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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we have been getting a lot of ppl wanting to msn or add us even though we say we like to see both partners on cam first in the room. why are ppl that want to swap partners so shy about showing there really a cpl on cam its like we will meet n shag but wont show we are real on cam lol strange!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same as single males, so much cloak and dagger about showing me a few pics or even a telephone call, as a single female as if im going to meet a male without these basic things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer,just reverse them.

The singles are part of a couple and the couples are a single.

XXXX

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Simple answer,just reverse them.

The singles are part of a couple and the couples are a single.

XXXX"

yep - probably true if they're not wanting to cam to prove they're who they say they are! Nothing to do with them being shy - they're easy to out tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh just block the wankers there not worth the time of day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep if they don't want to go on cam forget it.

Wow how many different excuses have we heard? But as you say, you get wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why some people are so dependant on cams... to me most pictures are far clearer than any cam image and it still won't negate the possibility of you not fancying them when you meet them.

I've never owned a cam and never will, and certainly don't feel i'm missing out because of it. Each to their own i guess...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I don't see why some people are so dependant on cams... to me most pictures are far clearer than any cam image and it still won't negate the possibility of you not fancying them when you meet them.

I've never owned a cam and never will, and certainly don't feel i'm missing out because of it. Each to their own i guess..."

Hi, we're certainly not dependent upon cams and in fact rarely use them - however - it's dead easy to post pictures - we cam to ensure that there are 2 bods at the other end more than to se if we'll fancy them! Also a good way of making sure that the pictures are recent and not form 20 years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why some people are so dependant on cams... to me most pictures are far clearer than any cam image and it still won't negate the possibility of you not fancying them when you meet them.

I've never owned a cam and never will, and certainly don't feel i'm missing out because of it. Each to their own i guess...

Hi, we're certainly not dependent upon cams and in fact rarely use them - however - it's dead easy to post pictures - we cam to ensure that there are 2 bods at the other end more than to se if we'll fancy them! Also a good way of making sure that the pictures are recent and not form 20 years ago!"

Fair comments, but I would argue you can prove 2 people via phone...and what I meant about the fancying is that until you actually meet them face to face and get the whole package then you can never really tell...

...but as you say you aren't dependant, and that was probably a poor choice of words, and still can't think of the one I want, but I mean the people who say 'no cam, no meet' which I think is a bit o.t.t. personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were a shy couple btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only cam to prove I am female and even then I only show my head and shoulders and always fully dressed.

Maybe I am shy because of that but I refuse to put on a show for anyone no matter how often I have been asked and told I am a timewaster for not showing more than just my face.

Ohhh and Pussy hun I reallllllly dont think you have ever been shy I think you were born without the shy gene lol

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe I am shy because of that but I refuse to put on a show for anyone no matter how often I have been asked and told I am a timewaster for not showing more than just my face.

"

Pah! That's rubbish, they're just being pushy if they expect any more... at that point you should just ingore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohh hun I know that but it doesnt stop people trying to get me to show things I aint comfy enough to do.

But I always give 3 chances then they are blocked!!!

Shona

x x x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"But I always give 3 chances then they are blocked!!! "

3 chances Shona??

They don't get a 2nd chance with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever give 3 chances for anything hun

It doesnt matter if it was a coffee meet or a play meet if I think you are bullshitting me then you get blocked but I still want to believe that even tho I think its a bull excuse it might just might be real so thats why the 3 chances before blocking

Shona

x x x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I don't see why some people are so dependant on cams... to me most pictures are far clearer than any cam image and it still won't negate the possibility of you not fancying them when you meet them.

I've never owned a cam and never will, and certainly don't feel i'm missing out because of it. Each to their own i guess...

Hi, we're certainly not dependent upon cams and in fact rarely use them - however - it's dead easy to post pictures - we cam to ensure that there are 2 bods at the other end more than to se if we'll fancy them! Also a good way of making sure that the pictures are recent and not form 20 years ago!

Fair comments, but I would argue you can prove 2 people via phone...and what I meant about the fancying is that until you actually meet them face to face and get the whole package then you can never really tell...

...but as you say you aren't dependant, and that was probably a poor choice of words, and still can't think of the one I want, but I mean the people who say 'no cam, no meet' which I think is a bit o.t.t. personally."

For us the reason we say we won't meet anyone unless they and us have shown face on cam is....we cammed a man once who said he was 30, he looked about 18, another man said he was 42 and looked about 65. One man looked the spitting image of my brother ( but wasn't) that would have been too spooky to play with.

So wether people think it is OTT or not, we think it cuts out any waste of time.

We don't have oodles of time to take a chance on meeting someone we havn't seen and think we may get on with. Interacting on cam ( fully clothed) is one way of seeing if you laugh at the same things etc.

A picture could be of anyone, a cam at least you can see the person you might be meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A picture could be of anyone, a cam at least you can see the person you might be meeting "

Well as I said earlier each to their own.... isn't that what the photo verification if for though?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"A picture could be of anyone, a cam at least you can see the person you might be meeting "

And that's the sole reason why we insist on C2C chat before any meet

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"A picture could be of anyone, a cam at least you can see the person you might be meeting

Well as I said earlier each to their own.... isn't that what the photo verification if for though?"

The people we have met havn't had a PV, so we don't go on that either.

We like how we do things, and accept that others do things their way, but I wouldn't dream of questioning it, or saying they are OTT about anything.

People should do their own checks their own way and as ours works for us, that is how we do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well again, I did say each to their own... wasn't intending to offend by saying ott, although I am entitleted to question politely! and I accept your answers to it. That's what the forums are about!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Well again, I did say each to their own... wasn't intending to offend by saying ott, although I am entitleted to question politely! and I accept your answers to it. That's what the forums are about! "

We don't get offended easy, so np, but others do, so sometimes it inflames others by how people write things

Us? we don't question anyones preferences or how they do things, as you say, each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I'm just the curious type, and also I've never experienced anyone being someone other than who they say they are, or look different than their pics... just another thing others have ruined for us I suppose!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Guess I'm just the curious type, and also I've never experienced anyone being someone other than who they say they are, or look different than their pics... just another thing others have ruined for us I suppose!"

Yeah you are not wrong there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just go on to show them my tits, by the time they have looked they are mentally scared and dont want to meet.

oooooophs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only cam to prove I am female and even then I only show my head and shoulders and always fully dressed.

Maybe I am shy because of that but I refuse to put on a show for anyone no matter how often I have been asked and told I am a timewaster for not showing more than just my face.

Ohhh and Pussy hun I reallllllly dont think you have ever been shy I think you were born without the shy gene lol

Shona

x x x "

oh shona you sooooo wound me.

am as shy as can be when you meet me, well for the first 5 seconds and then i have my kit off ready for action

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I'm a shy single male out to prove am a legit single male - not believed though, I must be fake

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I'm a shy single male out to prove am a legit single male - not believed though, I must be fake"

Nearly spat my coffee on the screen then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks 4 that another different set of answers at least we dont feel alone on the cam thing all the ppl on our friends list we have seen on cam maby thats why our list is so small lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh and Pussy hun I reallllllly dont think you have ever been shy I think you were born without the shy gene lol

Shona

x x x

oh shona you sooooo wound me.

am as shy as can be when you meet me, well for the first 5 seconds and then i have my kit off ready for action"

OMG I nearly choked on my tea you shy even for 5 seconds?!?!?!?! yeah right I have heard all about you and nowhere was it said you were shy!!

But I will keep your secret wont tell anyone you are really shy just like I am shy NOT!!!!

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to cam to cam only to verify when possible but we are happy with a fem to fem call otherwise.

What really makes us laugh is when they are insistant you go on cam but their cam is in the wash/gone to the cinema/just broke that day and they arent prepared for a phone call as they are too shy/kids in bed/auntie's sister's dog is around....but they just have to see you because they think you sound fake ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well in all honesty, we have cammed but see it as a pain in the arse.

However,we do have several phone calls especialy between the girls,before a meet.

XXXX

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