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By *tephenb001 OP   Man
over a year ago

stapleton

Is it me or does anyone get this message

far too often." your just not our type"

What the fuck?

Ok is it I'm too fat.

Too short.

Ugly.

Only have a 7"er.

Maybe all of the above.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

thay are being polite and honest, means they dont fancy you..,

but hey at least u get replies, more threads are started about how rude it is not to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone has their preferances, just sccept it and move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thay are being polite and honest, means they dont fancy you..,

but hey at least u get replies, more threads are started about how rude it is not to reply "

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By *tephenb001 OP   Man
over a year ago

stapleton

True.

Maybe I should give in...

Lol

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

there are being polite and honest, which is better than leading you on a road to no where

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By *tephenb001 OP   Man
over a year ago

stapleton

It's proberly what I thought all along.

Just nobody wants rejection.

I'm just having a little moan.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"It's proberly what I thought all along.

Just nobody wants rejection.

I'm just having a little moan.

"

moaning is good but only in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want people to tell the truth? They are being nicely deflective,its a hint...

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By *tephenb001 OP   Man
over a year ago

stapleton

Maybe I hoped I could find out the problem and fix it.

Lol

Say I'm really 6'5,

the picture was before I drank loads of slim shakes.

And willy 7" from the floor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I hoped I could find out the problem and fix it.

Lol

Say I'm really 6'5,

the picture was before I drank loads of slim shakes.

And willy 7" from the floor.

"

.... and not curvy, curvy is never a good word for describing a male in my eyes. Sorry. xx

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By *tephenb001 OP   Man
over a year ago

stapleton

[Removed by poster at 17/02/12 01:39:58]

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By *tephenb001 OP   Man
over a year ago

stapleton


"Maybe I hoped I could find out the problem and fix it.

Lol

Say I'm really 6'5,

the picture was before I drank loads of slim shakes.

And willy 7" from the floor.

.... and not curvy, curvy is never a good word for

describing a male in my eyes. Sorry. xx"
l

Thanks hun.

The curvy has now been deleted.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Tell the truth and be yourself, if people dont want you for who you are then it aint worth it. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell the truth and be yourself, if people dont want you for who you are then it aint worth it. xx"

Eggsacally.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Tell the truth and be yourself, if people dont want you for who you are then it aint worth it. xx

Eggsacally. "

see im sensible (sometimes)

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Seems polite and acceptable to me. Don't see the problem unless you just didnt expect people on a swinging site to be fussy. Maybe study profiles a little more to find people who are more likely to match with yours. Send nice friendly messages with a face pic and see what happens. Treat it as fun without expectations.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

so people complain when they dont get a reply and now complain when they do. Do you think everyone you message should want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so people complain when they dont get a reply and now complain when they do. "

.

Hence I block rather than reply if I have no intention of knowing, let alone playing with that person.

Brutal, yes, however, it works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite reply is better than no reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complaining that you have received a "no thanks" is not good though.

As others have said accept it and move on.

Everybody has preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile heading asking are there any normal people out there will put a lot off as well

Negativity on a profile is a big no no

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"The profile heading asking are there any normal people out there will put a lot off as well

Negativity on a profile is a big no no"

Ya just peeved cos that excluded you

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Is it me or does anyone get this message

far too often." your just not our type"

What the fuck?

Ok is it I'm too fat.

Too short.

Ugly.

Only have a 7"er.

Maybe all of the above.

"

Most of us have received the 'thanks but your not our type' emails.

Shrug if off and move on....there is someone for everyone on this site.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The profile heading asking are there any normal people out there will put a lot off as well

Negativity on a profile is a big no no

Ya just peeved cos that excluded you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Yes Yes opppps sorry had a When Harry met Sally moment then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always tell myself its cuz my cock is simply too big for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to be thick skinned and take it on the chin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile heading asking are there any normal people out there will put a lot off as well

Negativity on a profile is a big no no"

And a big turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think focussing on the why's and wherefores is not a good thing as there's so many more people out there that you might be the right person for.

Admittedly sometimes it's like the last straw to get such a thing from people, and you've really got to develop a slightly thicker skin. It's just the same out there in the real world y'know... it's only that there's the possibility of sex involved that makes it more poignant and ego bruising!

Just block as a bad job and move on, plenty more out there!

oh and like the rest said... daubing negatives all over your profile... it's not good. No advertising agency sells a product through negative selling

Wolf

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

If someone takes trouble over a message to us, we reply, even if it's a no thatks (politely). Common manners and we have had rejections. No hard feelings, move on, different tastes, happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope, i can honestly say i have never had a message from anyone on here saying im not there type

But then i dont mail people first so everyone who i mail have contacted me first so i assum i am their type or they wouldnt mail me lol

oh no saying that ive had a few tell me im a ugly bitch anyway when i have turned them down if that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you write to other people you should expect to receive some negetive responses as no one appeals to everyone.

We've been turned down plenty of times, but we never ask for their reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant see the point in asking why, knowing why they dont want to meet you isnt going to change their minds

I hate it when i say no thanks to people and i get a message back asking why, just seems so desparate, just accept they dont want to meet you and move into someone else instead of wasting your time keep mailing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i cant see the point in asking why, knowing why they dont want to meet you isnt going to change their minds

I hate it when i say no thanks to people and i get a message back asking why, just seems so desparate, just accept they dont want to meet you and move into someone else instead of wasting your time keep mailing them "

I agree with this one, plus if they were to tell you there reason it might just end up with you getting a complex about it and most people wouldn't want to do that or knock your confidence, but.. at least you are getting replies, so thats a good thing in my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone takes trouble over a message to us, we reply, even if it's a no thatks (politely). Common manners and we have had rejections. No hard feelings, move on, different tastes, happy swinging!"

We got threatened with legal action for basically saying "no thanks" this morning

(and no, we aren't kidding!).

....back to blocking and deleting messages from people that don't interest us we think

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just because they don't want to.

end of....

the second people start to justify, slippy slope downwards.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe I hoped I could find out the problem and fix it.

Lol

Say I'm really 6'5,

the picture was before I drank loads of slim shakes.

And willy 7" from the floor.

"

It'll take a lot of money to put that face right

Only joking

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By *tephenb001 OP   Man
over a year ago

stapleton

Thanks everyone.

I will take it all on board.

Must have been on a downer when i

started this post.

Knob.

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