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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how hard is it to find a genuine female to have fun with be a fuck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how hard is it to find a genuine female to have fun with be a fuck buddy "

Can be tough finding a good one m8 who is on your wave lengh.

Top rip try not looking too hard and she will find you or find each other when the times right

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By *tockingsnsuspenders1960Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in south yorks

Try posting some pics!! That will help!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

problem is most females dont want a fuck buddie off here as we usually get more offers and have more fun being single

I get lots of party offers because im a single fem if i was a couple i wouldnt get anywhere near as much, plus if i go to clubs alone i can do what i like, if i go with a guy i have his needs to consider, being a couple on here just wouldnt benifit me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"problem is most females dont want a fuck buddie off here as we usually get more offers and have more fun being single

I get lots of party offers because im a single fem if i was a couple i wouldnt get anywhere near as much, plus if i go to clubs alone i can do what i like, if i go with a guy i have his needs to consider, being a couple on here just wouldnt benifit me at all"

Its all me me me me me me me me meeeeeeeeee with you aint it haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"problem is most females dont want a fuck buddie off here as we usually get more offers and have more fun being single

I get lots of party offers because im a single fem if i was a couple i wouldnt get anywhere near as much, plus if i go to clubs alone i can do what i like, if i go with a guy i have his needs to consider, being a couple on here just wouldnt benifit me at all

Its all me me me me me me me me meeeeeeeeee with you aint it haha xx"

course it is im a single woman who else do i have to consider?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"problem is most females dont want a fuck buddie off here as we usually get more offers and have more fun being single

I get lots of party offers because im a single fem if i was a couple i wouldnt get anywhere near as much, plus if i go to clubs alone i can do what i like, if i go with a guy i have his needs to consider, being a couple on here just wouldnt benifit me at all"

if i were single i certainly wouldnt be looking for a fuck buddy, i have friends i fuck, but its the friendship that comes first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"problem is most females dont want a fuck buddie off here as we usually get more offers and have more fun being single

I get lots of party offers because im a single fem if i was a couple i wouldnt get anywhere near as much, plus if i go to clubs alone i can do what i like, if i go with a guy i have his needs to consider, being a couple on here just wouldnt benifit me at all

Its all me me me me me me me me meeeeeeeeee with you aint it haha xx

course it is im a single woman who else do i have to consider? "

I always get amazed how many blokes start asking to meet as a couple, even the decent ones. I know it's a fantasy for loads of blokes but perhaps being more subtle about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"problem is most females dont want a fuck buddie off here as we usually get more offers and have more fun being single

I get lots of party offers because im a single fem if i was a couple i wouldnt get anywhere near as much, plus if i go to clubs alone i can do what i like, if i go with a guy i have his needs to consider, being a couple on here just wouldnt benifit me at all"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"problem is most females dont want a fuck buddie off here as we usually get more offers and have more fun being single

I get lots of party offers because im a single fem if i was a couple i wouldnt get anywhere near as much, plus if i go to clubs alone i can do what i like, if i go with a guy i have his needs to consider, being a couple on here just wouldnt benifit me at all

Its all me me me me me me me me meeeeeeeeee with you aint it haha xx

course it is im a single woman who else do i have to consider? "

I was having a laugh hun DOH x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will meet guys i like regular for one on one meets, not offen i meet anyone i like enough to meet regular tho, however i wouldnt team up with a guy to meet others, go to clubs etc with unless i really know them and i know they are not just using me as a way of getting more women, into clubs and such like, ive had it a few times where guys have asked me to go to clubs with them and as soon as we are in they have buggered off and ignored me all night, you only need it to happen a few times before you think sod it im not here to aid other peoples sex life ive got my own to sort out first lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks people for all ur messages but its still frustrating to find that sexy female,and its not just to meet for a fuck bud but to meet as friends as well and have a laugh.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"thanks people for all ur messages but its still frustrating to find that sexy female,and its not just to meet for a fuck bud but to meet as friends as well and have a laugh. "

Thing is...that sounds like dating really...get active, get to know people,go to socials and clubs...all the ways you make friends out there.

If u click with someone who knows what will happen...

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Just my opinion, but when people advertise lookign for a fuck buddy they usually get more than they bargained for.

Now I don't want to sound untrusting, but reality is there are a lot of people on the swingscene (Fabs or any other site) that are really looking for a partner (male, female.. even couples just looking to "trade in" what they've already got).

Its much easier to take each day (and meet) as it comes. The ones you enjoy you go back for more.. and just let thigns happen. Let the thought of "seeking a fuck buddy" be the last concern, it will happen if its meant to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just my opinion, but when people advertise lookign for a fuck buddy they usually get more than they bargained for.

Now I don't want to sound untrusting, but reality is there are a lot of people on the swingscene (Fabs or any other site) that are really looking for a partner (male, female.. even couples just looking to "trade in" what they've already got).

Its much easier to take each day (and meet) as it comes. The ones you enjoy you go back for more.. and just let thigns happen. Let the thought of "seeking a fuck buddy" be the last concern, it will happen if its meant to."

+1

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

sounds like you would be better fo finding yourself a 'girlfriend' and then trying to get her into this lifestyle.

good luck t oya

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By *ust JoanWoman
over a year ago

caerphilly


"Just my opinion, but when people advertise lookign for a fuck buddy they usually get more than they bargained for.

Now I don't want to sound untrusting, but reality is there are a lot of people on the swingscene (Fabs or any other site) that are really looking for a partner (male, female.. even couples just looking to "trade in" what they've already got).

Its much easier to take each day (and meet) as it comes. The ones you enjoy you go back for more.. and just let thigns happen. Let the thought of "seeking a fuck buddy" be the last concern, it will happen if its meant to."

I totally agree with Ahabs on this one, I have known far too many couples off these sites to loose the one they have to someone else off the site, this is my greatest worry with doing anything on here.

I would give it all up today if it was down to me!

As for fuck buddies, there are far too many people on here who think this is a dating site, if you want a fuck buddy why not go to the local pub and get a gf instead? That way you can have sex when you want it and when the sex dries up finish it and start again!

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By *ust JoanWoman
over a year ago

caerphilly

I forgot to add the reason we have managed to keep out of this trap is by meeting together, and not meeting the same people too much as feeling will start to develop no matter how strong the relationship, meeting alone is where the problems start, cracks start to develop and there is no going back from there!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Its much easier to take each day (and meet) as it comes. The ones you enjoy you go back for more.. and just let thigns happen. Let the thought of "seeking a fuck buddy" be the last concern, it will happen if its meant to."

This exactly. I never purposefully look for FBs but they just seem to happen. Most times its only for a few meets then either me or they will move on, but none of them have been looked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just get urself a gf if u want a consistent shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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As for fuck buddies, there are far too many people on here who think this is a dating site, if you want a fuck buddy why not go to the local pub and get a gf instead? That way you can have sex when you want it and when the sex dries up finish it and start again!"

sorry dont agree with this, i have a guy i met off here that i meet up with regular, i'm not after a partner, nor do i see us as dating, all because i am single why should i have to go pick some d*unk up at a pub to shag, why shouldnt i have the same options as couples....to come on sites like this and find decent guys i want to meet? if i found a guy at a pub and met him regular the chances are he would want a relationship by coming on here i have found someone on the same wave lenth as me who wants to meet up regular, still meet others alone and be friends with, and if and when the sex dries up i can end it and move on a lot easier with guys off here than someone i met in a pub not everyone wants to pull down the pub i did that when i was 18 ive moved on now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just get urself a gf if u want a consistent shag "

again why?

i like regular sex but i dont want a partner, why should people who want a good sex life get a partner, i thought this was a swinging site?

some very odd advice on this thread, to me the idea of coming on here is to meet lots of people and have varied sex not to be told to settle down just because i like lots of sex

why dont we all just get a partner, just shag that person and then there would be no need for sites like this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i agree and as i have said in the past its friendship and a fuck buddy ...less hassle than having a partner and each other can have fun and without the stress of being a couple.i just wish to find a good friend and have fun with ....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree and as i have said in the past its friendship and a fuck buddy ...less hassle than having a partner and each other can have fun and without the stress of being a couple.i just wish to find a good friend and have fun with ....x"

well your doing it the wrong way, its like if your dating you wouldnt really be looking to get in the deep end straight away.

you should just concentrate on meeting single women in the first place, if you want to make them your fuck buddy then you gotta take the chance and make them want more, if they want someone regular or even to couple up they will suggest it.

but its certinatly not something that should be brought up until you at least met them a few times first, it will just kinda happen or be asked if you wanna do something regular

the best ways to blow em away in the bedroom, otherwise they probs dont have much other reason to want you back let alone have you as their fuck buddy or form a couple with them!

but good look getting single girls when you dont have no photos up, you dont stand much chance with just a tiny avatar picture! (size matters!)

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