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"A few questions for women in our lovely fab forum. I'm curious to know what position women feel is the best for masturbating and what position is the best to orgasm when masturbating when you are on your own or in front of someone/others? To add to the above, if someone else was masturbating you, how would you like it being done to you? Last question, do you look for guys (not your husband or boyfriends) to masturbate you or is it a personal experience for you alone or with your partner? Ok so either missionary or when I am riding cowgirl are my favourites for masturbating while fucking. Solo masturbation is best for me personally while comfortable on my back. If someone else does, it's usually me lying down, they can be stood up fucking me or lay down next to me playing. Make sure fingers are lubricated feels good. I love giving oral while being played with. There has to be clitoral stimulation for me to orgasm. Penetration or oral alone has very rarely made me orgasm. So I don't care who does it me or them just play with me or let me play. Best experiences I have ever had have been with women because they never neglect the clit and masturbation is obviously essential part of it. Most men I have been with have concentrated solely on penetration with a small bit of masturbation. Penetration is amazing, but can we play while penetrating the clitoris has something like 8000 nerve endings so will make orgasms so intense. " This love giving oral, so much more pleasure and satisfaction than just penetration, the body is a beautiful thing with so many ways to stimulate. | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined." You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? | |||
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"A few questions for women in our lovely fab forum. I'm curious to know what position women feel is the best for masturbating and what position is the best to orgasm when masturbating when you are on your own or in front of someone/others? To add to the above, if someone else was masturbating you, how would you like it being done to you? Last question, do you look for guys (not your husband or boyfriends) to masturbate you or is it a personal experience for you alone or with your partner? " For me in depends on time. I can quick and fast if I lay in my belly with my wand. If I have more time on my back lots of lube with fingers and/or a dildo/vibrator Straddling my wand on my knees kinda rubbing against it is always good. Might give on all fours a try that’s a good suggestion If someone is doing it to me again on my back loads of lube. I like to masterbate in front of my man but it takes so long to cum I rarely do. Well unless porn is involved then it’s way quicker | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? " I'm not sure, it's kind of depressing as I really love it | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? " If the chaps could gain pleasure from fingering in the same way we do, then they'd be good at doing it... | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? If the chaps could gain pleasure from fingering in the same way we do, then they'd be good at doing it... " I love doing it | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? I'm not sure, it's kind of depressing as I really love it " I'm quite fortunate in that I've perfected my fingering over the years, as I'm bloody useless with my cock. | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? If the chaps could gain pleasure from fingering in the same way we do, then they'd be good at doing it... I love doing it " Are you giving me the finger?! | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? If the chaps could gain pleasure from fingering in the same way we do, then they'd be good at doing it... I love doing it Are you giving me the finger?! " I would! Two if you're wet enough | |||
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"A few questions for women in our lovely fab forum. I'm curious to know what position women feel is the best for masturbating and what position is the best to orgasm when masturbating when you are on your own or in front of someone/others? To add to the above, if someone else was masturbating you, how would you like it being done to you? Last question, do you look for guys (not your husband or boyfriends) to masturbate you or is it a personal experience for you alone or with your partner? Ok so either missionary or when I am riding cowgirl are my favourites for masturbating while fucking. Solo masturbation is best for me personally while comfortable on my back. If someone else does, it's usually me lying down, they can be stood up fucking me or lay down next to me playing. Make sure fingers are lubricated feels good. I love giving oral while being played with. There has to be clitoral stimulation for me to orgasm. Penetration or oral alone has very rarely made me orgasm. So I don't care who does it me or them just play with me or let me play. Best experiences I have ever had have been with women because they never neglect the clit and masturbation is obviously essential part of it. Most men I have been with have concentrated solely on penetration with a small bit of masturbation. Penetration is amazing, but can we play while penetrating the clitoris has something like 8000 nerve endings so will make orgasms so intense. " What a great reply, I have learnt a lot from your reply which I'm most grateful so thanks for that. So from now on, I'm going to concentrate more on clitoral stimulation and not just penetration. Good point about women as they sure know what they are doing, they have an advantage on us blokes but we can learn from you | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? If the chaps could gain pleasure from fingering in the same way we do, then they'd be good at doing it... " That's it, I shall be fingering lots from now on as your point is taken, it will not be a lost art, feic brexit and carry on fingering lads | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? If the chaps could gain pleasure from fingering in the same way we do, then they'd be good at doing it... " That's it, I shall be fingering lots from now on as your point is taken, it will not be a lost art, feic brexit and carry on fingering lads | |||
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"I'm another who loves being fingered - I have found that I tend to enjoy it a lot more from women. I enjoy it from my partner but it's rare from another man. Not quite sure why that is - maybe the finger bashing and the lack of clitoral focus/stimulation. For me, my favourite position with another would be them wanking over my face as I finger myself lying down. I quite like sitting opposite someone and doing it as well. If I'm on my own I like lying down. Gosh I'm boring. " Finger bashing and lack of focus, good points, must be a nightmare, shame on us but we are learning here. Your favourite position when masturbating is out of this world, my god, you have sparked my weekend off you very sexy person, you are certainly not boring | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? If the chaps could gain pleasure from fingering in the same way we do, then they'd be good at doing it... " Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? If the chaps could gain pleasure from fingering in the same way we do, then they'd be good at doing it... Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! " | |||
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"Alone I like to be on my back or sitting up against my wand. If I'm particularly rampant then I have been known to ride a toy. It's rare though. With a partner I love playing with my clit while he's inside me. Either on top or in missionary. One of the things that completely sends me over the edge is feeling his cock in my mouth and his fingers inside me while I play. Fingering is definitely an art form and when you find an artist it's incredible " Wow, that has inspired me to become an artist, cock in your mouth, fingers inside you while you play, that's got to be two artists at work | |||
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"When using a vibrator, I have to be on my back to stretch my legs and give off that all important sex face " Brilliant, you should upload a pic | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined." With you on the fingering becoming a lost art. I'm far more aroused by that being done by someone else than sticking their tonge down me. Hint hint guys... | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. With you on the fingering becoming a lost art. I'm far more aroused by that being done by someone else than sticking their tonge down me. Hint hint guys... " Hint taken | |||
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"I tend to lay on my back legs spread ... Or stood up in the shower. I'm kinda shy masturbating in front of people but in the past I have been asked to be playing when they have walked in.. And so of course I did... Having someone watching me makes it harder for me to cum...but with the right person it can be very sexy.. Especially if they are slowly fingering you at the same time... Or even better sat on him, cock deep inside you but still and then get fucked as you cum... " Damn that sounds amazing | |||
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".... fingering seems to be becoming a lost art ." You’re not the first woman I’ve heard say that.... it is a skill I am assured I possess and one I like to demonstrate... I love hours of good, honest foreplay, using my fingers, palms, tongue and lips.... | |||
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" Laying or sitting but with room to stretch my legs out is essential so I can cum. One finger is all I have ever needed. I'm still shy about doing it in front of other people. If someone else is doing it they need to be skillful and pay attention to how I am responding to their touch and pace. A new fab friend I fancy will get a chance to show me if they have the above. If they are clumsy we won't meet again. I have only had one lady touch me there. She made me cum, but I can't say it was any different to a guy. " Wow, lucky fab friend who gets the opportunity! | |||
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"Front seat of our car, preferably with a stranger or two watching and wanking, better still if hubby is outside pretnding he doesnt know me. " Do you allow them to cum on you while you are masturbating? | |||
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"Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! " Wow, I didn't realize so many ladies would agree with me on fingering! I kind of agree with you, I do like oral but it's so much better with fingers too and I wish men would concentrate on it as much as their oral skills. At least we've enlightened a few on this thread | |||
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"Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! Wow, I didn't realize so many ladies would agree with me on fingering! I kind of agree with you, I do like oral but it's so much better with fingers too and I wish men would concentrate on it as much as their oral skills. At least we've enlightened a few on this thread " Absolutely, it's good to know so thanks for that. | |||
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"Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! Wow, I didn't realize so many ladies would agree with me on fingering! I kind of agree with you, I do like oral but it's so much better with fingers too and I wish men would concentrate on it as much as their oral skills. At least we've enlightened a few on this thread " nice tip | |||
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"Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! Wow, I didn't realize so many ladies would agree with me on fingering! I kind of agree with you, I do like oral but it's so much better with fingers too and I wish men would concentrate on it as much as their oral skills. At least we've enlightened a few on this thread " Hopefully | |||
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"I don't look for guys to masturbate me, or get my husband to, there's other things I'd rather they do I can orgasm from penetration though, not all ladies can. I'd rather they fingered me whilst I play with my clit if anything, fingering seems to be becoming a lost art . Best position for me is probably all fours, or reclined. You are so right what is it with blokes that can’t finger? If the chaps could gain pleasure from fingering in the same way we do, then they'd be good at doing it... Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! " thanks for sharing, great to understand how horny fingering can be for you sexy women, defo part of my foreplay from now on | |||
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"Front seat of our car, preferably with a stranger or two watching and wanking, better still if hubby is outside pretnding he doesnt know me. Do you allow them to cum on you while you are masturbating? " No, I'm inside our car, how could I trust them to only hit me. | |||
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"Alone I like to be on my back or sitting up against my wand. If I'm particularly rampant then I have been known to ride a toy. It's rare though. With a partner I love playing with my clit while he's inside me. Either on top or in missionary. One of the things that completely sends me over the edge is feeling his cock in my mouth and his fingers inside me while I play. Fingering is definitely an art form and when you find an artist it's incredible " my ex came harder with my cock in her mouth as she played harder and her concentration was lost and a better blow job to | |||
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"Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! Wow, I didn't realize so many ladies would agree with me on fingering! I kind of agree with you, I do like oral but it's so much better with fingers too and I wish men would concentrate on it as much as their oral skills. At least we've enlightened a few on this thread " For me hubs is the opposite he focuses more on the fingering than the oral Mrscxxx | |||
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"i cant believe how many men are surprised to find women like to be fingered.as someone of senior years it was almost an apprenticeship in your teens you had to do two years of fingering to move up to a blow job" Lol, how true is this???!!! | |||
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"Front seat of our car, preferably with a stranger or two watching and wanking, better still if hubby is outside pretnding he doesnt know me. Do you allow them to cum on you while you are masturbating? No, I'm inside our car, how could I trust them to only hit me. " very good | |||
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"Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! Wow, I didn't realize so many ladies would agree with me on fingering! I kind of agree with you, I do like oral but it's so much better with fingers too and I wish men would concentrate on it as much as their oral skills. At least we've enlightened a few on this thread For me hubs is the opposite he focuses more on the fingering than the oral Mrscxxx " Hooray for hubs! He sounds great | |||
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"Yes - if only men went on about fingering in the same way they do about performing oral, which does nothing for me and I find uncomfortable and boring. Fingering on the other hand... (pardon the pun)! Wow, I didn't realize so many ladies would agree with me on fingering! I kind of agree with you, I do like oral but it's so much better with fingers too and I wish men would concentrate on it as much as their oral skills. At least we've enlightened a few on this thread For me hubs is the opposite he focuses more on the fingering than the oral Mrscxxx " Fingering is soooo back in fashion so to say | |||
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