FabSwingers.com forum: Do singles really want to meet couples?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If it was very easy to meet single females on Fab, would singles (male or female) still want to meet couples? And if so, why?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I would meet anyone who i wanted to get to know better, and it doesn't have to be a sexual thing.... there are people on the site that I would just like to sit down and have a proper chinwag with....

for me, it is as much about the social side of it as anything else.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question. I was thinking about this the other day and concluded...

I enjoy meeting couples, but rarely have the same sort of relationship with them as with a single. For some reason once the meet is organised and I turn up I do not realy initiate the action and wait to be 'invited' as it were, whereas when I meet with a single I am much more forward......

I couldn't tell you why, but that's the way it is.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

I would say obviously because there are more couples in the scene than single females...males will do anything for uncomplicated sex weather it be couples or single fems doesn't matter.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"I would say obviously because there are more couples in the scene than single females...males will do anything for uncomplicated sex weather it be couples or single fems doesn't matter.

and what about those couples only after single women......

they seem to want to jump thru the same hoops.....

there are "some" men like that.... just like there are "some" couples.....

generalisations are dangerous things.....

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

At first I thought I'd be typing out some sort of deep complex reply, but as I pondered the question the answer I kept coming back to was 'why not'... and it seems to be as simple as that for me.

I enjoy sex with single men.

I enjoy sex with couples.

I enjoy variety.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

"I would say obviously because there are more couples in the scene than single females...males will do anything for uncomplicated sex weather it be couples or single fems doesn't matter.

and what about those couples only after single women......

they seem to want to jump thru the same hoops.....

there are "some" men like that.... just like there are "some" couples.....

generalisations are dangerous things.....

Yeah very true maybe what I meant is most women are a little fussy about who they sleep with, on a whole most men will sleep with whatever they can get ..remember I said most not all..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Yeah very true maybe what I meant is most women are a little fussy about who they sleep with, on a whole most men will sleep with whatever they can get ..remember I said most not all..

And if I am honest I am a little envious of those who can.

Why is being fussy generally seen as a good thing and those who can get past the fuss, the prejudice, the trival, the totally subjective shite are seen as doing a bad thing.

I envy those who can take enjoyment from the pure physical pleasure of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was very easy to meet single females on Fab, would singles (male or female) still want to meet couples? And if so, why? "

Of course, don't forget, Fab is about fantasy. If it were only about meeting single women, the truth is their are easier places to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was very easy to meet single females on Fab, would singles (male or female) still want to meet couples? And if so, why? "

Well speaking for myself it depends what mood I'm in. Love meeting single women, but also love meeting couples. Have always been very interested in real couple swinging, and have thoroughly enjoyed myself on these meets.. Basically long term would love to settle down with a swinger so could enjoy the life together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *evin5050Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"If it was very easy to meet single females on Fab, would singles (male or female) still want to meet couples? And if so, why? "

Well I like fun with single ladies but really get off on 3sums with couples. Both good and fun in their own ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say obviously because there are more couples in the scene than single females...males will do anything for uncomplicated sex weather it be couples or single fems doesn't matter.

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Its true...i'd rather meet single women than couples..couples are a compromise. There is 1 couple that i'd like to meet, and hope i will at some point..but in the main, singletons, which is why i activated my filters to reflect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i could never sleep with a guy i want attracted to n felt a connection with might sound crazy but theyve either got it or they havnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was very easy to meet single females on Fab, would singles (male or female) still want to meet couples? And if so, why? "

not this one, i have no interest at all in meeting couples off here, i have had far to many bad experiences with them in the past for it to be worth bothering with, i wont even meet male halfs of couples anymore because of the shitty come back ive had from the female half after even tho they say its ok at the time

I will play with couples in clubs if i have spoken to them there a few times and got to know them, or more to the point got to know their relationship ,and if i know them from clubs i will meet them privately but as for meeting couples off here or playing with a couple in a club/party first time ive met them.....no chance, much more simple to meet single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question. I was thinking about this the other day and concluded...

I couldn't tell you why, but that's the way it is."

thats because a single female does not have a guy to 'look after her' so its easier to be more forwards without the fear of upsetting her fella

I have met as a couple with my ex and as a single female and have met single guys as both and i find guys are far more forwards with me now and a bit pushy at times than when i had a 6ft+ guys at my side, i think the reasons obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would meet anyone who i wanted to get to know better, and it doesn't have to be a sexual thing.... there are people on the site that I would just like to sit down and have a proper chinwag with....

for me, it is as much about the social side of it as anything else..... "

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I do meet with couples occasionally and when it works well its great, but I agree with nymphos about it being complicated and sometimes I think its just not worth the effort

...you can do this...you cant do that...plus most are looking for bi women...

Its much more straight forward to meet single guys and now I only meet with 'real couples' - rather than play mates - if Ive met them at a club or a social first.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"If it was very easy to meet single females on Fab, would singles (male or female) still want to meet couples? And if so, why?

i only play with couples when i have a friend with me to 'offset' things a bit. when i have played singly with couples in the past i have encountered all kinds of different dynamics from jealousy to desperation to boredom. being the piggy in the middle of a crumbling or damaged relationship is not comfortable. so, i no longer play this way.

and since i am somewhat selfish i much prefer the company of lots of lovely single men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was very easy to meet single females on Fab, would singles (male or female) still want to meet couples? And if so, why? "

Him here

Even if i was single i would rather meet couples as i enjoy playing with both sexes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couples arent really my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer mmf threesomes compare to 1on1, thats the reason im on here :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found that meeting couple's is as good as single ladies. I enjoy the social side of swinging and making frineds. That's why I like going to clubs.

Some men do come on here because they think it's an easy way of getting a shag. But personally I like meeting couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A very interesting and varied collection of responses. The subject is of particular interest to us as we pretty much only meet singles, and we do try to see things from their point of view.

We have played with single males and single females, and wouldn't rate one experience as 'better' than the other.

We can understand how tedious and/or disappointing it must be for a single to step into a relationship issue, or to feel left out in some way. Hopefully we'll never put anyone in that place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting, I would have loved to have met a couple but it didn't happen. Me and my profile was obviously more suited to single women as they're the only ones I had success with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty, I prefer meeting couples to singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to stay away from meeting couples to be honest.

Tho I cant say its the with every couple as I no some of you out there are very nice, down to earth and genuine. I have had a cpl of bad experiences when arranging meets with couples and put me right off to be honest. I just stick to meeting single fems only from now on. Thos happy to chat and have banter with couples on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only play with single men, as has been stated above there's to much hassle with couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question. I was thinking about this the other day and concluded...

I couldn't tell you why, but that's the way it is.

thats because a single female does not have a guy to 'look after her' so its easier to be more forwards without the fear of upsetting her fella

HER HERE....i have encountered this problem too....as a single female playing alone and now playing as part of a couple, the difference in the attitude of single guys is very noticeable.

As a single female guys are more pushy, but having my partner there now, guys wouldnt dare try anything, unless they like a kick in the nuts!! lol.

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

When I was meeting as a single guy I always preferred meeting couples. I find the whole 2 or more guys pleasuring a woman such a turn on. I feed off the enjoyment of others, especially the woman. Now I have a partner we bring other guys in to join us instead. All in all though it's not about 1 persons pleasure, it's about the pleasure of everybody involved, no matter how many. If everyone walks away with a smile on their face it was a successful meet.

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definatly, i think that's where the real risky fun is

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

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By *dd269Man
over a year ago

Clee

I like to meet couples, because I like to kiss and cuddle with them both as we warm up. Women and they seem generally more relaxed with their partner present.

And I need the partner to achieve a double vag, and to lead in with the fisting - ho-ho

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