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Taking one for the team in a full swap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In a full couple swap would you or have you really not found your swap attractive at all and just fucked them because your partner was happy with their swap? G xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. we must both agree!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"In a full couple swap would you or have you really not found your swap attractive at all and just fucked them because your partner was happy with their swap? G xx

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We don't play like that. If we meet another couple then it has to be attraction all round (apart from fellas). Never take one for the team and prefer group play to straight swopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never did this as a teenager when out with mates so certainly wouldn't be doing it as an adult.

I'd find it impossible to become aroused if I didn't find someone attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would fk a man I didn't find attractive in a couple swap if Charlie fancied the lady. I would take one for the team yesXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it’s different for real couples than for play partners. I’d do it occasionally. You never really know what a person is going to be like naked and skill and imagination aren’t visual qualities. If it was a repeat pattern though - his needs coming before mine. No. He could bugger off.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No. We both have to be attracted or it isn't happening. For me, a healthy swinging relationship never includes "taking one for the team". There has to be mutual respect and mutual enjoyment. I wouldn't, and couldn't have sex with a person I wasn't attracted to and wouldn't expect my husband too.

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

All the nopes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have and know we shouldn’t have too but laugh about it together so no damage done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But theres a caveat in that what I find attractive in one half of a couple is not the same as what I would have looked for 1 on 1.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

P says she's taken one for the team but she didn't really as she took one for herself as she really wanted to play with the female.

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

No. We haven't and won't ever do this. If there is no attraction there as a couple then we might as well stay with each other. It's not a turn on knowing the other person isn't happy do we immediately say if we don't feel it x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, how insulting to the person. I really hope I've never been the one being fucked so his Mrs could have a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likewise, there has to be a mutual x2 per swapped couple or even better x4 of you - otherwise it can all go very flat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It needs to feel right with another couple's for that fun naughty buzz we all like.

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple
over a year ago

coventry

Looking back yes. Both joke about it xx

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

We find that one in the couple is always going to be more satisfied than the other this can work both ways for husband or wife but all part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i ever did swing wich is very very unlikley no id not take one for the team i know my worth nor would i expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no from us although we have both been in situations where one of us has enjoyed it more than the other, there has still to be an attraction for both of us though. Male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr F here - I definitely would as would Mrs F, but it's harder for a guy to get aroused with someone you just don't fancy, the little fella has to stand up to attention haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mr F here - I definitely would as would Mrs F, but it's harder for a guy to get aroused with someone you just don't fancy, the little fella has to stand up to attention haha."
haha yes that’s true! G xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a no from us although we have both been in situations where one of us has enjoyed it more than the other, there has still to be an attraction for both of us though. Male "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We find that one in the couple is always going to be more satisfied than the other this can work both ways for husband or wife but all part of the fun. "
interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking back yes. Both joke about it xx"
well least you can joke about it G xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Likewise, there has to be a mutual x2 per swapped couple or even better x4 of you - otherwise it can all go very flat"

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante


"We find that one in the couple is always going to be more satisfied than the other this can work both ways for husband or wife but all part of the fun. "

Exactly, totally agree with you here, but it’s just great when it all works out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't take one for the team, it's not so much on attraction but personality. It we all don't click and have some good banter then it won't go anywhere, no matter how pretty they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope that doesn't happen in our team

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Phill took one for the team. He loves BBW and chubby wife’s he had sex with a slim one but couldn’t get hard sorry if it upsets people ! but with him been slim well skinny he just loves curvy ladies

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Phill took one for the team. He loves BBW and chubby wife’s he had sex with a slim one but couldn’t get hard sorry if it upsets people ! but with him been slim well skinny he just loves curvy ladies "

It doesn't upset me but why did he do it. The poor slim lady

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

He just didn’t find her attractive they talked about it in bed together and was fine about it / look it’s his thing ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Either we both want to or we don’t at all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"He just didn’t find her attractive they talked about it in bed together and was fine about it / look it’s his thing ??"

I'm not criticising his thing, he's not alone in preferring BBWs and that's fine by me. All I said was I don't understand why he went ahead.

Imagine the outrage if you'd posted that he couldn't get it up because she was BBW.

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Yes we know she was gorgeous but that his thing sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hence we always have a social first..we agreed early on..all involved have to have an attraction..once established..fantastic fun..simples.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've always said we would never take one for the team!...it has to be a mutual attraction for everyone! It's why we also have a social first to see how we all get on!

PT x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district


"We find that one in the couple is always going to be more satisfied than the other this can work both ways for husband or wife but all part of the fun. "

Agree with this, it's only casual sex after all. All sex is good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a full couple swap would you or have you really not found your swap attractive at all and just fucked them because your partner was happy with their swap? G xx

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I did once... never ever again..i felt dirty afterwards..not in a good way either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally both need to be attracted but there have been play sessions where it has ended up being very unbalanced.

Usually this has been unintentional, like for example where the disappointing factor wasn't immediately apparent before play commenced. We've had that on both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are average looking. We’re average looking. This is NSA sex with a four way dynamic, not looking for a partner. It’s often more about the situation, the others personality’s and a general vibe and not just looks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We generally both need to be attracted but there have been play sessions where it has ended up being very unbalanced.

Usually this has been unintentional, like for example where the disappointing factor wasn't immediately apparent before play commenced. We've had that on both sides. "

Yes, that's always possible. I'd never go ahead if I wasn't interested in the first place though.

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Not taking one for the team as such but we where at a party and talking to a couple were the wife was a good few years over our normal play age. Mrs PnJ asked me discretely if I was ok with it and I said yes as they seemed nice enough. Well oh my good did she have skills, still not sure what she was doing with her hips but it was bloody amazing.

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