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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those who actively look for people to meet, whether that’s messaging first or winking:

What little things will stop you initiating contact with someone?

Here are a few that put me off:

- SPaG

I know it’s controversial, but things like lack of correct spelling, grammar and punctuation annoy me. Moreso in a public domain where you’re basically showcasing yourself to others. There are exceptions - dyslexia for example. I take that into account.

- Couple’s profiles where the pictures are all her

If your profile says that you only play together, I’ll obviously want to see him before I decide if I’m interested. Grr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who actively look for people to meet, whether that’s messaging first or winking:

What little things will stop you initiating contact with someone?

Here are a few that put me off:

- SPaG

I know it’s controversial, but things like lack of correct spelling, grammar and punctuation annoy me. Moreso in a public domain where you’re basically showcasing yourself to others. There are exceptions - dyslexia for example. I take that into account.

- Couple’s profiles where the pictures are all her

If your profile says that you only play together, I’ll obviously want to see him before I decide if I’m interested. Grr!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Single profiles (male and female) where pictures are more play partners than the actual person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will fill in later".....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single profiles (male and female) where pictures are more play partners than the actual person. "

Oh yeah! That’s a good one. Just why?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Will fill in later"..... "

Especially when they’ve been on the site for a year already

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Single profiles (male and female) where pictures are more play partners than the actual person.

Oh yeah! That’s a good one. Just why?! "

One reason I've heard is "look at me I have experience". I mean, so do I, but I don't need to show it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naming and shaming....no need ffs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Inconsistency or lies on profile. Name X (35)

I'm a 23 year old man but filters on here suck...

Or "I'm no longer playing as a couple..."

Block.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Same as one you said,couple profile with no pics of Male

Certain user names too ie daddy dom/ anything 50 shades

Not being willing to swap face pics or being too crude.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things like "pictures on request", "if you want to know anything just ask", "expert in making you...", "you must be smooth, trimmed etc". And whining on status updates.

Mrs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I guarantee I'll make you squirt = guarantee you won't get anywhere near me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who lie about their age.

Example: they have age 41 on their profile but clearly they’re a lot older than they’re making out to be!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bigoted language. There's just no need. (that's not a little thing for me)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People who lie about their age.

Example: they have age 41 on their profile but clearly they’re a lot older than they’re making out to be!"

I can’t say I’ve ever actually seen that one!

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"For those who actively look for people to meet, whether that’s messaging first or winking:

What little things will stop you initiating contact with someone?

Here are a few that put me off:

- SPaG

I know it’s controversial, but things like lack of correct spelling, grammar and punctuation annoy me. Moreso in a public domain where you’re basically showcasing yourself to others. There are exceptions - dyslexia for example. I take that into account.

- Couple’s profiles where the pictures are all her

If your profile says that you only play together, I’ll obviously want to see him before I decide if I’m interested. Grr!

"

You're missing a full stop after 'her'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bigoted language. There's just no need. (that's not a little thing for me) "

Showing prejudice? Yeah, there’s no need and reveals a lot about the kind of person they are!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For those who actively look for people to meet, whether that’s messaging first or winking:

What little things will stop you initiating contact with someone?

Here are a few that put me off:

- SPaG

I know it’s controversial, but things like lack of correct spelling, grammar and punctuation annoy me. Moreso in a public domain where you’re basically showcasing yourself to others. There are exceptions - dyslexia for example. I take that into account.

- Couple’s profiles where the pictures are all her

If your profile says that you only play together, I’ll obviously want to see him before I decide if I’m interested. Grr!

You're missing a full stop after 'her'. "

It’s a header. Don’t strictly speaking need one, there wasn’t one after SPaG either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics sent where they’ve clearly had double digit birthdays since it was taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Things like "pictures on request", "if you want to know anything just ask", "expert in making you...", "you must be smooth, trimmed etc". And whining on status updates.

Mrs "

Oh those over-used phrases. Be more original!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Bigoted language. There's just no need. (that's not a little thing for me)

Showing prejudice? Yeah, there’s no need and reveals a lot about the kind of person they are!"

I'm always astonished by how many guys local to me use horrendous language about women, are only looking for women, and complain that they don't get anywhere. Like, really? If you think we're all worthless bitchy hos, I'm not touching you with a ten foot barge pole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who lie about their age.

Example: they have age 41 on their profile but clearly they’re a lot older than they’re making out to be!

I can’t say I’ve ever actually seen that one! "

There’s a few on here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"People who lie about their age.

Example: they have age 41 on their profile but clearly they’re a lot older than they’re making out to be!

I can’t say I’ve ever actually seen that one!

There’s a few on here "

I saw one ages ago where he claimed to be in his 50s. He sent me a picture consistent with that, but the fashion and the fading on the picture (digital picture of a print) suggested it was taken in the 80s...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who lie about their age.

Example: they have age 41 on their profile but clearly they’re a lot older than they’re making out to be!

I can’t say I’ve ever actually seen that one!

There’s a few on here

I saw one ages ago where he claimed to be in his 50s. He sent me a picture consistent with that, but the fashion and the fading on the picture (digital picture of a print) suggested it was taken in the 80s... "

I share your pain!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"People who lie about their age.

Example: they have age 41 on their profile but clearly they’re a lot older than they’re making out to be!

I can’t say I’ve ever actually seen that one!

There’s a few on here

I saw one ages ago where he claimed to be in his 50s. He sent me a picture consistent with that, but the fashion and the fading on the picture (digital picture of a print) suggested it was taken in the 80s...

I share your pain! "

I have one on my phone from about the same time which I thought about sending back, but I am actually 33... You do the maths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who lie about their age.

Example: they have age 41 on their profile but clearly they’re a lot older than they’re making out to be!

I can’t say I’ve ever actually seen that one!

There’s a few on here

I saw one ages ago where he claimed to be in his 50s. He sent me a picture consistent with that, but the fashion and the fading on the picture (digital picture of a print) suggested it was taken in the 80s...

I share your pain!

I have one on my phone from about the same time which I thought about sending back, but I am actually 33... You do the maths. "

Or even better, just send a random photo of an ald dear in her 70’s / 80’s and see what response you get

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"People who lie about their age.

Example: they have age 41 on their profile but clearly they’re a lot older than they’re making out to be!

I can’t say I’ve ever actually seen that one!

There’s a few on here

I saw one ages ago where he claimed to be in his 50s. He sent me a picture consistent with that, but the fashion and the fading on the picture (digital picture of a print) suggested it was taken in the 80s...

I share your pain!

I have one on my phone from about the same time which I thought about sending back, but I am actually 33... You do the maths.

Or even better, just send a random photo of an ald dear in her 70’s / 80’s and see what response you get "

I've seen older guys complaining here that they don't want women their age, they look like grandma. OK Pops. Because you don't...

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

One little thing that annoys me is people who have been on a week complaining that they aren’t getting a meet or complaining that there aren’t any decent women on here. I’ve seen a a single female profile do that second one a few times. Also with some single males their opening messages are horrendous like would they actually go to someone in a pub or a club and say that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One little thing that annoys me is people who have been on a week complaining that they aren’t getting a meet or complaining that there aren’t any decent women on here. I’ve seen a a single female profile do that second one a few times. Also with some single males their opening messages are horrendous like would they actually go to someone in a pub or a club and say that. "

Exactly!

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"One little thing that annoys me is people who have been on a week complaining that they aren’t getting a meet or complaining that there aren’t any decent women on here. I’ve seen a a single female profile do that second one a few times. Also with some single males their opening messages are horrendous like would they actually go to someone in a pub or a club and say that.

Exactly! "

It’s probably weird seeing a man say that

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Dirty bedrooms/living rooms etc in the background. Basically if their house is a state then what does that say about the person...

Absolutely hate being asked how we are, how we are finding the site and what we are into- read the profile!!

Being sent blurry/bad quality face pictures. You may as well not even bother sending it at all.

Also, recent got sent a message from a MM profile which was one guy trying to get a girl to fuck him and his mates. Addressed the message only to me, and gave me the instructions on what I was expected to do for all them- very presumptuous and just rude.

Sassy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"One little thing that annoys me is people who have been on a week complaining that they aren’t getting a meet or complaining that there aren’t any decent women on here. I’ve seen a a single female profile do that second one a few times. Also with some single males their opening messages are horrendous like would they actually go to someone in a pub or a club and say that. "

Many of the messages I get would get you thrown out of a pub. Possibly bodily rather than just escorted.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"For those who actively look for people to meet, whether that’s messaging first or winking:

What little things will stop you initiating contact with someone?

Here are a few that put me off:

- SPaG

I know it’s controversial, but things like lack of correct spelling, grammar and punctuation annoy me. Moreso in a public domain where you’re basically showcasing yourself to others. There are exceptions - dyslexia for example. I take that into account.

- Couple’s profiles where the pictures are all her

If your profile says that you only play together, I’ll obviously want to see him before I decide if I’m interested. Grr!

"

“things like lack of correct spelling, grammar and punctuation annoy me. Moreso......”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For those who actively look for people to meet, whether that’s messaging first or winking:

What little things will stop you initiating contact with someone?

Here are a few that put me off:

- SPaG

I know it’s controversial, but things like lack of correct spelling, grammar and punctuation annoy me. Moreso in a public domain where you’re basically showcasing yourself to others. There are exceptions - dyslexia for example. I take that into account.

- Couple’s profiles where the pictures are all her

If your profile says that you only play together, I’ll obviously want to see him before I decide if I’m interested. Grr!

“things like lack of correct spelling, grammar and punctuation annoy me. Moreso......”

"

Yes?

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