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what do you do if you think you know someone on here from 'the real world'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

evening all

I think there is someone on here who I work with, its a couple and I think I work with the Mrs from the couple.

Can't be 100%sure that its her.

They are looking for single bi males in my age range, do I send them a message? gently drop hints at work? or just move on pretent i havent seen them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar experience and decided to block them as I don't mix work with pleasure. It could get messy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im on a temp contract, end of march im out of there. they are deffo the type of couple i want to me tho. Say something now of wait till my leaving do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say something after u leaving do message them then as if they are very private might make them insecure of u and wary u not gonna tell others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i personally wouldnt mail someone i work with, but thats just me, its upto you what you do your doing nothing wrong, may make working a wierd experience after tho if they feel funny about someone they know from working seeing them but then they may not care, if you do play and things go wrong could make work difficult too

Theres to many ifs on gthis subject tho for me to contact them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im on a temp contract, end of march im out of there. they are deffo the type of couple i want to me tho. Say something now of wait till my leaving do...."

Leave it till you have left. Its highly unlikely she would want to meet someone she works with but once you have left the odds would be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a guy I worked with and his wife years ago and several times since.

Since then we've become great friends and although he split from his wife some years back (not due to swinging I hasten to add) we're still great friends.

He's now had a new partner for a few years and, although they don't swing, she knows about his former swinging life and has also become a good friend.

He has mentioned her desire for sex with another woman, so who knows where that will lead.

So like the old saying goes "If you don't ask you won't get!".

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all on here for the same reason,so personally i wouldnt worry at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the 'wait until you have left work' comment...there are a few on here that i do know from 'the real world' . Also a few have messaged me etc but because i dont have a public pic up they dont know its 'me' ...so i tend to keep my distants etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all on here for the same reason,so personally i wouldnt worry at all. "

You have hit the nail on the head here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it was me id send a message saying i think i know them . then its up to them to do what they comfortable with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd join the chorus of people saying leave it till you have left.....

I have known a couple of girls who have been spoken to on here that they have known in 'the real world' and they have woried that they have been being blackmailed. I wouldn't for a moment suggest that's what you want to do but there is a risk that your approach could be interpreted as such.

Good luck though

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


" .... gently drop hints at work? "

yeah go for that one and see if you can freak her out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me ( Charlotte) had a shock as two of my ex boyfriends was on here. Blocked them both. Theres also another bloke I know from

Worcester on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well its all about how discreet you are and whether you have no thought about how it would be perceived from the couples point of view.

I personally wouldn't say I knew anyone from real life even if I sat next to them at work.

If you really feel you can't possibly wait until after you've left, then message in the normal way you would a stranger and send a face pic. If they contact you all well and good, if they don't then leave it and don't message again and if they block you, well that's just tough then isn't it.

But don't mention it at work. Its not fair to discuss someones private life at work

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