FabSwingers.com forum: Men who want men but dont

By *rotica x OP Couple
over a year ago

Chepstow/Portugal

Now, just curious! Because I caught my ex on a singles profile looking for TVs on here. And after reading soooo many threads about the “fab straight” men who don’t mind a bit of penis in their mouth every now and then, (not that there’s anything wrong with it at all! Turns me on anyway..) but, do the majority of men turn to other men or TVs if they can’t get with a woman? Is it the thrill or are some just scared.

I’d absolutely love to hear from the men who watch TV or gay porn secretly but say they’re straight just to explain? Xxx all in good faith and conversation for curiosity so no judgement xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, would rather have a wank to be honest.

For me sex is about a connection, which I can't have with a man anyway so yeah, pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had very dry spells but never considered jumping into the other jacuzzi to get my dick wet.

I'm straight because I don't find men sexually attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many tv's wear it well some very convincingly well. For me i wouldnt, just not my thing. I have however had a 3some mmf, and have had a double barrel handjob to finish. I wouldnt suck/play/fuck ect

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I have had very dry spells but never considered jumping into the other jacuzzi to get my dick wet.

I'm straight because I don't find men sexually attractive."

Same. Nor sheep, chicken, watermelons, apple pies or even persons of the opposite gender that I'm not attracted to. And tbh I resent the implication that as a man I will stick it in anything or that moves, because that's just what men do.

I wasted my teens and 20s not having sex with people because I was worried something bad might happen as a result. Despite being constantly horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really struggle to believe a straight man would be so desperate he would turn to TVs or other men, unless he was quite pissed. Otherwise there is homosexual/ bisexual inclinations there somewhere deep, if they can face it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had very dry spells but never considered jumping into the other jacuzzi to get my dick wet.

I'm straight because I don't find men sexually attractive."

What this gentleman said. You’re either straight or your not ! However, some men hide their bisexuality for various reasons. Stigma, judgement or maybe they think it makes them less of a man... or are just plain shy about it. The world isnt yet completely accepting of sexuality or gender so some people find it difficult ‘coming out’ in a public way.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You’d be surprised how many message me around this time of night. Straight on their Profile, but suddenly I’m very attractive.

That’s why my Profile states not interested in straight guys, I’m nobody’s second best until they get a better offer.

Whether the majority on here turn to other guys (even the ones who look like girls) for fun, some will as some will play in a MMF situation. When a guys randy ...well

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By *hlasherMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Great question. For me, it's a case of ignoring labels. Straight, gay, bi etc. It just confuses everything. I would consider myself to be straight. I'm in awe of women and love absolutely everything about them. I could feel attracted to a woman of any shape, size, race etc as long as we are in tune on an sexual basis. However, I really enjoy straightforward, no nonsense sex with like minded men. Real physical intimacy without (on my part) any other attraction. I don't like to kiss, cuddle or anything like that with guys.

I suppose I would label myself as Sexual.

Hope that makes some kind of sense.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Not all men who met TV/TS fancy the penis. Some don't even want to see it.

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By *mpishMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's an odd one, I enjoy some gay porn, but have never had any inclination to sleep with another man.

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

Thats what made me curious.

I love to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most men are curious and chatting too TVs and crossdressers at clubs you get there side of sex even though no physical attraction nice to get another opinion I get lots of guys offering sex but don’t feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the reasons some men lie are pretty obvious. There are also plenty of other people telling all sorts of lies on here. So if you're reading this and you are hiding your sexuality. Fuck it! You owe wider Fab nothing.

Though having said that, the best women on here don't tend to care too much and will like your honesty and courage if you choose to out yourself on here.

Anyone mocking you for your sexuality will soon be shown the door by the Mods or Forum.

I'm bi, but I've changed it to curious, to lessen the interest I get from couples who want to jump straight into bi fun without playing straight first.

Men are also blocked because a large number send really crude messages and chance their luck regardless of what my profile says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’d be surprised how many message me around this time of night. Straight on their Profile, but suddenly I’m very attractive.

That’s why my Profile states not interested in straight guys, I’m nobody’s second best until they get a better offer.

Whether the majority on here turn to other guys (even the ones who look like girls) for fun, some will as some will play in a MMF situation. When a guys randy ...well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male here. I call myself bisexual because I love kissing men and sucking them, it's something I really enjoy. However I have never looked at a man and thought phwoarr in the same way I do women.

We've had several mmf threesomes where he's not been interested in me and we respect that. I can just as easily be around men without wanting to suck them

Just thought I'd offer a different perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Male here. I call myself bisexual because I love kissing men and sucking them, it's something I really enjoy. However I have never looked at a man and thought phwoarr in the same way I do women.

We've had several mmf threesomes where he's not been interested in me and we respect that. I can just as easily be around men without wanting to suck them

Just thought I'd offer a different perspective"

Agree, I don't fancy men, but in a mmf, I am happy to kiss and suck men. Not interested in meeting men on their own and have no attraction to them. Sexually open I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Male here. I call myself bisexual because I love kissing men and sucking them, it's something I really enjoy. However I have never looked at a man and thought phwoarr in the same way I do women.

We've had several mmf threesomes where he's not been interested in me and we respect that. I can just as easily be around men without wanting to suck them

Just thought I'd offer a different perspective

Agree, I don't fancy men, but in a mmf, I am happy to kiss and suck men. Not interested in meeting men on their own and have no attraction to them. Sexually open I guess. "

I do meet men alone and have been to a local sauna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think it’s about desperation. Even curious guys must have some sort of attraction to tv or guys. If it was just somewhere to put your cock, men would be fucking milk bottles full of spam. Doesn’t matter what you call yourself, wouldn’t judge anyone’s sexual attractions.

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