive like that I guess.We had all sorts of offers from all sorts of people and often they would slightly terrify us that we would be overwhelmed by a big bad Dom and never be the same again! Then there’s the ones who assume we want that but probably wouldn’t deliver and disappoint us.These are the ones who disappear after talking to us maybe for fear of A-we weren’t actually who we said we were or B-all the bigging up they did of themselves they then panicked and fled! We’ve had some great chats with fabbers and taken in the good the bad and the bizarre and are proud to say we’ve never blocked a single person as no one has ever been that weird we’ve had to haha! We even did a status update to say we’re off dogging as it seems simpler to organise but no- even that comes with warnings and alternative options! Maybe we should stop complicating it all and just go with the flow?! Mrs