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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm curious to know if there is a specific definition of soft swap? My partner and I are looking to play with couples, but do not want to engage in full swap. Penetration is for us only

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

As we understand it, it's anything but penetration, but as with everything in life you should only do what your comfortable with. X

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"As we understand it, it's anything but penetration, but as with everything in life you should only do what your comfortable with. X"

This would appear to be the generic definition.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Discuss it with potential meets. Soft swap with us would be very different to soft swap with some others. It really is up to the individual couple

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Soft swap done lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's whatever you want it to be. Discuss and agree it with your partner, and potential playmates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us soft swap is everything other than sex! But people need to talk about boundaries first off

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"As we understand it, it's anything but penetration, but as with everything in life you should only do what your comfortable with. X

This would appear to be the generic definition. "

That's also our definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing oral everything apart from full sex even just having sex next to a another couple can be hot too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's everything except penetration. It's a lot of fun and with us both being bi, there is more options to choose from.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We always took it as any sexual activity except penetration, when it was time to fuck we'd swap back to our own partners for that but were happy to do it alongside the other two.

We have also heard that some people regard soft-swinging as having sex with your own partner in the same room, or on the same bed as another couple, without any sexual contact.

It's probably best to make sure what you and the others mean before arranging a soft-swing meet.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Not sure if you can a such? Seems to mean slightly different things to different people in terms of the specific wills and will nots. For example some couples don't do kissing (We love kissing btw, it's key for us). We describe our self as a soft swap couple at the moment when playing with couples. We will swap partners but playing all together in the same space. The only thing we won't do is have penetrative sex with any one but our own partner.

I think in the broadest sense soft swap is the swapping of partners for everything but penetrative sex. But ever one has their on caveats on that.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No penetration.

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By *iBBW and hubbyCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We are currently soft swap couple and for us that means sexual contact with others but penetrative sex is just for us with our own partners. B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are currently soft swap couple and for us that means sexual contact with others but penetrative sex is just for us with our own partners. B x "
it is good with people you connect with x

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By *iBBW and hubbyCouple
over a year ago

oxford


"We are currently soft swap couple and for us that means sexual contact with others but penetrative sex is just for us with our own partners. B x it is good with people you connect with x "

For us there has to be connection otherwise we don’t play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are currently soft swap couple and for us that means sexual contact with others but penetrative sex is just for us with our own partners. B x it is good with people you connect with x

For us there has to be connection otherwise we don’t play! "
Totally we see it as dating as such for example we wouldn’t play with someone we wouldn’t date.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we can do either soft of full what we cant do is no kissing.if were not good enough to kiss were definitely not playing

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

When we started swinging we classed ourselves as soft swap as in everything except full penetration, we’re now full swap and absolutely love watching each other play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swap , is maybe for beginners, to ease yourself into the life style..We has hardened swingers would not meet any one if it's soft swap..it would be totally boring and unsatisfying.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

She prefers soft swap as my erect cock makes her laugh too much

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I would suggest you don't focus on terminology as much as communication. If your profile says you want soft-swap not full-swap then nobody should expect meets with you to involve penetrative sex. What level of interaction your play does involve is down to a conversation between you and interested parties.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Twenty years plus,still soft swap as per profile for us and still fucking each other like rabbits.

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