FabSwingers.com forum: "Meet now"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does this ever work?

See it all the time so I assume it's a numbers game but really?

Meet now, fuck now, free now,

Only asking because I'd be jealous if it does.... but I don't see it myself..

What do you all think??

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

It doesn’t work with me. Neither does ‘within half a mile’. Or ‘local free now’. I very much doubt it ever works with women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It did work for me once yet it wasn't Karen who turned up but John instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It did work for me once yet it wasn't Karen who turned up but John instead. "
6 finger Joe? I heard stories about him

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It reads as desperate/ inconsiderate to me. (although much more inconsiderate is message rather than status)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It did work for me once yet it wasn't Karen who turned up but John instead. 6 finger Joe? I heard stories about him"

The question is who did you hear it from ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It reads as desperate/ inconsiderate to me. (although much more inconsiderate is message rather than status) "

I have to agree there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It reads as desperate/ inconsiderate to me. (although much more inconsiderate is message rather than status) "

Yes definitely agree.

I tend to make private notes to remind me they will meet anything anywhere so I know to stay away

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It reads as desperate/ inconsiderate to me. (although much more inconsiderate is message rather than status)

I have to agree there."

I really love (block) those who say "I know you don't meet immediately but..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has worked for us,not always,but it has worked.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Usually I'll put up an ad in advance, but sometimes an unexpected window opens up, or maybe I'm open to a meet but have other things on and if it works mutually we could work something out - in this case I'd click "meet today".

That said, I don't think it's ever led to a meet on the day

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Who cares if people want to just meet now? I've actually gone to meet random guys on a whim (when I'm quite particular) and had an absolutely amazing time and would see them again!!! Someone I met recently on a random meet I've been seeing for almost 2 months. So I wouldn't judge.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"It reads as desperate/ inconsiderate to me. (although much more inconsiderate is message rather than status)

I have to agree there.

I really love (block) those who say "I know you don't meet immediately but..." "

Me too on my single profile

Miss

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

Really depends. In most cases I have seen it looks like it is one of those opportunistic moments. Unexpectedly free? Planned meet falls through? See it as a good thing tbh. But if it doesn't float your boat just ignore and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alway's works for me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Really depends. In most cases I have seen it looks like it is one of those opportunistic moments. Unexpectedly free? Planned meet falls through? See it as a good thing tbh. But if it doesn't float your boat just ignore and move on

Oh I usually do. The ones who can meet now, anytime, anywhere, no questions, every day, I come to remember in a bad way. Those who expect me to meet now usually end up on my block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alway's works for me

It is due to your magic holes babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alway's works for me

It is due to your magic holes babe "

No it's because they want to get to know my personality, and take me off into the sunset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alway's works for me

It is due to your magic holes babe

No it's because they want to get to know my personality, and take me off into the sunset

#obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alway's works for me

It is due to your magic holes babe

No it's because they want to get to know my personality, and take me off into the sunset

#obviously "

They're not half bad tbh

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

govan

"Alway's works for me

I can imagine it does! I'd be there in a flash! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't work. The minimum chat time for Swingers is 4 months. Then a coffee. Then another coffee. Then meet the parents. Then fuck.

Anything less than that is diabolical.

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Doesn't work for us as we have a child. We do get it an awful lot though. People who havnt even messaged us before normally xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it doesn't work. The minimum chat time for Swingers is 4 months. Then a coffee. Then another coffee. Then meet the parents. Then fuck.

Anything less than that is diabolical. "

You forgot about the exchanging of previous partners.it's never a done deal until they know where we've been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure if any woman put that up as a status or sent out messages she'd get lots of response back... not the same for a guy I suspect

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm sure if any woman put that up as a status or sent out messages she'd get lots of response back... not the same for a guy I suspect

Yeah. I've had evenings where I've been up for it. I don't bloody dare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alway's works for me

I can imagine it does! I'd be there in a flash! X"

Never actually done it tbh lol.but i know a lot of decent,lovely people(men and women) that do it because it works for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had 4 " meet me now " offers in the past hour . We rarely open filters to guys as we can't be doing with constant messages like this . They usually get a firm but polite " sorry this isn't instafuck" reply lol . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought though , we have put a meet/ status up if we are free and together which is usually in the day whilst out in town shopping etc ... but always make it clear it will be social only . We are happy to just have a coffee and a chat to verify someone if we are free on a meet now basis .xx

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it doesn't work. The minimum chat time for Swingers is 4 months. Then a coffee. Then another coffee. Then meet the parents. Then fuck.

Anything less than that is diabolical.

You forgot about the exchanging of previous partners.it's never a done deal until they know where we've been"

Good point, the verification spreadsheet is important.

=if(last 10 partners* 2 degrees of separation, "no way")

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works every time with the platinum membership. Only reason why I upgraded to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby once met a young lady off tinder at short notice and had a great time.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"I'm sure if any woman put that up as a status or sent out messages she'd get lots of response back... not the same for a guy I suspect

Yeah. I've had evenings where I've been up for it. I don't bloody dare

We've put up a "meet tonight" post when someone once let us down at short notice. We got 100+ responses.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

"It reads as desperate/ inconsiderate to me. (although much more inconsiderate is message rather than status)

Yes definitely agree.

I tend to make private notes to remind me they will meet anything anywhere so I know to stay away"

How about when you've a meet set up for a week ect. Then they cancel within the hour of the meet. We-re all not and horney and ready to play. Bathed, dressed, childcare sorted. So why waste all thst effort? You could meet a real dimond that might of been missed. We have put up meet now requests. They don't always get answered, or those who answer may not be what we'd look for.

Theres always another side to the story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alway's works for me

No shit.

OP - This is just another one of those "it's ok when we do it" behaviours.

Personally I couldn't care less whether people do it or not, I don't see the harm. The double standards here are hilarious though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alway's works for me

No shit.

OP - This is just another one of those "it's ok when we do it" behaviours.

Personally I couldn't care less whether people do it or not, I don't see the harm. The double standards here are hilarious though"

Actually if you read further down,i explained that ive actually never done it,and in fact have friends from this site that do it and it doesnt make them desperate or inconsiderate.i'm not in the double standards club,i do what i want with or without peoples approval and appreciate that other people can aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alway's works for me

No shit.

OP - This is just another one of those "it's ok when we do it" behaviours.

Personally I couldn't care less whether people do it or not, I don't see the harm. The double standards here are hilarious though

In fairness Emma I wasn't actually saying you were the one with double standards, that's why I started the second paragraph with OP. If that wasn't clear then that's on me, apologies.

Your inclusion was merely so I could make a sarcastic quip that of course it works (or would work as you say you haven't done it... Slightly confusing) for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alway's works for me

No shit.

OP - This is just another one of those "it's ok when we do it" behaviours.

Personally I couldn't care less whether people do it or not, I don't see the harm. The double standards here are hilarious though

In fairness Emma I wasn't actually saying you were the one with double standards, that's why I started the second paragraph with OP. If that wasn't clear then that's on me, apologies.

Your inclusion was merely so I could make a sarcastic quip that of course it works (or would work as you say you haven't done it... Slightly confusing) for you. "

Ah no worries,and good use of my comment,now that you have explained it.

But it does work for plenty of people,men and women and i say fairplay to them

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By *estmidsfun77Man
over a year ago

Solihull/Coventry

"It did work for me once yet it wasn't Karen who turned up but John instead. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it doesn't work. The minimum chat time for Swingers is 4 months. Then a coffee. Then another coffee. Then meet the parents. Then fuck.

Anything less than that is diabolical.

You forgot about the exchanging of previous partners.it's never a done deal until they know where we've been"
3 years here, so no slagging us off folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in the day, Meet Today had it's uses. Particularly on a Saturday night when it made looking to see who was online seeking a meet as opposed to just perving much easier.

However, seems less so nowadays particulary as some people seem to display it 24hrs a day. Lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t do it. I wouldn’t do it and if the person I wanted to meet dropped out there is no way of me going to plan B. I don’t have a plan B. I have an arrangement with one person that I have taken the time to get to know. But that’s just the way I do it and I have no comment to make on how others do it because it’s their business and not mine

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