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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find? "

Feel your frustration.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

I have felt that same frustration OP. Currently have a FWB who lives in Scotland but now he's moving to London

Takes a few trail and errors to find someone, though I think the trick is to find a few that fufill different needs.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find? "

It’s very very difficult.

Even the early stages when just discussing things is difficult.....there was me thinking it’s easy but it isn’t....

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

In my case its hard because of where I live (not many swingers on the east coast compared to big cities); the fact that I am male, almost 60 and not that good looking.

As for you OP I have no idea …. but keep looking I am sure you will find one and whoever it is will be very happy I am sure xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have felt that same frustration OP. Currently have a FWB who lives in Scotland but now he's moving to London

Takes a few trail and errors to find someone, though I think the trick is to find a few that fufill different needs."

Lucky you! And yes I think having a few is the answer but even finding one regular seems to be difficult. Perhaps I need to move again

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find? "

we are out there waiting for you to find us , we are only a message away ,

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yep it's like finding a needle in a haystack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find?

It’s very very difficult.

Even the early stages when just discussing things is difficult.....there was me thinking it’s easy but it isn’t....

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We've been looking for at least 2 years for one for Scooby and also one for me, it's a desert out there. We're both kind, gentle, love a laugh and not weird, well maybe a little still hoping. But until then we will still have couple fun. Male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case i got a wink from a couole on here. Met the lovely wife for coffee and 4.5 years later we are still having amazing fun. Not what i was looking for or expected..but they have become good friends too. Takes patience, time invested in meeting right people (always do a social meet first to test the spark factor) and i suppose some luck. Busty...sure you wont have any issues for volunteers but its all about finding the right one

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

There are a few willing volunteers out here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find? "

I've been wondering since 2012 when I joined fab..

Found someone 2 years ago who became my regular fabber but he disappeared from fab last year. Once in a while he comes back to remind of good times though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't look ... might have more luck!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"Don't look ... might have more luck! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key is not to look it just happens

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Exactly Kelly

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Share your frustration OP.

Anyone looking in the Cheshire/North West area then please enquire within...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The key is not to look it just happens"

This. Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although it’s what I look for too I don’t meet people trying to figure out whether they could be. I meet them hoping to have a good time and enjoy the moment. If it evolves in that direction it’s a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find? "

I feel your pain OP, but I am rather surprised that you're having problems finding one.

If you were just a little nearer I would jump at the chance to have you as a fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't look ... might have more luck! "

I concur with the duchesses concurrence

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By *arkhorse66Man
over a year ago

bristol

I think there’s plenty of both ladies and men looking for the same, but as always the location, status and attraction / chemistry has to match!

Available in Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some lovely FWB on here.

OP I guess it depends on what you mean by regular? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find? "

I’m not sure but we have the same trouble. We’d drop to fuck buddies instead of fwb but it’s still tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't look ... might have more luck! "

Exactly what MissJ says. She’s often right...

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By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find? "

It is indeed! I met a lovely lass in a club not long after I joined fab and we ended up becoming guid FWB'sfor a couple of years, even having a couples profile. Unfortunately she found a real life BF and we went our seperate ways.

I have been seeking someone who is open to the idea of FWB and even restructured my profile but alas, no luck as of yet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding a regular sane single fem partner on Fabs is nigh on impossible.

Most just seem to oppertunists who are easily cock struck.

I've heard all the bullshit about being mates, having feelings for me and I'm leaving Fabs because I want more.

I've had a few and to be honest I'm well rid and much happier for it.

Couples seem to be different and much more grounded though, don't bullshit and are not selfish.

I've been meeting a couple on a regular basis and they're ace!

Redefine your search Buddy and look for a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also looking for fwb in the south Manchester area

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where

Someone help define fwb for me I know the acronym but I’m not sure will understand the level of commitment. What is it people are seeking/hoping for ?

I ask mainly because I read above that fuck buddy is the next level down?

Confused ?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"Someone help define fwb for me I know the acronym but I’m not sure will understand the level of commitment. What is it people are seeking/hoping for ?

I ask mainly because I read above that fuck buddy is the next level down?

Confused ? "

Friends with benefits

So friendship cones first. And it's not always going to involve fucking. Could be hey Wana come cinema with me and the next day, hey Wana fuck. But as with life if can mean many things to many people so it should be laid down what each person's idea of it is before going forward with it.

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By *dventurous fellaMan
over a year ago

where


"Someone help define fwb for me I know the acronym but I’m not sure will understand the level of commitment. What is it people are seeking/hoping for ?

I ask mainly because I read above that fuck buddy is the next level down?

Confused ?

Friends with benefits

So friendship cones first. And it's not always going to involve fucking. Could be hey Wana come cinema with me and the next day, hey Wana fuck. But as with life if can mean many things to many people so it should be laid down what each person's idea of it is before going forward with it."

Ah ok so more like a casual/open relationship deal type !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a regular fwb so difficult to find? "

still searching too after over a year and a couple of false alarms

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I'd like to say 'beats me' but really I think it's down to people being too judgemental about other people's profiles and not giving them enough of a chance to express themselves properly...

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

We are not hard to find your just looking in the wrong places ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to say 'beats me' but really I think it's down to people being too judgemental about other people's profiles and not giving them enough of a chance to express themselves properly... "

True!

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