FabSwingers.com forum: "You're nearby!"

By *wist my nipples OP Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x "

Not in my experience, no. I won't be a quick hookup for someone because they happen to be in the area.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

You’re so witty, your comments always make me giggle.

To the point, never done it myself!

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

Nope people here don't shag there neighbours unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once for me.

I've tried it a number of times.

It can be interesting using it at a large vanilla event...

Or at an airport... Picking people out from a crowd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got one from a woman once. We started chatting... yeah we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Yeah I got that last night staying in a hotel near Heathrow. Surely people near major airports must be used to people popping up randomly. Maybe lots of people do use it as an opportunity to meet?! Pizza, film and early bed for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on what the person they are messaging is after I spose. When I was first on and only looking for a fuck, it worked on the odd occasions when I found them attractive and not a complete tool... Now, when I am playing, I need more than that to make it worth losing playtime with my fwb, so wouldn't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live within quarter of a mile of a place people go dogging, get loads of messages, especially in summer asking if we are there xx

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x "

Nope.

We’ve messaged people in the past that have been close by and we’ve just been ignored.

We have messaged people on our friends list and asked what they’re up to when we’ve seen their close by!

The only message we’ve knowingly received like that is someone passing on the train (a guy) telling us how lovely my husbands cock is and how he’s love to be sucking it! Lol

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"We live within quarter of a mile of a place people go dogging, get loads of messages, especially in summer asking if we are there xx"

Hahaha that’s funny! But he question is are you ever tempted?!

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

I’ve met only twice using it. Both times were just for a social drink with like minded people.

Use it more when attending large group socials to see when friends are close to getting there. Lol

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By *hesterXXXMan
over a year ago

in your dreams

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x "

If it's late at night and I'm in the mood and I fancy the person/people messaging me - then why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been contacted numerous time in various places by men wanting to play with my cock - especially Whitby for some reason

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

My only meets via this site have been using that function, when away from home staying in other parts of the UK... Seems like people in my local area aren't so interested in meeting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The use of the function in this way does sometimes feel like, you, there, you'll do, come service my/ our needs.

I turn it off when I travel outside Manchester.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The near by and oh im down road staying in hotel or even worse i visit relative's regularly near you....i could pop in to you on my way....hellllll nooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't work for me.

I don't want to be anybody's hands free wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I've ever met anyone nearby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We live within quarter of a mile of a place people go dogging, get loads of messages, especially in summer asking if we are there xx

Hahaha that’s funny! But he question is are you ever tempted?!"

We do go and play out there just the 2 of us, I like the idea of someone spotting us, so possibly if the right one ever popped up

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I sometimes get it when I'm on a bus. "hi, you're within a quarter of a mile!" Now I'm not. Lol.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"The near by and oh im down road staying in hotel or even worse i visit relative's regularly near you....i could pop in to you on my way....hellllll nooo"

Hell no indeed lol.

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

If someone was staying local in a hotel you’d think it’d be perfect as most don’t accommodate and close by and not likely to bump into them in pub!

Don’t see why it wouldn’t work it should do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can work, met my FB on here and she is in the next street literally 1/4 mile if that, tho we’ve both been a bit busy for sexy liasons recently

but we still

Message every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

This made me laugh sorry

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs.

This made me laugh sorry

Was meant to!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If someone was staying local in a hotel you’d think it’d be perfect as most don’t accommodate and close by and not likely to bump into them in pub!

Don’t see why it wouldn’t work it should do "

In theory, but in practice it often feels more like "You're nearby, it's convenient, come perform for me, monkey".

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By *.A.MGUY55Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

There were 3 ppl 4mins walk away from me this morn an they were driv9ng on main road to hastings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x "

You are overthinking this :- )

The guy has got nothing to lose by messaging and even if 1 in a 1000 say yes then result.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x

You are overthinking this :- )

The guy has got nothing to lose by messaging and even if 1 in a 1000 say yes then result."

Except depending on how he asks, he gets blocked rather than being in the running in the future.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x

You are overthinking this :- )

The guy has got nothing to lose by messaging and even if 1 in a 1000 say yes then result.

Except depending on how he asks, he gets blocked rather than being in the running in the future. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living in a tourist town I've had that before. Shame she was married I could of been tempted for a social.

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

This has been an education! I guess it entirely depends on the situation and what the person is looking for. Living in a small town, shagging someone nearby is inherently risky - we have a young family - but if we were away from home in a city it would be very different.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ozzy4Man
over a year ago

Has worked for me on a couple of occasions, probably a 0.02% success rate.

I have a job where I live on the road in hotels so stay somewhere different most nights.

Depends what people are looking for, some don't like playing with locals for fear of meeting in the real world... some like somewhere to go and play...most people just ignore me or tell me to go f*** off lol

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

"The use of the function in this way does sometimes feel like, you, there, you'll do, come service my/ our needs.

Very much this

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

Brilliant!

I’ve messaged someone nearby before but not with the intention of playing. I thought it would be nice to meet for a coffee and chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it has. However, I prefer to play by the old no shagging on your own doorstep rule. Lol.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

When I am travelling to a place I only ever really use Fabs if I know I'm going to be there a week or longer. Even if its not a sex thing, I like to meet new people and if I am staying somewhere on my own for a couple of weeks for work or whatever then meeting like-minded people off here even if it's just a social, is a nice distraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that has happened more than once with single guys is when you start chatting to them and they end up "within a mile" at some point.

We switch it off when we are at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

You mean to tell us you are not fully made up and in sexy lingerie, poised ready for sex at all times

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs.

You mean to tell us you are not fully made up and in sexy lingerie, poised ready for sex at all times

I know, right! I'm obviously a fake and a timewaster and I owe personal apologies to everyone on Fab. Heavens above.

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

I see lots of Scottish people within 1/4 mile and then suddenly they're over a mile away. Wonder if working near the station has something to do with it

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"We live within quarter of a mile of a place people go dogging, get loads of messages, especially in summer asking if we are there xx

Hahaha that’s funny! But he question is are you ever tempted?!

We do go and play out there just the 2 of us, I like the idea of someone spotting us, so possibly if the right one ever popped up

xx"

Next time we drive near yours then on route to either my brothers or my parents we might have to make a scheduled stop just to message and see what your response is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We live within quarter of a mile of a place people go dogging, get loads of messages, especially in summer asking if we are there xx

Hahaha that’s funny! But he question is are you ever tempted?!

We do go and play out there just the 2 of us, I like the idea of someone spotting us, so possibly if the right one ever popped up

Next time we drive near yours then on route to either my brothers or my parents we might have to make a scheduled stop just to message and see what your response is lol

Haha give it a go you never know

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

Find it fun at airports. Would love a naughty airport toilet fuck!

Maybe one day! X

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"We live within quarter of a mile of a place people go dogging, get loads of messages, especially in summer asking if we are there xx

Hahaha that’s funny! But he question is are you ever tempted?!

We do go and play out there just the 2 of us, I like the idea of someone spotting us, so possibly if the right one ever popped up

Next time we drive near yours then on route to either my brothers or my parents we might have to make a scheduled stop just to message and see what your response is lol

Haha give it a go you never know

xx"

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By *reenEyesScotlandWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

This is so true

I think people just think that we're ready at all times, it's like yeah you don't want to meet me looking like I do now haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as I see that kind of message I block I don’t want to meet anyone that lives to close to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet to hang out for a social if I was bored and fancied some company. That may sound nasty I'd make it very clear that's all it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m working away and staying in hotels frequently and would be an ideal way to meet but I’m never sure how much availability I have so never plan to meet. I assume people don’t want me sending messages to meet up at short notice, so never do, besides there’s rarely anyone I fancy on who’s near me anyway.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I'd meet to hang out for a social if I was bored and fancied some company. That may sound nasty I'd make it very clear that's all it was.

Not nasty at all. Its nasty to assume it could be anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

Ha ha great comment, do you know your quite nearby to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x "

Mines my work address

well one of the locations

Yes its worked for someone, i had a social with someone lol

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I had a messege from my next for neighbour

Gosh had to make up an extreme excuse not to chat anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs.

Ha ha great comment, do you know your quite nearby to me lol

Haha she’s quite near to me too but I assume she wouldn’t be interested in meeting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd meet to hang out for a social if I was bored and fancied some company. That may sound nasty I'd make it very clear that's all it was.

Not nasty at all. Its nasty to assume it could be anything else. "

Yeah, but only because I'm bored rather than because I really want to meet them is a bit mean.

#SmartPriceSocial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd meet to hang out for a social if I was bored and fancied some company. That may sound nasty I'd make it very clear that's all it was.

Not nasty at all. Its nasty to assume it could be anything else.

Yeah, but only because I'm bored rather than because I really want to meet them is a bit mean.

#SmartPriceSocial

Forum peeps would be different tho, I'd already feel like I knew them so would be meeting them coz I wanted to, not out of boredom

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I'd meet to hang out for a social if I was bored and fancied some company. That may sound nasty I'd make it very clear that's all it was.

Not nasty at all. Its nasty to assume it could be anything else.

Yeah, but only because I'm bored rather than because I really want to meet them is a bit mean.

#SmartPriceSocial

Not at all. You aren't leading them to believe it will be anything else. They are probably bored which is why they want to meet up too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did have quite a long message friendship with a guy who sent me 'wow. I'm 2 miles from you in a hotel. Wanna meet up?' At 11am. I replied sarcastically and fortunately we had the same sense of humour.

But meet ups. No not my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked for me, met an incredibly hot couple who were in Hotel in York, just a few messages and I was in their room.x

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By *easonalSirMan
over a year ago

Newton Aycliffe

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

??????????????

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x "

Only George Clooney!

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By *layful LiaisonsCouple
over a year ago

Bi-ville

"We live within quarter of a mile of a place people go dogging, get loads of messages, especially in summer asking if we are there xx"

We had the exact same thing!

At silly hours of the day and night too.

We still get the odd message when Mr is stuck on traffic on the A417 by the air balloon!!

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By *objgukMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

It's worked for me a few times.

I work on large events so there are often people there or on their way. I've chatted and met couples and singles, upgraded tickets to VIP and on one occasion a woman I was chatting to was being harassed by a group of guys so I sent security to look after her.

Then on many other occasions I just get blanked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We live within quarter of a mile of a place people go dogging, get loads of messages, especially in summer asking if we are there xx

We had the exact same thing!

At silly hours of the day and night too.

We still get the odd message when Mr is stuck on traffic on the A417 by the air balloon!! "

popular spot by there isn't it haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x "

Not at my end. My standard reply is...This isn't the fuckacode lottery!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs.

You mean to tell us you are not fully made up and in sexy lingerie, poised ready for sex at all times

I know, right! I'm obviously a fake and a timewaster and I owe personal apologies to everyone on Fab. Heavens above. "

If the norm was for men to be shaving their legs as women do or don't but let's be fair 90% surely must do....This would I'm sure lower these requests at all times of day and from anyone they point and click at. I can't just dip my ballsack in the sink and be off up the M62 to meet Mr N Obber because he's near by.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs.

You mean to tell us you are not fully made up and in sexy lingerie, poised ready for sex at all times

I know, right! I'm obviously a fake and a timewaster and I owe personal apologies to everyone on Fab. Heavens above.

Plus my makeup takes some doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs.

You mean to tell us you are not fully made up and in sexy lingerie, poised ready for sex at all times

I know, right! I'm obviously a fake and a timewaster and I owe personal apologies to everyone on Fab. Heavens above.

Plus my makeup takes some doing

I'd imagine the "hey I'm close to you

" crowd wouldn't mind with or without or indeed a paper bag haha...no idea of others needs and standards is the main bugbear.

Finding the ones to mess up my make-up is what I'd prefer time be taken on

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yeah, I want to find someone who's worth shaving my legs for. Carpet bombing every woman in Manchester because you've got a hotel room that shouldn't go to waste (you'll be sleeping there right?)... means that's probably not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been contacted numerous time in various places by men wanting to play with my cock - especially Whitby for some reason

seamen stains

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm rather slow at picking up messages, so someone passing through may have completed their journey and be on the next leg. Otherwise, I'm not a fan of people very close, so I'd not be rushing to follow up. My next door neighbour once messaged, which I didn't follow through with either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, I want to find someone who's worth shaving my legs for. Carpet bombing every woman in Manchester because you've got a hotel room that shouldn't go to waste (you'll be sleeping there right?)... means that's probably not you. "

Understood - I’m still looking for a woman it’s worth plucking my ear hair and trimming my nasal hair for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - had a meet once when two of us discovered that not only were we nearby, we were staying in the same hotel.

I didn’t get any sleep that night.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I'd meet to hang out for a social if I was bored and fancied some company. That may sound nasty I'd make it very clear that's all it was.

Not nasty at all. Its nasty to assume it could be anything else.

Yeah, but only because I'm bored rather than because I really want to meet them is a bit mean.

#SmartPriceSocial

Forum peeps would be different tho, I'd already feel like I knew them so would be meeting them coz I wanted to, not out of boredom

Good point

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

Brilliant!!

Never understand that kind of approach, but that's a superb response! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha yes this is a pet hate, along with “when you free?” And “what’s your address?” (From blank profiles I’ve never spoken with before)

Do they really think someone will meet that instantly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x "

I’ve had people say 10 miles is too local, but would never use distance as an opening line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and couples. I'm in a hotel within x miles of you... So what? I'm at home in my pyjamas and haven't shaved my legs. "

Haha yep this is my thought too ... i dont tend to shag people just out of the convenience of them being close by

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By *aria_aldershotTV/TS
over a year ago

Aldershot

Does anybody know when a profile comes up as 'touching distance' how close is that in real terms ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked for me before back when that was what i wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody know when a profile comes up as 'touching distance' how close is that in real terms ??"

I dont think its accurate ... i know someone lives in the next block of flats from me and they always show up 1/4 mile

At the same time i have had someone in bed beside me showing up as 1/2 mile ... surely they should be touching distance if it was correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets are just difficult

haha

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I'm in East Midlands this week anyone interested I social let's see if anyone answer

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By *aria_aldershotTV/TS
over a year ago

Aldershot

"Does anybody know when a profile comes up as 'touching distance' how close is that in real terms ??

I dont think its accurate ... i know someone lives in the next block of flats from me and they always show up 1/4 mile

At the same time i have had someone in bed beside me showing up as 1/2 mile ... surely they should be touching distance if it was correct "

Thanks, only reason I ask was because I was in a pub recently and had two profiles within touching distance, when I got home they both showed 1/4 mile ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody know when a profile comes up as 'touching distance' how close is that in real terms ??"

Touching distance doesn’t exist on regular fab. Just on that one for guys that’s not very good

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By *layful LiaisonsCouple
over a year ago

Bi-ville

"We live within quarter of a mile of a place people go dogging, get loads of messages, especially in summer asking if we are there xx

We had the exact same thing!

At silly hours of the day and night too.

We still get the odd message when Mr is stuck on traffic on the A417 by the air balloon!!

popular spot by there isn't it haha xx"

So we have heard!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It freaks all the ladies I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anybody know when a profile comes up as 'touching distance' how close is that in real terms ??

I dont think its accurate ... i know someone lives in the next block of flats from me and they always show up 1/4 mile

At the same time i have had someone in bed beside me showing up as 1/2 mile ... surely they should be touching distance if it was correct

Thanks, only reason I ask was because I was in a pub recently and had two profiles within touching distance, when I got home they both showed 1/4 mile ??"
it means they were in the pub. I had it on holiday once and the guy was about 30 feet away from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - my first meet I was out at mates house when got a message from a lady:

“You are within a quarter mile, fancy getting hot and dirty?” She gave me her address and was literally 200meters away.

Made my excuses left the mates house and hooked up

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By *hortfuseWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x "

No, I generally get them at least once a day when I'm in work. It's a city most people are close. Never fancied a social or otherwise.

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

"If someone was staying local in a hotel you’d think it’d be perfect as most don’t accommodate and close by and not likely to bump into them in pub!

Don’t see why it wouldn’t work it should do

In theory, but in practice it often feels more like "You're nearby, it's convenient, come perform for me, monkey". "

Better to have a shag nearby than spend time arranging one miles away who don’t turn up

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

"Has worked for me on a couple of occasions, probably a 0.02% success rate.

I have a job where I live on the road in hotels so stay somewhere different most nights.

Excatly that! Perfect scenario if you wanted a guy who your not gonna bump into in Sainsbury’s and has a nice hotel to use win win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The near by and oh im down road staying in hotel or even worse i visit relative's regularly near you....i could pop in to you on my way....hellllll nooo"
I love that lol. I could pop in and give you a seeing to on the way to my nans. Could you imagine.

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By *ilyandfelixCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

We had someone say they were within a mile and guessed at the road we live on, he was very close in his guess. That just creeped us out more than anything so we blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually every Friday/Saturday night at 0100 in the morning

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd say it totally depends on how horny you are and how shaggable the person messaging is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It worked for us when we was on holidays abroad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x

You are overthinking this :- )

The guy has got nothing to lose by messaging and even if 1 in a 1000 say yes then result.

Except depending on how he asks, he gets blocked rather than being in the running in the future. "

Easy to block people you are not attracted to but what if he was a real hottie and asked politely?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We sometimes get messages from guys saying "Wow, you're really close to me!" I was wondering if this approach has ever ended in a successful meet for anyone? Genuinely interested!

Mrs TMN x

You are overthinking this :- )

The guy has got nothing to lose by messaging and even if 1 in a 1000 say yes then result.

Except depending on how he asks, he gets blocked rather than being in the running in the future.

Easy to block people you are not attracted to but what if he was a real hottie and asked politely? "

If he asked politely I'd just delete. The answer to "I'm in a hotel tonight" is no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be that judging by your location your in north east scotland and there just shocked that someone is close to them?

As in my best voice of frasier from dads army..... "its a cold and lonely place"

jk =)

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife

Yes had it happen to me early Sunday morning after my night out in dunstable and Luton pulled in to this layby logged on and in seconds a guy mailed me so got out my van and walked into the woods and I'm glad I did as this young Asian guy aproched me and let's just say he did not disappoint

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Usually every Friday/Saturday night at 0100 in the morning

Same. Lots of those stream in on a Friday night..

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I found a man on whos near by in the same pub as me. We ended up being fb with a profile on here.

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Could it be that judging by your location your in north east scotland and there just shocked that someone is close to them?

As in my best voice of frasier from dads army..... "its a cold and lonely place"

jk =)"

Oi! Well, you might be right. There are ways to keep warm though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Usually every Friday/Saturday night at 0100 in the morning

Same. Lots of those stream in on a Friday night..

Or at any time if you use the loo at 4am and check Fab. Yes of course any time I'm on Fab I'm ready to go

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over a year ago

"Usually every Friday/Saturday night at 0100 in the morning

Same. Lots of those stream in on a Friday night..

Jeez have they no self respect? I think I’d die inside if that was my opening gambit

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Usually every Friday/Saturday night at 0100 in the morning

Same. Lots of those stream in on a Friday night..

Jeez have they no self respect? I think I’d die inside if that was my opening gambit

Funny you should say that. If you delete or turn them down, they wouldn't have fucked you anyway, Jesus they have self respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope people here don't shag there neighbours unfortunately "

That's actually a big fantasy of mine.

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over a year ago

"Usually every Friday/Saturday night at 0100 in the morning

Same. Lots of those stream in on a Friday night..

Jeez have they no self respect? I think I’d die inside if that was my opening gambit

Funny you should say that. If you delete or turn them down, they wouldn't have fucked you anyway, Jesus they have self respect

Oh the audacity you have to turn down God’s d*unken gifts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a bit, Hotel about 400 yards from my house is always rammed on Liberty Elite party night's.

Get at least one message like this ever time there is party night, usually couples had a few women toon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello from Hull ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

genuinely its hard trying to talk to someone you don't know and going off a picture you like or a blurb they wrote about, its hard to strike up a (interesting) conversation sometimes.

Have i used "were quite close to each other" yes i have. I can't speak for everybody, i'm more of a people person face to interaction works better for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, stalkers begone

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes, sometimes I use it to see who is nearby and available to meet

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live near a club (that we don't go to), so naturally we often get messages asking where are we in the club and even some they've paid to come in expecting to see us! Flattering but tough shit

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