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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So for couples,girls or guys,how many sex partners have u had till now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for couples,girls or guys,how many sex partners have u had till now?"

I can't count on my fingers and toes, beyond that I'm not counting...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know

Counting it gets tired sometimes ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know

Counting it gets tired sometimes ??"

Tiresome...then yes maybe. I did a short stint, with an Australian university, so had a lot of homework for research, it substantially raised my numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't possibly say!

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

North East

I remember trying to write all mine down when it was about 100. Notepad then found by ex at the time...... Fireworks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least 400 but was a holiday rep for 7years doing 18 to 30 so banged most nights hahahaha nothing to be proud mind still do repping so will increase this summer hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what it says about me but I can still count mine with my fingers just

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So u very picky than ??

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By *asilForty77Man
over a year ago

a hundred and sixty of us living in a small shoebox in the middle of the road

JAILER'S ASSISTANT: Uh, y-- y-- y-- y-- y-- you'll have to s-- speak-- s-- s-- s-- sp-- spe-- speak-- speak-- s-- spe-- s-- s-- p-- p-- peak-- speak up a bit, sir. He's-- he's d-- he's d-- he's d-- he's d--

NISUS: Ah.

JAILER'S ASSISTANT: Oh, he's-- he's-- [whap] He's deaf as-- dea-- deaf as a p-- p-- post, sir.

NISUS: Uhh, how many have come through?!

JAILER: Hhhee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So u very picky than ??"

Wouldn't say picky but didn't have much experience before I got married was with him for 15yrs couple years of meeting now settled again and not meeting

I would say I was more careful than picky

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Honestly I don't know... I could sit down and do a count, but I might forget one or two from my early 20s in the tally purely because they were one-night stands and not terribly memorable. At a rough guess... Somewhere between 40 and 50. I've had just 2 in the past year if that gives you any indication?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's on my profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

No idea. Probably in the teens or twenties for me and much higher for Mr N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 guys 5 girls

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) *think* I'm somewhere around the 20 mark but I don't think it would be possible to be sure any more. It was a much easier task when it was at zero.

I will allow my lovely girlfriend Hannah to speak for herself on this issue should she want to.

The highest I have known personally was a young lady at Eureka who thought she was at about 400 and the most she had in one go was about 40. Both our numbers went up by one not long after we met.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

A lot.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

4 Female, Men, lost count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 40 or so.. my past is fruitful. i don't do one night stands anymore.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

More than Cliff. Less than Mick.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I'm quite surprised at how low some of these are..

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

More than some, fewer than others.

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By *entcockslutCouple
over a year ago

canterbury

Hundreds I just love cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive no idea

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We both stopped counting very many years ago, so no idea. Lots anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good,its not about the number but how good u feelt,was just a question to see who is the most naughties ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to count.. then i discovered fab and it all went downhill from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can count on one hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 20, I don't have much free time or a high sex drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly how many, and can do an Andie MacDowell-type run through them all, as she did in Four Weddings and a Funeral, but I'm not putting the number down here as it shocks me!

Fab's entirely to blame...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wrote a list a little while ago.. but I can't find it

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

never knew we had to keep score...at a guess...loads! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comment. Yes, that many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So for couples,girls or guys,how many sex partners have u had till now?"

Just full sex or fingering count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In single figures still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can count on one hand."

5000

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Only 6 I'm a good boy I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her - 5 men and 8 girls

Me - 9 girls (3 of those with her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 to date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh God I'd like to say 80....

Um yes I'll just stick with 80 thank you Haha xxmiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to count.. then i discovered fab and it all went downhill from there"

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs,,why do you need to know

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Harlow

Never enough!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Oh God I'd like to say 80....

Um yes I'll just stick with 80 thank you Haha xxmiss "

That must have been quite a night

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I know I'm well into 4 figures but as to an exact number not a clue. Women it's a lot less

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I know I'm well into 4 figures but as to an exact number not a clue. Women it's a lot less "

14.25?

Just wondering what the 0.25 was

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"So for couples,girls or guys,how many sex partners have u had till now?"

That's our business.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I know I'm well into 4 figures but as to an exact number not a clue. Women it's a lot less

14.25?

Just wondering what the 0.25 was "

A dwarf?

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

God knows the both of us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Full sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ffs,,why do you need to know"
cause i want to write a book with facts ??????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So for couples,girls or guys,how many sex partners have u had till now?

That's our business. "

hope it goes well your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than Cliff. Less than Mick."

Great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

32

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me close on 100

Wife over 40 men 12 women

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

At least 60 plus for each

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Hardly any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea!

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Between 50 - 100

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quite surprised at how low some of these are.. "

I thought the same!

I thought my rough numbers were about standard for swingers...seems not

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Good,its not about the number but how good u feelt,was just a question to see who is the most naughties ??"

Or are you really Sydney University?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At least 60 plus for each"
lucky those 60 plus ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From Fab or generally?

From Fab we have shared 3 single females and 2 couples. So 5 each.

Outside of that, about 60 for the male and 17 for the female (plus fab)

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Maybe 4 or 5.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was another post about this yesterday and I said I had no clue as gave up counting in my 20s.

I did try and figure it out last night though, just out of curiosity

2019 - 3

2018 - 4

2017 - more than 20 but cant remember exactly

Before 2017 guesstimate of 70, pretty much 90% of that was ages 18 to 21.

It would appear being on FAB means I have less sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A reasonable amount in my twenties ...

Much more now in my forties

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

Mid twenties for both of us

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

What a strange question for a swingers site??..

Surely most people, like myself, wont have a clue..

I recall filling out a health questionnaire and it asked how many sexual partners have you had..I answered as honest as i could..The form was returned saying this is an abnormal amount,please check and return!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can still count on fingers for me, 7! Considering 1 was a long term relationship...not too bad? I guess it's all relevant to the person! Need to feel a safety and connection with someone before I go into anything...

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"What a strange question for a swingers site??..

Surely most people, like myself, wont have a clue..

I recall filling out a health questionnaire and it asked how many sexual partners have you had..I answered as honest as i could..The form was returned saying this is an abnormal amount,please check and return!!"

on the sexual health it is normally how many since your last test.. I always try to give an estimate and sometimes the nurses raise an eyebrow or 2.

Although last time I went one of the ladies asked if I'd been on holiday as it was low for me lol x

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

Only one.

This week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a strange question for a swingers site??..

Surely most people, like myself, wont have a clue..

I recall filling out a health questionnaire and it asked how many sexual partners have you had..I answered as honest as i could..The form was returned saying this is an abnormal amount,please check and return!! on the sexual health it is normally how many since your last test.. I always try to give an estimate and sometimes the nurses raise an eyebrow or 2.

Although last time I went one of the ladies asked if I'd been on holiday as it was low for me lol x"

Lolololol

That's made me chuckle

My numbers... A lot of ether sex

Have no idea, if I had to guess I'd say perhaps 50-100 possibly more. Most of those in my begining of swinging. Now days I'm rather picky and I don't go to clubs as often as I used too... so the number this year is probably a handful of guys and a couple of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many. Can count the number of men on one hand and the number of women on the other

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Wife had only ever slept with one man and that was me. and since being in here we've been able to have fun with 2 ladies so hers is a mere 3 but we have been together for 23 years mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was chatting with a fabber last night about this. We compared. For me 5-6 hands full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shes only been with 5 guys, him 100+ ladies together 6 women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clueless..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100s I am a regular gay sauna visitor for the last 20 years. Twice a month x 480 months x 6 men per visit... .oh shit!!!

Admittedly some off them are the same regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A reasonable amount in my twenties ...

Much more now in my forties"

I was still a virgin at nearly 22.

And by age 31 had still only had the one partner.

42 now and I've ratcheted up my numbers.

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

I couldn't even tell you how many I've had this year!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Too many to keep count but this includes low level interaction with others in clubs sometimes. The number is not important, until you need another person to help satisfy you.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not enough"

I hear you xx

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I don’t keep a count cos I’m not a teenager lol

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

Alot of lady's and maybe half the number with men .I am bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t keep a count cos I’m not a teenager lol "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't counted

Somewhere between ...

By some standards, not that many

By others standards, fkin loads

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Too many to count in my teens & early 20s.

Only 1 til my mid 30s

Then over a decade celibate

A dozen since joining Fabs. Full sex - only 2 this year.

I came to the conclusion that no sex is better than average sex!

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By *kyblue2681Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Had sex I think its 10 but had just oral with couple more also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the 40s I think

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