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I want to be a master

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how Many men like to be in total sexual control over there girl?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends how you define "Master" - there are those that see it as a D/s or BDSM thing, or simply those that like to be assertive or dominant in the bedroom, without it necessarily being tied into BDSM in any way.

Either way there are those that like to be that way, the key though is whether it's what their partner is looking for and enjoys and most importantly wants, agrees to and understands.

Being overly dominant, or playing in the BDSM sphere without all involved understanding it fully, is a very dangerous game that can be abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many ladies enjoy this? A person who is naturally dominant is different to what your are describing I feel? So no I wouldn't enjoy it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many ladies enjoy this? A person who is naturally dominant is different to what your are describing I feel? So no I wouldn't enjoy it at all "

You're* whoops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a dominant guy and really want the opportunity to submit fully but I my OH isn't really like it and I am a stubborn arse too so it would have to be earnt xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most self appointed masters are in fact the worst sort of Doms - inexperienced, potentially dangerous and as reflected my their chosen title arrogant enough to think that they have ntjing to learn

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I find most self appointed masters are in fact the worst sort of Doms - inexperienced, potentially dangerous and as reflected my their chosen title arrogant enough to think that they have ntjing to learn"

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I can be sub, but ultimately i'm always in control

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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago

Batley... (near Leeds)

A Dom is only a Dom because his sub allows him to be in full control of her and a good Dom never breaks that level of trust.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I find most self appointed masters are in fact the worst sort of Doms - inexperienced, potentially dangerous and as reflected my their chosen title arrogant enough to think that they have ntjing to learn"

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Ah....thought you meant Jedi....my bad!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I love a dominant guy and really want the opportunity to submit fully but I my OH isn't really like it and I am a stubborn arse too so it would have to be earnt xx

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Ha ha, stubborn and earned go together so well.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I find most self appointed masters are in fact the worst sort of Doms - inexperienced, potentially dangerous and as reflected my their chosen title arrogant enough to think that they have ntjing to learn"

Interested in examples of your experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find most self appointed masters are in fact the worst sort of Doms - inexperienced, potentially dangerous and as reflected my their chosen title arrogant enough to think that they have ntjing to learn

Interested in examples of your experience."

Sorry but I have zero intest in engaging with you on any level including forum posts

I know the mods take the view that people who don't get on should ignore each other and after your last comments on a thread we both posted on I hope you will respect that

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I find most self appointed masters are in fact the worst sort of Doms - inexperienced, potentially dangerous and as reflected my their chosen title arrogant enough to think that they have ntjing to learn

Interested in examples of your experience.

Sorry but I have zero intest in engaging with you on any level including forum posts

I know the mods take the view that people who don't get on should ignore each other and after your last comments on a thread we both posted on I hope you will respect that "

Only just realised it was you, just looked at the subject, not the person behind it.

I apologise if there is some projection.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A Dom is only a Dom because his sub allows him to be in full control of her and a good Dom never breaks that level of trust."

This

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"A Dom is only a Dom because his sub allows him to be in full control of her and a good Dom never breaks that level of trust.

This "

To me, and this is just me, the sub being in control is a load of bollocks.

It is an amazing dance of gained experience and trust.

I have never met a sub who (usually through highly positioned jobs) who wanted to control there sexuality.

The lines are set early on, the fine boundaries are set to be tested

As long as there is a safe position/word in place let the submissive move into her fantasy.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"A Dom is only a Dom because his sub allows him to be in full control of her and a good Dom never breaks that level of trust.

This

To me, and this is just me, the sub being in control is a load of bollocks.

It is an amazing dance of gained experience and trust.

I have never met a sub who (usually through highly positioned jobs) who wanted to control there sexuality.

The lines are set early on, the fine boundaries are set to be tested

As long as there is a safe position/word in place let the submissive move into her fantasy."

Their sexuality

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By *he InquisitorMan
over a year ago

rotherham

I have been a Master 29 years in BDSM lifestyle .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun post been a sub for years I wouldn't submit to anyone you have to have that bond and trust and want to serve that person

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By *erts_darlings1Couple
over a year ago

watford

Don't think a master or mistress can be made, you either are or you aren't.

We find it very organic, it grows naturally and is based on trust, confidence and mood.

You can probably buy a self help book but if you need a book, you're probably not a natural master.

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells


"A Dom is only a Dom because his sub allows him to be in full control of her and a good Dom never breaks that level of trust."

I agree completely, this is a major part of what makes a good Dom.

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